Ukufudukela kwindawo entsha kusoloko kuluncedo kubo bonke amalungu entsapho, kwaye kuqala koku zonke ezincinci. Ukuba unomntwana oya kunyaka kunye nesiqingatha, ngoko kukufanelekile ukuba ungenise kwindawo entsha ngaphambili. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kunokwenzeka ukuba, ngokuphathelele ukuthuthwa kwezinto kunye nefenitshala, enye indlela okanye enye, kuthatha iintsuku ezimbalwa. Nsuku zonke onesisitokisini, kukufanelekile ukuzinikela kwikhaya elitsha, kodwa kungekhona ixesha elide. Zama ukubonelela imiqathango emininzi eya kunceda ukulungelelaniswa.
- Zama ukuqinisekisa ukuba ubuncinane babantu ngexesha lokutyelela. Abangaphandle kufuneka banqatshelwe ukutyelela ngeli xesha. Abanikazi abadala bangashiya izinto ezishiywe emva kancinci, kwaye kungcono ukuyeka ukutshatyalaliswa nabamelwane. Ngokufanelekileyo, ukuba umntwana uya kuba nomama kunye nomnye umntu osuka kumalungu entsapho, umzekelo, ukukunceda ukufumana into efunekayo kwizinto eziphambili, ngaphandle kokuphazamisa umntwana.
- Ewe, ukuba uvumelekile ixesha elifanelekileyo, kungcono ukutyelela izindlu ezitsha ngexesha elithile, ixesha ngalinye ixesha elide lokuhlala, ukuze umntwana aqonde le ndawo, njengokuba apho angasigxina khona.
- Iintsana kufuneka ziqhelane nevumba lale ndawo, ekubeni abantwana abancinci bebuhlungu kakhulu kule mihlaba, besazi iphunga lomama, ubisi, indlu. Thatha kwigumbi elitsha into eyovumba njengekhaya, umzekelo, i-diaper okanye ingubo. Oku kuncedo xa umntwana ekhathazeka. Gqulela umntwana ngendwangu ngephunga eliqhelekileyo kwaye liya kuba yincwadana.
- Ukuba umntwana sele ehlawule ingqalelo kwiimidlalo, thabatha nawe ithoyiyi enye ukusuka ekhaya. Idayi kufuneka iyaziwa ngumntwana. Ukongeza, thola itekisi efanayo, kodwa, umzekelo, umbala ohlukileyo. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyayithanda ibhola eluhlaza, qiniseka ukuba uyithathe nawe, kwaye ngaphezu koko ufumane oluhlaza. Oku kuya kunceda umntwana ukuba azi kakuhle izinto ezintsha eziza kubonakala kamva.
- Gcina ubuncwane bakho ezandleni zakho, sityalo uze ubeke kuphela xa kungabikho ukwesaba ukushiywa ngaphandle kwezandla zakho. Ukuba umntwana wenqaba ukuhlala phantsi, kungcono ukuba angagxininisi. Hlala phantsi wena, ngaphandle kokuyeka ukuya kuye. Xa esetyenziselwa, mbeke eceleni kwakhe. Ngoko kuya kuba nexilongo. Ukuba lobu buqili abuzange bumchaphazele, zama ukukwenza kwintlanganiso elandelayo.
- Mxelele umntwana oko akuthandayo. Ukuba i-karapuzi inqwenela ukubhukuda, uye kwindlu yokuhlambela, yenza umzobo kunye nendlu yakho yakudala. Amanzi afanayo ukusuka kwipompo, enye ityil-dryer efanayo, apho wazibeka khona ithawula lakhe. Ukuba umntwana uyakuthanda ukutshabalalisa iikhabhinethi, ngoko ufumane ikheromera enkulu kwaye ujonge kuyo. Khangela oko unokuphuma khona, ongayidlala nayo.
- Bonisa umntwana usuka kwifestile. Iqhwa (imithi eluhlaza), abadlula-, imoto-konke oku kubonakala kwiwindow yakho endala. Bonisa umntwana ukuba akukho nto ishintshile ngokuphawulekayo ukusuka ngaphandle. Ngendlela, ukuba umbuzo ungaphakathi kwendlu, ngoko uhamba nomntwana uze ufumane oko akuthandayo malunga nomdala, kwaye mhlawumbi, into entsha. Bonisa umtshini womntwana, i-sandbox, uvelise izilwanyana ezihamba ngommelwane.
- Ukuba ufuna ukunyusa umntwana kwikhaya elitsha, mnike kuphela oko akuthandayo. Iintyatyambo kunye neziqhamo ze-purees, i-sweet curd, yikho konke okuya kumnceda umntwana. Unako ukunambitha i-porridge nesobho kwisinye isidlo. Ukuba umntwana ebuza into enokuyenza kwisixa esithile (umzekelo, ikhukhi), umxhomeke, ungalilahli isicelo.
- Okona kubaluleke kakhulu - vula ixesha lokuhlala komntwana kwikhaya elitsha libe yinto evuyisayo, yenza kuphela oko inkunzi yenkwenkwe iyakuthanda, ungayilinganisi, vumela ukuhlola indawo ngaphambili. Ukuba umntwana ukhululekile kwaye ukhululekile kwindlu entsha, ukuhamba kuya kuba yinto ebumnandi kwi-biography yeentsapho.
Nangona unomntwana omdala, akusikho isizathu sokugatya ukulungiswa komntwana ukuhamba. Okokuqala mxelela malunga nezicwangciso zakho, sebenzisa ukujika okulungileyo kwaye ucacise yonke into ngombuzo, umzekelo: "Ufuna ixesha lakho ixesha elide, akunjalo? Kungekudala uza kubonakala kuwe! ", Okanye" Uyakhumbula ukuba ipaki enhle apho uhamba nogogo? Iifestile zendlu yethu entsha ziya ngqo kuye, unokuhamba epakini imihla ngemihla! ". Qinisekisa ukuba ucele ukucacisa imibuzo ukuze ufumane ukuphendula komntwana.
Njengoko kwimeko yangaphambili, tyelela izindlu ezintsha. Bonisa umntwana ukuba le ndlu yinto enjengomdala, umzekelo, njengendawo yokuhlambela (oku kuyindlela yokuphumelela, kuba iindawo ezininzi zendawo zixhotyiswe ngezinto zokukhanya eziphantse kufanana). Hamba kuwo onke amagumbi, ngelixa umntwana enendawo, hlala kuyo okwesikhashana. Buza ukuba kukhanya kwaye kuvule ngokwaneleyo, bonise ukuba uyayithanda, kungakhathaliseki ukuba usabele njani umntwana. Ukuba umntwana uvunyiwe yonke into, mcele ukuba akhethe indawo apho ufuna ukubeka itafile okanye ibhokisi ngamathoyizi.
Ukuba umntwana uyaqhankqalaza ngokumelene nokuphuma kwakhe egumbini lakhe, buza oko akuthandayo. Masithi, ngenxa yephepha lodonga, igumbi libonakala lincinci kuye. Kule meko, uthembisa ukwenza ukulungiswa kwigumbi lakhe lokuqala, xa iimali zakho ziyakukuvumela. Okwangoku, vumela ukunganeliseki ukuthenga isibane sobusuku ngenxa yeengqungquthela, awayezibona kwisitoreji, okanye amakhethini aqaqambileyo ukwenzela ukuba igumbi lihle ngakumbi. Kungaba nayiphi into YAKHO IINDLU ZAKHO. Oku kufanele kube nesisombululo kwingxaki, kungekhona ukunyaniseka kwengqondo kumntwana wakho. Into ephambili - ungabi nasisiseko. Thembisa - yenza. Oku kusebenza kuzo zombini ukuthengwa kwamakhethini, kunye nelokuba ukulungiswa ngokuyinhloko kuqhutyelwa kwigumbi lakhe.
Masithi umntwana usenqabile. Mhlawumbi igumbi lakhe, kunye nendawo yonke, uyayithanda, kodwa kwindlu yakudala yayingabangane bakhe, kwaye mhlawumbi wahanjiswa kwenye inzala! Kuba umntwana lo luyintlekele yangempela. Mxelele ukuba le doge ibuye ibe nezingane, zidlala imidlalo efanayo, kwaye ukuba ingazi njani, iya kubafundisa kwaye zifumane izihlobo ezintsha. Yithembisa ukuba ukuba uhlala kufuphi nomdala ohlala kuyo, uza kujonga egodini kubafana.
I-kindergarten ngoku iindawo ezimnandi kuye. Kukho amathoyizi amasha, akukho nto idangayo u-Anna Sergeyevna, kukho iipuni ezimbalwa kwigumbi lokudlela, kwaye abantwana bayalindela ukuba bamtyelele kwaye uya kuba nomsindo xa engafuni ukuza kubo. Ukongezelela, indlela eya kwintsimi entsha isondele, ebusika awuyi kukhanda emoyeni, kwaye ehlobo uyakumisa kwaye udle i-ayisikrimu. Fumana izizathu eziliwaka, kunokuba umyezo omtsha ungcono, kwaye ukuba uyaphumelela, wena ngokwakho ufuna ukuhamba kuyo endaweni yengane.
Njalo khumbula ukuba kubantwana abahambayo kuyisiganeko esibalulekileyo kwaye kunomdla njengoko kunjalo kuwe. Ungalondolozi amandla, ixesha kunye namagama anomnene umntwana wakho aziva ngayo kwikhaya elitsha alibi ngakumbi kunelo elidala.