Ubuhle obunzima
Iingxaki ziyingxaki enkulu kubo bonke abafazi. Ukuba uyayibheka ngokulandelelana - ungayithandi ngani wena? Isizathu sokuqala sokuba kutheni umfazi azizondayo. Amaphephancwadi aqaqambileyo, amantombazana amnandi, ihlabathi lefashini - wonke umntu ufuna ukuthobela iimfuno zamabhinqa kunye neentlungu. Ukuba ufuna ukulahlekelwa isisindo ngokufumana inqeni elincinci, akukho bani uya kukuhlambalaza oku. Kuphela wena-kutheni kufuneka ulahlekelwe isisindo? Ngaba wena okanye ezinye iinjongo zabantu? Ukuba u-UVlas ukuphefumula ukuphefumula, kunzima ukuba ukhuphuke izitebhisi okanye ungakhululeki ukuhlala bunzima kakhulu, ke qiniseka ukuhlala phantsi kwi-nadiet uze ungene kwimidlalo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba intanda yakho okanye umama wakho uthi into ebuye yabuyisela, musa ukulila. Khangela ubuso bakho ngamehlo akho, kungekhona ngamehlo abanye. Qiniseka ukuba uzithintela umzimba, kungekhona kumntu.
Abanye besetyhini banakekele ubuso obungaphelele okanye amabele amancinci, abangezinwele ezide okanye iinwele ezinkulu. Ezi ziphoso ziyakwazi ukulungiswa kuphela ngophando lweplastiki. Ukuba bekukhona ithuba lokusasaza, ngaba uya kulala phantsi kweelayi lomhlinza? Ngaphandle. Kuvele nje ukuba kuya kuba nemali, ngoko uya kwenza utyando lweplastiki. Funda ngale ndawo "inkohlakalo", uyifihle ngokufanelekileyo, nangona kunjalo, ngokungathandabuzeki ugcizelela isidima sakho. Ukuba uphosa isidima sakho, ngoko uya kubaphulaphula, ke iifayile zakho ezincinane kwaye akukho mntu uya kuzibona.
Umncedisi onzima
Abasetyhini abaninzi banenkxalabo malunga nobunzima bomfazi. Umzekelo, abanye abantu bacinga ukuba abapheki kakuhle, abahlambulukanga. Andiyi kufihla, amava amaninzi kakhulu kwi-uszarozhdaet umntu osondeleyo - indoda yakho ethandekayo. Ngesinye isikhathi esathi isitya asizange sisebenze, ngoko siqala ukuxhalabisa ngamakhono abo okutya. Makhe sijonge ngoku ngokunyanisekileyo. Lungiselela isidlo sesitya, isobho okanye isaladi yonke, ukuqala ngabafundi. Ngethamsanqa, kukho iindlela zokupheka zokupheka kunye neenyawo zenyathelo, apho unokufunda khona ukupheka. Asipheki izitya ezinokusetyenziswa ngoncedo, kuphela xa iholide. Zithathele umthetho, kanye ngeveki, sifunde ubuncinane iresiphi enye.
Ukuba umntu oyithandayo uyondliwa ngokutya, kwaye uvumela ukuhamba kwamagqabaza, njengokuthi: "Umama uphekela bhetele", "awukwazi ukwenza nantoni na," ungatsho ukuba "ubawo unenzuzo kakhulu". Le yindlela ebangela ukuba amadoda angaphezu kwamandla athile abone iincinane nje. Kwaye, inyaniso, cinga, kutheni, ukuba engazi indlela yokwenza imali, ngaba ufanele ukupheka ngokumnandi? Ukuhlambalaza kunye nokuhlambalaza okuhlukeneyo kunokwenza umfazi ongenamdla kwanawesifazane othembekileyo kakhulu.
Inkqubo kaMama
Ubunzima bomama bubona buqhelekileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kubakho ngezizathu ezibini. Iyokuqala: ukuthelekisa umntwana kunye nabanye abantwana, kunye nesibini: inani elincinane linikezelwe umntwana. Thelekisa umntwana wakho kunye nabanye akufanelekanga. Ewe, ndifuna abantwana bakho babe ngabaqili nabafundi. Kodwa ngaba ngabantwana bakho, bakhuliswa ngawe, bathatha umzekelo womdlalo. Oku kuthetha ukuba akukho nto embi kubo. Ewe, ukuba abanye abazali bayaziqhayisa ngeempumelelo zabantwana babo, kwaye wena, ngokuqhelekileyo, unanto yokuziqhayisa, kuya kuba ngcikiva. Musa ukwenza inkwenkwe yakho enomsindo ukuya esikolweni somculo, njengabahlobo, kwaye ubhale phantsi kwinqwelo. Ukuba intombazana yakho ithule kwaye iyathobekile, kuba kutheni ukuba idonse, ngoko wayengeke akhathazeke ngendawo? Mhlawumbi umntwana wakho uthanda ukudweba yedwa, ngoko ucinga iiklasi ze-okhudozhestvennyh. Musa ukubalingisa abahlobo, abantwana bahluke, wonke umntu unetalente, uyihlakulele kwaye uya kuba nokuziqhayisa, kuba sele ibaluleke kakhulu.
Inkomfa yexesha elilahlekileyo
Ewe, kufuneka usebenze ukondla umntwana wakho, uthethe naye ngeveki, kwaye ngeentsuku zeveki unayo ixesha lokupheka into kwaye ulale. Umntwana wakho uyaxhalaka ngaphandle kokuqwalasela, nangona kunjalo, unokufumana indlela yokuphuma kule meko. Yiba nesiqingatha seeyure zomntwana wakho. Ungazibiza ngokuthi "Isiqingatha se-Hour Masha", umzekelo. Makube iiyure ngaphambi kokulala okanye iiyure emva kweentsuku zomsebenzi. Konke oku, udlale, uthethe, ubonise umdla. Buza ama-opera okuzonwabisa, malunga namagama ozithandayo, malunga nezipho - nayiphi na into enokuba nomdla kumntwana. Mfundise ukuba alandele ixesha, kulula kakhulu ukuchaza ukuba ukusuka ku-21: 00 ukuya ku-21.30 ixesha lokudlala naye, kwaye ke unemimiselo enyanzelekileyo, oyenzayo ngenxa yomntwana. Ingane yakho iya kusetshenziselwa ngokuthe ngcembe, ingabi yi-vasotvlechat ngexesha lokupheka okanye ukucoca.
Inkqubo enzima
Ukuxhamla emsebenzini kuvela ngenxa yokuba ufumana encinci, kwaye mhlawumbi awazi ukuba ungahamba njani neqela. Kwimeko yokuqala, kufuneka unqume oko ufanele. Ukuba unenkolelo eqinileyo yokuba ngamava kunye neziqinisekiso zakho umvuzo kufuneka ube kathathu ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ngoko nangoko ukhangela esinye isithuba. Ukuba awuyithandi umvuzo, nangona ulungeleleneyo, zama ukucinga ngento encinci ongayenza kuyo inkampani. Naliphi na izinto ezincinci zibalulekile, ukusuka ekulungiseni umsebenzi ukutsala abathengi abatsha. Ukuba usebenza kakhulu, uya kuphawulwa ngulawulo, kwaye kunokukho iindlela ezintsha zokukhula kwenkampani. Ungesabi ukuphumeza imibono yezoshishino ngokuvula ibhizinisi elizimeleyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukufumana amava, abafazi bavula ishishini labo, kwaye baqwalasele zonke iindlela zokuphuhlisa.
Ukuba ingxaki yakho kukungakwazi ukuhambelana neqela, vumela abantu babe ngabanye. Yeka ukwenza ngenxa yomntu onomsindo nesisilumko, kunye nabasebenzi abayizithulu. Oku akusiyo ingxaki yakho, kodwa umntu ngamnye unelungelo. Zama ukufumana malunga nokuhlobisa, mhlawumbi umntu uthatha inceba okanye ngumqeshwa obalulekileyo. Inyaniso yokuba awukwazi ukwenza abahlobo naye akuthethi ukuba bonke abaqeshwa ababi okanye ungumtsalane. Xoxa nabo kuphela kwi-mereneobhodimosti, ngexesha lesidlo okanye ngexesha lokuphuka, kodwa njengobungane kunokwenzeka. Ungafungi ngamathambo, phumula.
Zonke iindawo eziyinkimbinkimbi zisekelwe kulokho umntu akucebisile kuwe, oko kungcono kakhulu. Kufuneka uvume ngokwakho. Ukuba ngaba ufuna ukwenza ngcono, ke utshintshe, ungahlali, ucingisise malunga nokusilela. Zonke ezandleni zakho!