Yintoni eyona nto ifunekayo yintombi esanda kuba ngumama? Ekuqondeni, ngenkxaso, ngelixesha eli cebiso kwaye, eqinisweni, kuzo zonke "izinto" ezimangalisayo eziqulunqwe uluntu ukunciphisa iingxaki zasekhaya, kuba kukho ukudideka "kwindlela entsha" yobunina, kwaye umntu kufuneka achithe ixesha ekuqondeni kwakhe, njengoko besithi, ngaphandle kweqela kwimveliso. Iimeko zengxamiseko zenzeka phantse. Ingane yakhala, nakuba ilambile kwaye iyomile, yintoni oyenzayo? Ndibiza bani na? Ngubani obonisana naye? Ixesha lokudla kokuqala. Ungampheka njani ukutya? Kwaye ngokubanzi - yintoni na ukunikela ngayo?
Kwaye konke oku "kuphazamisekile" ngexesha lobomi bomama omncinci, kukho inkxalabo eninzi yokuba, ngokuza komama, akukho mntu uyisusile kuye.Ukuyenza njani ubomi bakho bube lula?
Mama, uphi na?
Naluphi ubuhlobo bakho nomama wakho okanye umamazala ngaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana wakho, ngoku kufuneka yonke into ishintshwe. Okokuqala, unengqiqo elinganayo - bobabili boomama kunye bobabini banenkxalabo ngabantwana bakho - ngohlobo olulodwa: unyoko sele sele ehamba nantoni na ozama ukuyiqonda. Unamava. Yaye ukuba akavumelani nokuqonda kwaye enganikeli "icebiso loogogokazi kwi-bencini," ukumncenga ngeengcebiso eziyimfuneko kumama omncinci akuyi kukukunceda nje ukuba ujamelane neengxaki ezivelayo, kodwa ... uqinisa ulwalamano lwakho, sondeza Okunye: ngoku ngoku uya kuqala ukuqonda umama wakho kunanini ngaphambili.
Intanethi unamandla onke
Ewe, apho ngaphandle kwakhe. Yonke into ilapha. Kodwa ukuphazamiseka kukuba kuya kufuneka 'ucofale' ulwazi ngokwakho, maxa wambi iingcebiso ziya kufana neziphakamiso ezifanayo zengxabano "ngoomakhulukazi ebhentshini." Nangona kunjalo, ukuba wena ubhekise ebomini ngobulumko kwaye wazi indlela yokuhlukanisa imbewu kwiququ, i-intanethi iya kukunika inkonzo enenzuzo. Apha ungayifumana into oyithandayo: amanqaku malunga nezihloko ezithandayo okwangoku, iiforamatic ezifanayo ezifana nawe, oomama abancinci, iifowuni ze-polyclinics eziyimfuneko, amaziko okuphuhlisa, abacebisi.
Intombi
Ukuba unayo intombi ebelethe umntwana phambi kwakho, ngoku uya kuba ngumntu ongenakuphika. Uya kuxhasa, kwaye acebise ishishini kwaye aphulaphule. Emva kwakho konke, ngamanye amaxesha oku akunakwaneleyo kakhulu - ukungena kwiinkxalabo zakho, iingxaki, amava. Akayi kubuhlungu, njengomzekelo, ongenawo umntwana kwaye engatshatanga xa iintombi zakho, xa uneminyaka eyikhulu kuya kuba yinto engento yokubuyisela into yokuba umntwana wakho ufundile, uya kuqonda ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani le mibuzo ukuba "Kutheni engadli?", "Ngaba , ukuba akazange aye ebhodweni kanye ngosuku? "Nguye kuphela oya kuqonda ukuba oku akuyibubudenge, kuba yena ngokwakhe wayesandul 'ukuhlala kwimeko efanayo, kwaye wena, undikholelwe, wayenenhlanhla ngaphezu kwakhe, kuba yena, mhlawumbi, kwakungekho umhlobo onomdla ongenawo umva, oya kuba neengcebiso eziyimfuneko kumama oselula.
Umyeni ozithandayo
Ewe, kunokwenzeka ukuphulaphula amazambane ahlambulukileyo kunye ne-shit, kodwa ayimfuneko. Ukuva inkxaso yendoda enothando, unokukwazi ukuphatha ngokukhawuleza ukukhathazeka kwimihla ngemihla malunga nosana, ukunyamezela ukukhathala, kuba uya kukunika ithemba lokuba wenza kakuhle nento yonke. Njengoko kwathethwa kwi-series eyaziwayo yeTV, "Ubaba ococekileyo nguye oza kuthiwa ngowona mfazi unomuva ongcono." Kwaye izazi zeengqondo zibiza umnqweno wokuqala emva kokuzalwa komntwana wokuqala kwexesha elibuhlungu, uninzi lwawo alumi "lu vavanyo ngumntwana" kwaye luyahlukana. Kodwa ngamandla akho ukwenza njalo ukuze ungangeni kulezi zibalo ezibuhlungu. Into ephambili kukuba uqonde ukuba umthandayo, njengaloo, uhlala esetyenziselwa inxaxheba entsha kwipapa, kwaye kunzima kuye. Ukufumana ukuyekethisa, ukuxhasana, uya kuhlonipha kule nkathazo, ukuqinisa ngakumbi ubudlelwane beentsapho.
Ugqirha, yintoni le?
Akukho sikhokelo sokuzinza komama osemncinci kunokuba udibene noqhagamshelwano olungumntwana. Kwanele ukuza kubonisana ne-polyclinic yabantwana kanye ngenyanga, iimfuno zokubonisana ziyavela, njengokuba umthetho, ngokuthe rhoqo. Uyakwazi ukufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo kunye nezingane zakudala - uza kuba nethuba lokumkhawulela njengoko kunesidingo ngcebiso eluncedo kumama oselula. Enyanisweni, ukufuna ukunyaniseka kumntwana ovela kwikliniki yesithili, enabantu abanjengawe, imoto kunye nenqwelo encinci, akunakwenzeka njalo. Kodwa baninzi abanye oogqirha. Ewe, kunokwenzeka ukuba, ezo nxu lumano ziya kubonakaliswa kwizibalo ezithile kubhajethi yakho yentsapho, kodwa, kholwa, uxolo lwakho lwengqondo luxabisa ngakumbi.
Ufuna iingcebiso
Ukongeza kwirejista "yegosa", kukho iingcali ezininzi oza kudibana naye ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva, umzekelo, umntwana onomntwana omncinci uyakulinganisa ubunzima bawo kwigolide, enokucetyiswa kwiklinikhi yabantwana bakho, kodwa kungekhona into yokuba uya kuvuya ngayo. Kwaye kudingeke ukuba i-massage iyimfuneko! Ngamanye amaxesha abacebisi bokuncelisa abantwana bayaba ngabacebisi abayimfuneko .Kuvuyiswa kukuba ezininzi zeefowuni ziza kukhululeka kwiingcali ezinjalo.Anganqikazi ukubiza! Kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu, unokubiza umncedisi ekhaya. kodwa, unokucela konke okufanayo kwidokotela wezingane, kodwa kungekho njalo, maye, le ngcaciso ichanekile.
Blender kunye neNkampani
Akumangalisi ukuba umshini wokuhlamba wawuqulunqwe ngumfazi, ngelixa amadoda azinzileyo kwaye alima ama-expanses olwandle. Kukho rhoqo ukuhlamba endlwini apho umntwana ekhula khona. Kwaye ukuba ungenayo le ncedisi kodwa okanye ukuba umntu omdala akahambisani nawe ngesizathu esithile, faka "intonga" kwoluhlu lwezinto ezifunekayo ngokuthenga ngokukhawuleza. Xa ukhetha umzekelo, khetha oku kulapho kukho ukuhlambulula okongezelelweyo kunye nencwadana, ngokukodwa ukuhlamba okulula. i-dishwasher iya kuba ngumncedisi oyimfuneko, iya kukugcina ixesha elininzi kunye neentsholongwane. Xa umntwana eqala, kukho ukukhwela, uya kukhumbula ukuba kukho i-blender endlini yakho - ungagubhi onke la mazambane athatywayo endala, kwi-grater. kwaye i-humidifier emoyeni ayigxininisi yokucoca i-vacuum nefayile yokucoca amanzi, xa umntwana ekhulile, mhlawumbi ucinga ngokuthenga umthamo ongu-steamer. Ngamanye amagama, awunabo, ihlabathi lonke liyakhathalela ukwenza kube lula kwaye kukhululekile kuwe.