Indlela yovuyisana nendoda

Ngaphambi kokuba, ndingazi ukuba ndivuyisana njani nendoda endiyithandayo, yintoni omele inike, yintoni endingayithethayo? Lo mbuzo ubuzwa ngumfazi ngamnye othanda okanye othanda ukuhlanya. Ngodidi lwesibini, yonke into ilula. Umfazi uziva ngomphefumlo wakhe, intliziyo yakhe, yonke iseli yomzimba wakhe. Uyazi kakuhle ukuba intliziyo enothando iya kuxelwa kuye ngendlela efanelekileyo kule ndlela. Ngoko ke ndingayinikela? Uvuyisana njani? Lo mbuzo awudingi ukuphendulwa kuphela ngabo abangafuni ukucebisa iingcebiso ezivela ngaphandle, abathembekileyo kubo kunye kuphela. Azikho ezininzi zazo. Sisoloko sithandabuza, sinoyika ukwenza into engalunganga, ukucaphukisa okanye ukucaphukisa umgubhi wokubhiyozela, ukuphoxeka okanye ukuphazamisa ieholide. Ngeze! Amaqhinga anjalo, sonke siwaphanga.

Kubalulekile ukusekela ngokucacileyo injongo kunye nokufezekisa. Ngaba unqwenele ukuthokoza intanda yakho ukuba uya kukhumbula oku kubomi? Mnike inkondlo, kwaye kungcono akukho nanye okanye ezimbini, kodwa incwadana yonke apho uya kubhala ngokunyanisekileyo malunga neemvakalelo zakho ngaye, ukuba awukwazi njani ukuhlala ngaphandle kwakhe, njl njl. Ingaba ucinga ukuba indoda ayiyi kuthintela oku?

Cinga enye indlela. Ngokomzekelo, esikolweni ujwayele ukunika ikhadi kunye ne-cologne okanye ikhadi kunye nekrele eliphambili kubafana ngoFebruwari 23, akubalulekanga ukuba niyinikela, kuvele kwenzeka kwiingcebiso zootitshala okanye umama ozama ukunika ubuncinane imali ngesipho kumfana ongaziwayo. Ewe, kwimeko eninzi, kodwa oku akunjalo! Yintoni eyayisesikolweni, kufuneka uyibale! Yiphosa entlokweni yam! Sinike isipho esikwisikolo, kodwa kumntu othandekayo! Lo umehluko.

Indoda endiyithandayo ayiyi kuvuyela ingqalelo kuphela, kodwa inomdla kunye nokunyamekela, vumela isipho sakho sihluke. Kufuneka uzive oko unokunika. Mhlawumbi kuya kuba yimbongo, umculo okanye ukuqonda ngokucacileyo ekuthandeni kwakho. Phucula! Lungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa, into engazange azame, into enokummangalisa, nceda. Indoda kufuneka ibone ukuba iyingqayizivele, iyodwa kwaye ayikho imihlobo.

Ukuba unika ikhadi lokuposa, zama, ukuba kwakubhalwe umbhalo obuncinci, kwaye ngaphezulu kubhalwe nguwe. Awudingi ukubhala kwakhona itekisi kwi-Intanethi okanye kwiincwadi - unako ukukwazi ukubhala yonke into ngokwakho, ngakumbi nakwezinye indawo. Vele udibanise ukuqonda kwakho kwintshukumo yothando nokukhanya, kwinto eyenzekayo emphefumlweni wakho! Nasi imfihlo elula yokuphumelela ngokubhala iposididi. Makungayi kubakho isingqisho, makungabikho nto ebhalwe ngesandla, kodwa iya kuba yintsusa kunye.

Indoda yakho iya kukwazi ukuba uyamthanda njani, indlela ekukhathalelayo ngayo. Ndikholelwe, impendulo ayiyi kukugcina ulinde. Ngomphefumlo wakhe, kuya kubakho ukunyanzela okungaqhelekanga, malunga nokuba kwenzeke njani into echaphazelayo.

Ingundoqo yabantu kukuba abanye bafihla iimvakalelo zabo kunye neemvakalelo. Musa ukwesaba oku! Zama ukuvuleka naye, kwaye uya kutyhila nawe. Yiba nomonde!

Khumbula ukuba isitshixo sokuphumelela sithandweni, ukunyaniseka, ukucinga kunye nomnqweno. Kuya kuba nothando kunye nokunyaniseka - kuya kuba nefantasy kunye nomnqweno wokuyibeka enyanisweni.

Thanda amadoda akho! Zinike wena kunye nothando lwakho! Jabule!