Indlela yokuphupha ukuba amaphupha azaliseke

Sonke sithanda ukuphupha. Abanye benze isifiso somhla wokuzalwa okanye unyaka omtsha, benethemba lokufumana isipho esithakazelisayo kubo, abanye - ngexesha leenkwenkwezi ewayo. Kodwa isiphumo sinye - sidumala. Kutheni oku kwenzekayo? Ngendlela, bonke abantu abakhulu banqwenela ukuphupha ngexesha labo labakhululekileyo. Bayazi nje indlela yokwenza okulungileyo.

Ngokwakhe umprogram.

Khawucinge nje ngomprogram. Khawucinge ukuba kufuneka ubhale inkqubo yekhompyutheni enzima kakhulu kwihlabathi-ingqondo yomntu. Emva kokuba iprogram iqulunqwe, ihlala ifuna ukufakela ukungena. Ukuphupha akulimazi, njengoko kuhlabelelwa kwingoma, i-apolitical. Kwaye ukuba ungazivula imfihlelo yamaphupha okulungileyo, unokujika kwenye indawo yehlabathi. Into ongayi kucinga ngayo kwangaphambili iya kubonakala ebomini bakho.

Cinga: indoda yangaphandle ifumana kuphela iipesenti ezingamashumi amabini zolwazi oluvela kwihlabathi langaphandle. Iipesenti ezisibhozo eziseleyo ziphupha zethu neenqweno, ezikumemori. Ngako oko, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ube ngumprogram ngokwakho kunye nenkqubo yobomi ukuze uphumelele, kufuneka ukhumbule "umgaqo" wegolide: nguwe ocinga ngako! Umntu ufumana kanye into ayifunayo. Yonke into eyenzekayo ngoku ibonakalisa iingcamango zakho zangaphambili.

1. Ziphulaphule.

Ngokuqhelekileyo sifuna into esingenayo. Imigangatho eyenziwe luluntu kunye nentengiso kumabonwakude, apho abantu abangamashumi ama-90 ekhulwini bephulaphula, abayi kusenza sibe nolonwabo olulindelekileyo. Yingakho kubalulekile ukuqonda oko ufuna ngokwenene. Ukuze usondele ekuqondeni iminqweno yakho, buyela ebuntwaneni. Ewe, nicinge nje ungumntwana. Ufuna ntoni ngoko? Mhlawumbi ufuna ukuba ngumntu owaziwayo okanye ube ngumdlali ozithandayo? Yiyiphi iminqweno engazange iyenze? Ukuba ufuna imoto enkulu, kodwa awuzange uyifumane - yintengiso uze uthenge. Umntwana ophakathi kwakho uza kufumana indlela yokuqonda iphupha langempela.

2. Ukushiya ubuninzi.

Ngoku khawucinge ukuba onke amaphupha akho azalisekile. Skrolela imeko yakho entloko ukususela ekuqaleni ukuya ekupheleni uze ujonge phantsi. Yonke into iya kwenzeka ngendlela oyifunayo? Lo msebenzi uza kunceda ukulahla ipesenti ezingamashumi asixhenxe zeminqweno engafunekiyo kwaye unqande ingqalelo kuphela kuphela. Iminqweno embalwa unayo, ephakamileyo ithuba lokuba baya kuba khona.

3. Ukwenza ngokuchanekileyo.

Ukuba ubeka umgomo wokufumana imali eninzi, uya kuba nako ukuwufumana. Kodwa imali ayiyi kuhlala kwisikhwama sakho ixesha elide. Ukuba ufuna ukufunda isiNgesi, uya kufunda, kodwa awuyi kuqala ukuthetha kuyo. Kuchanekile ukuphupha malunga noko uza kuchitha imali yakho. Kwaye ngolwimi - kungcono ukusekela injongo yokuthetha kuyo.

4. Masibalibale ngamagama-iintsholongwane.

Ukuba awukholelwa kwinto ofuna, awuyi kufumana. Oku kubhaliwe nakwiBhayibhile. Gwema amabinzana - "Andiyi kuthatha into endiyenzayo" okanye "akukho nto ifanayo." Gcina iingcamango zale ngcamango, kwaye ngokukhawuleza xa zivela-ibhloko.

5. Musa ukukhawuleza.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, wena kunye nam, sizibeka njengenjongo engaqondakaliyo, asikwazi ukuzifeza ngokwenyama. Ungakhathazeki ukuba awukwazi ukufumana yonke into kwaye ngokukhawuleza ngexesha elifutshane. Akunakwenzeka ukunqumla indlela kunye nokuxhamla. Kuninzi kunengqiqo ukuya kwiinjongo ezinyathelo ezimfutshane, ngelixa ugcina amandla.

Hlukanisa umendo wakho kwiindawo ezininzi. Ungakwazi ukuqonda ulwazi oluyimfuneko, ukuba yonke imihla isabelwe esi sifundo ubuncinane ubuncinane kwisiqingatha seyure. Hlala uphilile ngokusebenzisa ukusetyenziswa rhoqo kwimizuzu elishumi elinesihlanu. Ukuxazulula iingxaki ezikhuniweyo, unokwenza ishedyuli kwaye unqume yonke imihla ezimbini okanye ezintathu zazo. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhumbula - soloko ujabule nakwiintshaba ezincinci, kwaye ungayeki ukuphupha.