Indlela yokuba yindle: isiluleko esilula kodwa esisebenzayo

Abafazi abasweleyo abakho! Kukho abo abangazi ukuba banokuzinyamekela njani, musa ukukrokra ngobuhle babo okanye besaba ukuwufumana kumanxeba enkwenkqonkqo, kwiingxaki kunye nokungaqiniseki. Ubuhle bawo bonke abesifazana buyingqayizivele kwaye bugqibeleleyo, nangona ingawa phantsi kweengqungquthela ezixhaphakileyo. Uyisipho esicacileyo esivela kunkulunkulu owazi kakuhle ukuba yintoni imbonakalo yokubonakalisa esinokuyibonakalisa indlela esinokuyenza ngayo kunye nobuntombi. Ngubani na ukuba sixoxe naye kwaye "sibuyise" sakhe sicwangciso?

Zinike phantsi kwetazi yegulane ye-plastiki kungekho sizathu esilungileyo - ulwaphulo-mthetho olubhekiselele kwendalo kunye nawe. Kwaye akukho bugebengu obungaphantsi kokungazi, apho umfazi engazi, engazi kwaye angafuni ukuzithandayo, unakekele impilo yakhe nobuhle. Indlela yokuba yindle, ebhaliweyo kwaye ebhaliweyo ayanele. Kuhlala kuphela ukulungelelanisa amava okubuyisela ubuhle kunye nokufumana iimfihlo zayo.

Ubungqina ngamandla amakhulu

Umbono wobuhle uhlukile kubantu bonke. Oku kungenxa yokuba ubuhle yiyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kwihlabathi. Ukuba ezinye ziphelele kwaye zigqibelele, kwabanye - iqondo eliphezulu lokungendawo. Umzekelo obalaseleyo ngowona misonto enkulu yobhedu kwiintamo zabesetyhini abahlala kwiidolophana ezihle kakhulu eThailand okanye eMyanmar. Ukuphakama okuphakamileyo entanyeni kwenza ukuba amehlo abo bakhenkethi abonakale njengama-giraffe ahlekisayo. Kunzima ukucinga oku "ubuhle" ezitalatweni zethu, kwiiofisi nakumaphephancwadi. Kwiindawo ezifanayo, intamo ende engapheliyo iyabonwa njengelungileyo olugqibeleleyo apho amantombazana nabasetyhini banqwenela khona. Umzekelo ofanayo ufunyaniswa kwizizwe ezininzi, ukubunjwa kwendlela yobuhle kubangelwa yindawo yokuhlala, imozulu, imbali, izithethe kunye nendlela yokuphila. Sineengcamango zethu malunga nobuhle, imfashini efana nesimo sezulu - ayiqinisekanga ukuba yiyiphi into emangalisa ngayo, iza kuhamba ngokugqithisileyo kwezibikezelo zezulu. Ngoko kuvela ukuba ubuhle ngumqondo ongenangqondo kwaye awunakwenzeka. Ngenxa yoko, ukusukela ifashoni yinto engabongiyo kwaye yingozi. Nangona kunjalo, ngefestile iya kuhlala ihlelekile, ikulungele nokuthanda, njengendalo epheleleyo. Kwaye le miba yobuhle isoloko kwaye yonke indawo ikhona. Kuya kuba ngumnqweno!

Indlela yokuba mnandi?

Umxholo wobuhle besifazane uquka izinto ezintathu. Lo mntu, umzimba nomphefumlo. Ukukwazi ukufumana ubuchule kwaye ubonise ubuhle bakho kwihlabathi kukuvisisana nokubonakala kakuhle. Yiyiphi imimiselo ekufuneka ihlangane nakanjani, ukwenzela ukuba ibhinqa liziva lihle?

Ubuhle bokwenene kwisitya

Ubuhle behlabathi elingaphakathi kufuneka linyamekele ngaphantsi kobuhle bomzimba. Ukuxubusha kwembonakalo kufumaneka kuwo wonke umntu, kuphela abo bathandwa kakhulu abamenywa emphefumlweni. Yiba nomkhenkethi! Wena unguThixo etempileni yomphefumlo wakho, kwaye kuya kuwe ukuba izulu okanye isihogo kuya kuba kulo. Qinisekisa ukuba apha kunye "neendwendwe" zakho zivakalelwa kwietempile zobuhle obungenakulinganiswa, ubuncwane kunye nokunethezeka. Yakha ihlabathi lakho kwiimpawu ezingenakulinganiswa ngemali, kwaye ubutyebi bakho buya kuba buncwane. Gcwalisa i-International yakho yangaphakathi ngobuhle, uthando, ububele, ukungathandeki, ukupha, ukukwazi ukuvelana novelwano. Zive ukhululekile ukupenda ihlabathi lakho ngemibala evela kwiimbonakalo ezithandekayo ezivela kumazwe anamangalisa, zicebisa ngezithethe ezivela kwimveli engaqhelekanga kunye neemvakalelo ezivela kwiincwadi ezizilumko kunye namafilimu echukumisa ingcinga. Ukunxibelelana nabantwana kunye nezilwanyana, ukuchukumisa ukukhanya kwabo, ukunyaniseka nokuzithemba, musa ukugqithisa abantu abadala-bahlala benento yokufunda. Yakha amava akho okuza kukuvumela ukuba ube nenjongo, ininzi kwaye ihle ngakumbi. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, ukwabelana ngolwazi, ubanike, banike, kwaye abantu baya kubona ubuhle bakho, nokuba uba yinkati emnyama egumbini elimnyama.