Nangona ukuthabatha abantu akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uzitshintshe ukuze kungabikho mntu ocinga ukuba ngaphambi kwakhe intombazana enye. Ukwazi ukuphumelela kwaye ukwazi ukukhawuleza, ezi mpawu ziza kudlula ukubaluleka nokubonakala kwintombazana. Ukuze abanye bangabonakali ukuba kukho nabesifazane abathandekayo abakujikelezayo, kufuneka uzame ukufumana ukuvumelana phakathi kwakho kwaye ulandele iingcebiso ezingezantsi.
Siyalela ukuziphatha ngokwesini . Inkolelo yesini, ephakanyiswe ngumdali wayo i-Geter Amman, ifake into enje ngolawulo lwezesondo. Kuye kwacaca ukuba intombazana efuna ukuyikhuphula, bekuyimfuneko ukuba ingabikho kwiminqweno kunye neemvakalelo zabo. Inkolelo yeGoetheer ibonisa uhlobo lomdlalo apho abalingani bobabini basebenzise amaninzi amanqaku anothando kunye nesondo njengoko kunokwenzeka kubhalwe phantsi kwiphepha. Emva koko la magama anikezelwa ngokubhekiselele kumdlali ngamnye. Abalingani babhale kuphela amagama abo bangathanda ukubiza omnye nomnye. Ophumeleleyo, oyona mvelaphi kubo, ekupheleni komdlalo kuya kufuneka athembele kumvuzo omhle. Ingcamango enjalo nomdlalo ingabangela umntu ukuba enze into enomdla kunye nesondo. Yiyiphi, ngokukodwa, ingaba yile ngongoma kumqhubi.
Ithunyelwe ngelizwi . Ukuze ube mnandi, kufuneka usebenze ngelizwi lakho. Kubalulekile ukuthabatha intetho yakhe, engeyiyo inomdla kuphela ngumntu oyifunayo, kodwa yena ngokwakhe. Amadoda amaninzi acinga ukukhohlisa kunye nesondo kwisandi esingaphantsi kwezwi, ukusuka kuyo baqala ukulahlekelwa intloko. Ezinye zazo zikholelwa ukuba impembelelo enkulu ingafumaneka kwizwi elinjalo, ngezwi elikhukhulayo. Phakathi kwabesetyhini, kwakhona, kukho uluvo malunga nelizwi elikhangayo kunye nelizwi, bakholelwa ukuba uFrank Sinatra, uGaeru no-Adrian Celentano banalo lizwi elihle kangaka.
Songeza ukukhupha . Ukuba yintombazana yentombazana enezwi elikhohlisayo, akuyimfuneko ukukhetha kwiindlela ezininzi ezikhethekileyo, ngokukodwa ukuhlinzwa ngoplastiki. Intombazana ayifuni ukuba neempawu zomzimba zomzimba wayo onokuthosa. Ngamanye amaxesha umele ufune ukuthandana, ukwenzela ukuba ilizwi lakho lithuthumele kwaye litshitshise. Njengoko intombazana ethandwayo iqala ukukhathazeka, buhlungu ngenxa yamathambo kwaye ube neentloni. Ngelizwi elimnyama, lanele ngokwaneleyo ukuthetha ngokuzithobayo ngokukhawuleza, ngokuzama ukungaxoxanga ngaphandle kwesizathu. Kwaye ekuphumeni komzimba kufuneka uzame ukunqanda imisipha yomzimba kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, ekuphefumleleni - ukuphumla.
Ukufunda ukubonisa . Injalo isayensi njenge-kinesika inikeza imbono yemida phakathi kwabalinganileyo kwingxoxo kunye neentsingiselo zabo. Kulandela ukuba ukuze akhuthaze indoda ukuba ithathe amanyathelo amaninzi, kufuneka umntu angene kwindawo yakhe esondeleyo. Uhlala kufuphi naye, phantse ubuso nobuso. Unokunika izibonakaliso kwifom yokutyundela intloko yakho. Kwaye i-nods esheshayo inokuthi malunga nomdla weqabane, kwaye ukukhawuleza nokuphindaphinda kunokuphazamisa intetho. Kwakhona, intombazana idinga ukuthatha iimeko ezivulekileyo kwaye unokwenza ngengozi nokuba ukopishe impawu yakhe, ngaloo ndlela uyamchukumisa ukuba avalwe kunye nomnxeba.
Musa ukuzichukumisa . Ukuze ube mnqweno kumadoda, kufuneka ufunde ukuba ungaguquli intonga. Oku kunokuchaphazela amandla akho okuthanda, kunye nesimo sakho. Ngoku amaninzi amabhinqa azama ukuba abe mude kwaye ahlonipheke ngaphezu kwamadoda. Ukuziphatha okunjalo kunokuvusa nje ukuqhuma komsindo, kodwa kwanokuba usuka kuwe. Ngoko ke, kungcono ukuba kuye loo ntokazi, engayikhusela kuyo embi aze ayikhusele, okanye aze amvumele ukuba acinge njalo. Ukuzihlolisisa kwakhona kunokuchaphazela ubungakanani bakho. Emva koko, kubafazi abahle kwaye banokuthathwa njengobuncinane obuncinane obunama-40-42 ubukhulu, kwaye ukubonakaliswa kwamadoda uguquka malunga ne-46-50. Ngoko ungaphinda uhambe phezu kweengxaki ezingenanto kwaye ezingenanto njengokuba ubukhulu bezambatho.
Yazi ukupheka nokutya . Ngokwenzame ezininzi zenzululwazi kwakucacile ukuba kwilizwi malunga nokuxhamla phakathi kokutya komntu kunye nesisu, ukuxhamla kwaso kusekwa. Olunye uvavanyo luye lwabonisa ukuba indoda phakathi kwevumba leminye i-cinnamon kunye neqhumiso lemimoya ebiza kakhulu yathanda kuqala. Kwaye oku kulandela ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuba ngamnye umfazi afunde ukupheka ukutya okumnandi. Ngaphezu koko, kufuneka adle kunye nomkhethiweyo wakhe. Ngelo xesha, ukuba intombazana ayidli ngokukhawuleza, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo ukuvumba, kunokubonakala ngathi le ndoda ikhangeleka. Yaye ungakhathazeki malunga nokuba unako ukufumana ezininzi iikhalori ezingadingekile kwaye ezingadingekile ngenxa yokutya, okukhokelela ekuzaleni okukrakra. Amadoda amaninzi anqwenela ukunikela ngokukhetha inqabileyo enamaqhina amakhulu, apho, ngokombono wabo, onokuthwala aze abelethe umntwana ophilileyo nomntwana.
Ukunyeliswa, ukuhleka nokuhleka . Intombazana ekwazi ukuhlazeka kwaye ngubani oza kulala ngento ebomvu inokuluyisa amadoda amaninzi. Ukuba nezixhobo ezimbini: into ebomvu kuwe kunye neentloni ngohlobo lweedama ezibomvu, unako ukuvusa kumntu kungekhona nje umzingeli, kodwa kunye nomkhuseli. Ufuna ukunqoba intombazana ebomvu, ngelixa efuna ukumkhusela kwiimeko ezihlazo. Ngoko uya kuba neentloni kuya kuba kuphela ngesandla sakho. Ukongezelela kuyo yonke into, ukuba intombazana iya kuba neentlanzi, eziza kwenza ukuba kube lula ukunxibelelana, kunokunqoba ngonaphakade intliziyo yomntu. Uyakwazi ukuhleka nje amahlaya akhe, umbonise umdla wakho, ngelixa kungenjalo ukuba unobungangamsha kwaye uyazi amahlaya amaninzi. Ukuhleka kunokukwazi ukuguqulela unxibelelwano olunzulu ngokusondeleyo nangakumbi kumnandi kubo bobabini.
Ukuze ube mnandi kakhulu, amantombazana kufuneka afunde indlela yokuzonwabisa ngayo yonke into evamile kunye engaqhelekanga, ingaba uthengise okanye uvakatye ootatomkhulu. Intombazana ezithandayo kunye nobomi bayo iya kuba namandla ngakumbi, inokuzithemba ngakumbi kunye ne-sexy, nto leyo eyenza ibe yinto ekhangayo, ethandekayo kwaye inqwenelekayo kubantu abaninzi. Yenza kwaye uya kuphumelela.