Intsana, eya kutshanje imnandi kwaye iyathobela, ngokukhawuleza iya kuba yinto encinci ye-monster. Ngoko abazali baya kufunda malunga neengxaki zokuqala zezingane. Kodwa ngenxa yokoyika akukho zizathu - iinqununu ezinhlanu ezisisiseko ziya kunceda ukujamelana nokukhuseleka okungekho sikweni, imibhikisho kunye neengqungquthela. Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukucacisa imida - cacisa uluhlu lweemigaqo kunye neemfuno ezifunekayo umntwana. Zifanele ziqondwe, zilula kwaye ziqikelele - mhlawumbi i-kid iya kuba nzima ukuqonda oko bayifunayo kuye.
Emva kokusekwa kwesi sikhokelo, omnye kufuneka ahlale ehambisana nokuziqwalasela. Akukho zikhetho kunye neentlawulo ze-indulgences - ngoko abantu abadala baya kuba negunya elifanelekileyo.
Ikhono lokuqhuba ingxoxo kunye nokubonelela ngokufanelekileyo imigaqo ebalulekileyo yokulwa neengxaki zemntwana. Ingxoxo enobuhlobo kunye nezolile, inomdla okwenene kwimbono yentsana, ingxoxo yeengcinga kunye neengcamango-nangona zimbi - zinceda ukunciphisa izinga lokuxhatshazwa kwaye, kwiimeko ezininzi, ukuthintela i-hysteria.
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, ukwamukelwa kukukwazi ukuvelela, kungekhona ukukhawuleza izinto kwaye ubonise inhlonipho ngempawu zobuntu bomntwana.