Ingxaki yentsholongwane yintsholongwane yintlupheko engathandabuzekiyo: inokuyigqitha njengengqungquthela kunye neengxaki zokuziphatha, ezibangela ukuba abazali bangakhathazeki kodwa bacaphuke. Okwangoku, ukuba umntwana onamava angenakunzima, akayi kuthintela ekukhohliseni nakwehlwayo, ngamanye amaxesha awela kumahlazo-esi sihlandlo sokuphendukela kwingcali. Naluphi na ukuxilongwa, abantu abadala kufuneka bahambisane nemithetho emithathu ebalulekileyo.
Okokuqala - ungabandakanyeki kwiyeza. I-neurologist okanye i-therapist kufuneka inqume ingxaki kwaye uyilungise. Uhlolisisa ngenyameko umntwana, uhlola ngokuchanekileyo ubukho bentsholongwane, ingozi efanelekileyo kwaye ukhetha inkqubo yokupheliswa kwayo.
Isiseko semibonakalo ye-neurotic idla ngamava amaninzi, amava angamangalisi okanye ukwesaba okwenene. Ulwalamano lwentsapho, inkqubo ekhunileyo yezihlwayo, ukwenqatshwa kwezinto ezinobungozi kunokwazi "ukugubungela" inkqubo yokukhathazeka yomntwana. Umsebenzi wabazali kukuzama ukunciphisa impembelelo engaphandle yangaphandle.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ugqirha unobungcali, umsebenzi oyintloko wokuvuselelwa komntwana uwela kumahlombe kwabazali. Uthando olunzulu, ukuqonda kunye nokuqwalasela iimfuno zentsana zidla ngokugqithiseleyo kunamacwecwe kunye neenkqubo.