Impilo yentlalo-yengqondo yemindeni ezuze ngaphantsi ixhomekeke kuyo? Iyintoni isimo sayo, iimpawu ezikhethekileyo, yintoni umehluko phakathi kweentsapho ezifumana umvuzo ophantsi, kwaye ukungabikho kwezinto eziphathekayo kuthintela njani umntu nentsapho yakhe? Ukuze uphendule le mibuzo, uvavanyo oluninzi kunye nophando lwaluqhutyelwa, iifayile zengqondo ezahlukeneyo zabameli bentsapho enjalo zacatshangelwa. Ngoku sinamaqiniso amaninzi, idatha, iingcamango kunye neenkcukacha, sinokuqiniseka ngokuqokelela iifowuni zezo ntsapho, zifunde iimpawu zabo.
Okokuqala, makhe sibone izizathu zokungonwabi kwiintsapho. Iyakwazi ukuyiqonda ngokukhawuleza, ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, iziganeko ezingalindelekanga, okanye ukuphakama ngokuqhubekayo, okunokwenzeka. Ukhuseleko lwamaxabiso luxhomekeke ekuhlawuleni kolunye uhlobo lomsebenzi, owenziwa ngumntu ngamnye, ubuchule bakhe ekwenzeni umsebenzi, ukukwazi ukufaka iinjongo zakhe, ukugxila kubo kunye nokwenza inkqubela phambili. Indlela umntu aphakamisa ngayo umgangatho wemisebenzi kuxhomekeke kwindlela yakhe yokubaluleka, impembelelo yoluntu kunye nendalo apho umntu. Thina siyakwazi ukucinga kunye nokwenza izinto ezifanayo, ukuqonda into ekhankanywe ngentla: umntu ngokungathandabuzekiyo uphenjelelwa ngabahlobo bakhe, oogxa kunye nabo, ngaphezu kwabo bonke, ngabazali bakhe. Ukuba babengenako amandla kwaye babekwe phambili kwixesha elide, abathembekileyo, abahlawuliweyo abaphantsi, ke kukho amathuba aphezulu kakhulu okuba umntwana athola amanani afanayo, kwaye ubomi bakhe kunye nokuqhubeka kwakhe kuya kuqhubela phambili "ngokwesi sicwangciso" sabazali bakhe.
Ukuqwalasela izizathu zentlalo, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba imeko yezinto eziphathekayo ixhomekeka kakhulu kwiimeko zeli lizwe, kwinqanaba layo lempahla, amathuba anika abemi bawo.
Isingeniso sokungabikho kwemisebenzi sithathwa njengento ebalulekileyo. Akumangalisi ukuba abafundi abaselula, bakhetha umsebenzi ozayo, okokuqala, bakhokelwa isiqinisekiso ngokuchasene nokungasebenzi. Konke oku kukubangelwa ukwesaba kwelizwe kunye nezoqoqosho, kuba kukho isizathu sokukholelwa ukuba ukungabikho kwemisebenzi kwelizwe lethu kuya kuhlaziywa.
Intlupheko yintlupheko yintlupheko. Ukuba ingeniso ingaphantsi kwayo, intsapho iyabonwa njengehlwempu. Iindleko zokuphila zibandakanya indleko zezinto ezisisiseko zesondlo, kubalulekile ukugcina impilo, kunye neendleko zeenkonzo kunye neerhafu. Kule nto sibona ukuba iintsapho ezihlwempuzekileyo zihlala zikhokelwa ziyaneliseka zabo iimfuno eziphambili, ekukhangela kwabo indlela yokutya iintsapho zabo, ukufundisa abantwana babo, ukuthenga ubuncinane iimpahla ezithile, ukuhlawula ukukhanya, amanzi kunye negesi ... Oku kuphakamisa iingxaki ezininzi kunye umlingiswa.
Okokuqala, umntu ovela kwikhaya elincinci lokufumana imali elincinci uyahlukana nalo lonke uluntu, ihlabathi elikufutshane naye. Konke oko kukuthelekisa kunye neengxakini zabantu abahluphekileyo nabakhubazekile, ubuso babo bangaphandle. Amalungu eentsapho ezifumana umvuzo ophantsi ahlukeneyo kwabanye, kwaye azingaboni kakhulu nabo. Oku kukhokelela kwiimeko ezininzi kwiimeko ezinobumba be-autism, kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuzithemba okuphantsi, okuchaphazela indlela umntu olwa ngayo nemeko yakhe.
Okwesibini, umzali ojongene neengxaki zezinto eziphathekayo uyahlukana kakhulu nabantwana bakhe. Umnqweno wakhe wokunqoba ubunzima neengxaki ngeendlela zakhe kubangela ukuba umzali ngandlela-thile ugweme intsapho kunye nokukhuliswa kwabantwana bakhe. Bona nabo banokungabikho nkathalo, uthando, uthando nokunyamekela. Baqala ukuziva belahliwe, kungadingekile, kunye nokuqonda ukuba abanako ukunceda, kwenza imeko yabo ibe yingozi. Inqaku elithakazelisayo kukuba abazali ababengaphinde bavumele ukuba abantwana babo basebenze, bakhuthaze ukuba bafunde, kwaye bakholelwe ukuba ukufumana ibhizinisi labo kuphela. Kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, nangakumbi kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, abantwana abaselula bazuza imali yabo, kwaye abazali bawakhuthaza ukuba benze njalo.
Enye yeempawu ezibalulekileyo zeentsapho ezifumana umvuzo ophantsi ziya kuba nomnqweno wokugxeka abanye ngenxa yeengxaki zabo. Bafuna ukwenza njengabamangaleli kwiimeko zobushushu nokulahlwa kwehlabathi elibangqongileyo. Ngaphezu koko, abo baye bazama ukutshintsha imeko yabo, kodwa bahluleka kwizicwangciso zabo, bayesaba kakhulu ukubeka ingozi kwakhona. Ukusuka kwindawo yabo, elula kakhulu isigqibo sokungabonakali kunye nokwamkela izikhundla zokulahla ihlabathi elijikelezile. Ezi ntsapho zizabalazela ngendlela yazo ngobunzima.
Isici esibalulekileyo kukunqongophala kwamanyathelo, ukungahambi, ukungakwazi ukubeka iinjongo nokuzifezekisa. Ngokuqhelekileyo isisenqe esingafanelekiyo sokusebenza, abantu abanjalo baya kusebenza kakuhle kwiindawo zabo ezizodwa baze bafumane ipenny, kunokuba babone ukunikezwa kwezinto ezintsha kwiimarike kwaye bathathe ingozi, eyoyikisayo.
Oku kulandela ukuba impilo yentlalo-yengqondo yemindeni ephantsi engenayo iphantsi kakhulu. Abantu abanjalo banesimo esinqabileyo kuyo yonke into. Khumbula ukuba isimo sengqondo sokunganamatheli emsebenzini, abantwana bayabangela ukunganakwa ubomi. Ngamanye amaxesha kukufanelekile ukucinga kunye nokuphonononga izicwangciso zezenzo zakho, ukuqondisa ulwalamano lwakho kungabikho kuluntu olujikelezile, kwizenzo, ukwenzela ukuba imeko yakho yentsapho ibe ngcono.