Amadoda ayenayo: ibuhlungu-bayabandezeleka, bacaphuke - bangazili, bayaphoswa - bayathula. Abasetyhini, ukuba ziimvakalelo zengqondo, zivakalisa iimvakalelo zabo ngokucacileyo kwaye ngokucacileyo. Bakufumanisa kunzima ukuqonda ukuba kutheni iimvakalelo zifanele zihluthe xa intliziyo ichithwe ngothando? Kodwa amadoda ayathula. Aphosiwe, kodwa ba cwaka. Nguwuphi na iimpawu onokucinga ukuba indoda ayikhathaleli kwaye iyakhathazeka?
- Ndibize, ndibize. Amadoda aqwalasela iifowuni yokuqhubeka kwabo, akufuneki ukuba bacele. Bambiza rhoqo, nangona bengabibizi isizathu sangempela sofowuni. Hayi, loo mntu akaphosi! Kukho nawuphi na, akathethi ngqo. Ufuna nje ukwazi sonke isiqingatha seyure into oyenzayo? Baphi? Ngubani odibana naye? Ngaba uyazi ukuba kukho imvula ngaphandle, phantsi kwengxolo apho intliziyo ihlala ibuhlungu? Uyakhumbula ukuvumba kwala ma chrysanthemums akunike lona ngomhla wokuqala? Ungazikhumbuli njani? Ngoko, lixesha lokuhlangana ukuze uphinde uphinde ube yisipho!
- Ukuhlaselwa ngemilayezo. Amadoda amaninzi, ngenxa yeengcamango zabo "ezintle", kulula ukuthetha nomfazi othandekayo ngokubhaliweyo, kunokuba bathethe ingxoxo. Lo mntu kulula ngamaxesha amaninzi ngeyure ukubhalela i-SMS. Kwaye nangona igrama yakhe ikhubazekile, kwaye imilayezo ayithwali umthwalo omkhulu wokumisa umzimba, into ebalulekileyo kuye kufuneka ihlale idibanisa nawe. Amanye amadoda emva kweenkcukacha azama ukufihla iimvakalelo zinyani, ezikuloo ngxoxo ziya kunika isigxininiso sezwi, ziphazamise ukuphazamisa, ukubetha okanye kungekho kwinqaku elikhunileyo. Ukubambisana nale nto kulula - kukho ixesha lokucinga yonke into, hlola isicatshulwa iimpazamo uze ufihle phakathi kwemizila into eqhoshayo yothando.
- Kuwe, njengesibuko ndibukeka. Indoda ephosakeleyo ayihlali isanele. Akakwazi ukubona okwaneleyo kuwe. Unentlanganiso encinci okanye iintlanganiso ezinobungane, ngoko uxhoma kwiintanethi zentlalo kumaphepha akho. Ulandela ubomi bakho ngokusebenzisa i-intanethi, uthanda iifoto, kwaye uvela ngeempendulo zangaphambili, mhlawumbi nge-subtitle apho kufuneka uqonde ukulangazelela kwakhe. Kwakhona ukuba uqonde ukuba umntu uyaphuka, unokuthi, ukuba akuthumele uSelfie wakhe, umzekelo, ngesifiso sobusuku obuhle okanye kusasa. Ufuna ukwazi indlela ubomi bakho obuhamba ngayo, ngemizuzu kunye neeyure xa engazange ejikeleze, kwaye akakwazi ukukubona.
- Isipho sememori. Ukuba "uhleli" entloko yendoda, uya kufuna ukuba ahambe naye umfanekiso wakho kuphela, kodwa uyakhunjuzwa ngokwenene. Ngokomzekelo, unokucela enye i-gizmos yakho njengesipho, ithoyizi elithambileyo okanye i-trinket ethenge yona ngokukhethekileyo. Ukuba umntu nentliziyo yakho inhle, ungamkeli kule sicelo encinci. Yenza le sipho libe yimascot. Mkhombise iintsuku ezimbalwa kunye nawe, unike amandla akho nothando. Ngoko uya kuba negunya elijika nayiphi na into ibe yinto.
- Mnu Bond. Umntu okhutheleyo kunye nomsebenzi ongeyena mntu uya kubuhlungu, ukucwina nje ngesithombe sakho okanye ukukhumbula indlela owememeza ngayo ngeliholide kunye nomhlobo. Uya kusebenza ngokufuna iindlela zokusondela kuwe. Ukuba ubona ubuncwane bakhe bobufihlakeleyo (jonga imifanekiso yokuvakatyelela rhoqo kwiifayili zakho ze-intanethi, yiva kubantu abaqhelekileyo ababacelayo ngawe, njl.), Akungabazeki ukuba ucinga ngawe, kwaye ukuba akayi kuphindile naye , emva koko uncumo lwakho okanye ezinye iimpawu zokunakwa, kwaye uya kutyhukela! Ukuba awukaboni ukuba ngaba ufuna umntu, cinga ngokukhawuleza. Amadoda okuqala asetyenziswa njengama-pie ashushu ngosuku olushushu.
- Yeyiphi intlanganiso! Eli binzana unokuliva kumntu onokusoloko ehlaselwa "ngengozi" adibanisa kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo. Uyabonakala kwiqela kwiqela lakho ozithandayo, ubhala kwi-gym, enokutyelela kuyo, uqhuba enye kunye nawe uthutha ukuya emsebenzini, kwaye ekugqibeleni udibana naye kwinkampani yabahlobo bobudlelwane. Ngenye indlela? Ngaphandle. Indoda engaphethiyo nje, kodwa ifuna ukuzaliseka kwemvakalelo yakhe, ayiyi kuhlala yodwa. Uyaqonda ukuba yena ngokwakhe ungumkhandi wokhuseleko lwakhe, kwaye ufuna ithuba lokufumana amehlo akho rhoqo ukuba ucinge ngako, okanye mhlawumbi kuphelelwe?
- Ukunakekelwa okufihliweyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba umntu uyatyhutyha kwaye uyamkela ngokucacileyo oku, unyanzelekile ukunyamekela kwakhe. Kodwa umntu ozama ukufihla ngasese unobungozi naye unokungenakho ukunyamekela kunye nokunyamekela - ukusuka kwimbala ayithandayo (iifomfesi, i-scarf afudumele, i-mittens, njl.), Wanikela ngokungaziwa kwimoto phantsi kweefestile zommangali ofihlayo ohamba naye ukuze Ndandiphazamiseka ekuhambeni kwezithuthi zikawonkewonke. Kwintlalo yethu, oku kubizwa ngokuba ngumntu wesenzo. Kungenjalo, yintoni injongo yokulahleka ngokukhawuleza umfazi kwaye ungayinikeli loo mvakalelo yendalo yokuba unokuyenza kwaye uyayenza injabulo?
- Amabango ngokucaphuka. Umntu ongenamdla akanakho izikhalazo kunye nentukuthelo. Akenanto akwenzayo nonke. Yaye ukuba ummangali wakho ukhubekile, unomsindo, unomona (nangona kunjalo, ngomoya ongenakuphikisana nomoya), uyazi-uphefumla ngokungalingani nawe. "Kutheni ungaphenduli iifowuni?", "Kutheni kukho amadoda amaninzi kuwe?" "Kutheni ungeze udibane nam namhlanje?" "Ungumngqumbo ongenamdla!", Njalo. Umntu uphoswa, ucinge ngawe kwaye ufuna impendulo, nokuba iyakubonisa iimvakalelo ngesiginci esincinci. Ngoko khumbula, ukuba uyasabela kumabango anjalo ngendlela engavunyelwanga, engahloniphiyo kunye nomzwelo, kuye kungathi into eyodwa kuphela - awunamdla kuye, kuba umfazi ongathandekiyo akayi kuchitha amandla akhe kwisithuba esingenanto.
- Intlanganiso ngaphandle kokuhlukana. Ukuba umntu ukhulile kuwe ngentliziyo yakhe yonke, sele akakwazi ukunyamekela ukuba zonke iintlanganiso zakho zinomzuzwana wokuhlukana. Ngako oko, kungabi naso ixesha lokutshilola kuwe emva komhla wokuqala, sele uceba isibini. Kwaye, ngokubanzi, zonke iintlanganiso zakho zifana nokuhlaziywa kweminye yokuphila kwangomnye kunye: uzisa wena kubahlobo kunye nabazali, ubonisa indlu yakhe, abuze indlela oza kuxhobisa ngayo ikhitshi, igumbi lokulala, kunye namanesi. Kukhokelela kwisigqibo sokuba ungabi nxalenye kwakhona, ngenxa yokuba usuke ukhathele ukulahleka.