Inyaniso kunye neengcamango malunga nobuhlobo bokuqala

Xa sasineminyaka elishumi elinesihlanu ubudala kunye nabahlobo, sasiphupha ukuba uthando lokuqala, amava olwabelana ngesondo, owokuqala (nguye kuphela ongenakulinganiswa!) Umtshato uhambelana nathi. Oku akusebenzi kumntu. Kodwa xa sithetha ngezinto zethu ezisanda kutshanje, saqonda ukuba ubomi buhamba ngendlela efanelekileyo. Ngoko, ukubaluleka kokuqala kokuthandana? Ingaba umntu wokuqala umgangatho apho umfazi ufanisa konke okulandelayo? Kuliphi ixesha elingcono ukuqala? Makhe siqinisekise okanye sichasise isicatshulwa esiqhelekileyo malunga nokuqala kothando. 1. Amava okuqala achaphazela ubomi obuninzi besondo.
Enyanisweni, ukuba ngaba kunjalo, ngoko-ke abafazi bane-reflex condition: ubulili buhle, buyolonwabo. Owesifazane onenhlanhla uzizwa lula kwaye ekhanyayo i-orgasm, ufumana uvuyo olungakumbi kwizesondo zesondlo. Amava amanzantya, umzekelo, imeko enzima, xa intombazana ithatyathwa ngamandla, ikhokelela kwimeko echaseneyo. Ibhinqa lishiywe ngengozi yengqondo. Ngokuqhelekileyo uyamoyike aze ahlale esilumkele abantu, uzigxeka ngokwenzekayo. Inxeba epheleleyo yikhokelela kwiingxaki zobomi ngokwesondo. Umfazi onjalo uhlala ene-vaginismus, oko kukuphambana ngokungathintekiyo kwemisipha ye-pelvis kunye nesondo. Ufuna umsebenzi kunye nengcali yeengqondo, isifo sengqondo kunye nezinye iingcali - ngaphambili, ngcono.

2. Ingcamango yesityalo esinqatshelwe kukulungele ukuba wazi ngeminyaka eyi-18-20.
Ezi nkcukacha zide zidlulileyo - ngoku amaninzi amaninzi into eyenzeka kakhulu ngaphambili. Izibalo zichaza ngokucacileyo: kweli lizwe, i-10% yabantwana kunye nabaselula abasusela kwiminyaka eyi-9 kuya kwe-14 ubudala sele sele balala ngesondo! Izibini eziluhlaza "uphawu" lwempilo ebantwini.

Iintsapho ezingasebenziyo, iindlobongela zokungcola, ubundlobongela kwiTV, kwiibhayisikobho-konke oku kukhokelela ekubeni abantwana bazama ukuqala ubomi babo abadala ngokukhawuleza. Eminye i-40% yabantwana abaselula bayangenelela kokuqala ngokwesondo ukusuka kwiminyaka eyi-14 ukuya kwe-18, ama-40% amakhwenkwe namantombazana - ukusuka kwiminyaka eyi-18 ukuya kwe-22, kunye ne-10% - emva kweminyaka engama-22. Ngokutsho kwezesondo, umntu kufuneka athathe inxaxheba ekuthandaneni ngokwesondo xa ilungiselelwe ngengqondo. Abahlobo abalinganayo kunye neenani-manani azifanelekanga. Ngokutsho koogqirha, "oku" kufanele kwenzeke ngokulungelelanisa kwengqondo kwaye mhlawumbi ngothando. Imvume yokubambisana yamaqela ibalulekile. Akunakulungile, xa intombazana iphikisana ngokunyanisekileyo, kwaye umfana uyamchukumisa ixesha elide. Yaye intombazana inikwa kuphela "kuba iyesaba ukumlahleka" okanye "ukuhlekwa ngabahlobo bayo." Kwaye yena kunye naye kufuneka ukuba alungele le nyathelo. Xa umntu ethandana, ama-hormone enqabileyo aphuma - i-endorphins kunye ne-hormone yoxinzelelo-adrenaline. Ukusebenzisana okunjalo kwama-hormone kuvelisa isimo sengqondo esihle. Ukuhlala kuyo, intombazana iyaneliseka ngakumbi ngokusondelana ngesondo. Ngako oko, i-endorphins ngokungafani nobuntombi kubulula kwaye ayibuhlungu kakhulu - umzimba kunye neengqondo.

3. Ama-Virgini emva kweminyaka engama-25 anokuba nekhanda.
Oku akunjalo. Kunoko, iingxaki zengqondo. Ukuba uhlala ungenasiphelo kude kube neminyaka engama-30 ubudala, ubunzima bentombazana endala buyakhula. I-sexologists icebisa ngolu hlobo ukunciphisa iimfuno zamadoda. Emva koko ukufumana ibini kuya kuba lula. Ekugqibeleni, awuphelelanga. Nangona kunjalo, kukho abantu abaphelile ukuphuhliswa ngokwesondo ngokuthelekiswa nabanye. A mabhinqa namadoda badinga uncedo lwezokwelapha.

4. Hayi, kunzima kangakanani ukunyuka kwamanyathelo okuqala!
Oku kunjalo. Kwaye kunzima ukuqhagamshelana ngesondo kunye nentombazana leyo. Ukwahlukana kuphela ekubonweni kwengqondo kwinto eyenzekayo: loo ntokazi ifuna ukuba indoda eyayihlala kuyo, kunye nendoda-yokuba lona wesifazane wayenguye wokuqala. Kubantu, ukuqala koqhagamshelwano ngokwesondo kunokubaluleke nakakhulu. Uziva unembopheleleko enkulu. Emva koko, ubusuku bokuqala ngaye - ungathi uhlobo "lokuvavanya ngobuninzi." Ukuba yonke into iyahamba kakuhle - ungumntu. Kwaye ukuba kungenjalo ... Kule meko, unokuthi abe ne-disorder disorder. Ngokukodwa ukuba ukuhluleka kwakhe kuya kuhleka. Loo mfana, mhlawumbi kufuneka ahambe ukuya kubona ingcali. Ngoko ke, ukuziphatha komfazi kudlala indima enkulu. Kubalulekile ukuba usebenzise ingqiqo nokucoceka ukuze umntu azive ekhululekile.

5. Intlanzi ihlala ilahlekile ekuqaleni kokusondelana.
Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka. Kwikufutshane kokuqala kukho ukulungiswa kwe-hymen. Kodwa kwenzeka kwakhona ukuba ayichithwanga, kodwa iselula nje. Akakwazi ukuphula ngisho nangemva kokuphandwa kothando ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Okanye umpopho awukwazi ukuqothuka ngokupheleleyo. Ngokomzekelo, oku kunokwenzeka ukuba ilungu lomntu lingena kwisini ngokungagqibekanga, kwaye kwakhona ukuba iintlobo zeentlobo zentombazana zonakaliswe ngenxa yengozi, ukuhlaziya i-masturbation, okanye ukuhlola ngokungaqondakali isihlalo somzimba. Amanye amantombazana (kunye nabafana abancinci ngamanye amaxesha nabo) banesaba ukuba ekuthandweni kokuqala kuya kuba negazi elininzi. Kodwa oku akusoloko ihambelana neyinyani. Kwamanye amaxesha ukuphuma kwegazi kwenzeka ntoni ukuba i-hymen ikhulu kakhulu. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukulahleka kobuntombi kuhamba kunye namaconsi amaninzi egazi. Intlungu ibakho, kodwa, njengommiselo, ayinamandla kakhulu. Kwaye maxa wambi akunakwenzeka. Kwimeko nayiphi na, emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa, imida ye-hymen iyayiphilisa kwaye intombazana ayisayi kuba neengxaki zesini.

6. Indoda yokuqala ngumntu othe wanciphisa intombazana yokungabi namacala.
Ngokomgaqo, oku kunjalo. Kodwa intombazana inokuvakalelwa ngenye indlela. Ngokomzekelo, ekwamukelweni kwesondo, esinye isigulane satsho ukuba saphelelwa yintombi ebeminyaka eli-17 ubudala - kwiqela elidakwa kunye nomhlobo ongaqhelekanga ongakhange aphinde awubone. Kodwa indoda yakhe yokuqala, ucinga ngendoda eselula, eyaqala ukudibana nayo iminyaka emibini emva kwesi siganeko. I-Sexologists ichaza oku njengesixhobo sengqondo abathile abathile basebenzisa "ukukhohlisa." Bona ngokwabo bakhetha ukuba ngubani oya kujonga kuqala aze akholwe ngokunyanisekileyo kuwo. Emva koko, iimvakalelo zokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo zidlala indima ebalulekileyo ngamanye amaxesha kunezinto eziphilayo ezilula.

7. Amava okuqala ngokwesini ahlala engakulibaleki.
Akukho nto yohlobo. Ibhinqa liya kuqhathanisa namadoda akhe, kwaye kungekhona into yokuba iqabane lokuqala liza kuma kule nqanaba ngaphezu kweminye. Umlingane ongenakulibaleka, kungekhona kuye umntu olahlekelwa yintombi yakhe, kodwa lowo awamthandanga kuphela ngomzimba, kodwa ngomphefumlo. Ngendlela, kuyafana nakwezesondo ezinamandla. Abanye bafazi babo bakhumbula abantu bonke ubomi babo, kwaye abanye abakwazi ukukhumbula nto - ngamanye amaxesha, nokuba negama labo ...

8. Ekuqaleni kokusondelana okanye i-orgasm iyimfuneko.
Oku kwenzeka kuphela kumabhayisikobho okanye kwiimvanoveli zothando: "kwakuyinto yokuqala yezocansi kunye naye wakhuphuka ephuma ezulwini," wayeva ukuba umntu uthintela "budeni" lwakhe okokuqala - kwaye umzimba wakhe wagcwaliswa ngobabalo olunjengale amawaka eentyantyambo ezihle zaqhakaza kwaye izigidi zamabhobhofubhu zanyusa amaphiko. " Ngelishwa, okokuqala i-orgasm mhlawumbi ayiyi kuza, ngoko ungalindelanga ize. Intombazana inokufumana injabulo kwi-caresses yokuqala okanye kwi-masturbation. I-Orgasm ingafika kamva, ngokuza kwamava ezesondo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuzonwabisa ngesondo - loo nto ingumntu ophantsi kwaye uyedwa. Ngoko ke, ukuba unesiqhelo se-orgasm okokuqala, kukuphela nje ukuba ujabule.