Ngokutsho kwezesondo, iinjongo ezifana ne-female orgasm kunye nokulinganisa ziye zaba yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobomi besondo obuninzi lwezibini. Uphando kulo mmandla ubonisa ukuba phakathi kwabasetyhini abaye babonakalisa i-orgasm, i-75% yabo yasebenzisa ukunyenga amaxesha angama-50 kubomi babo obusondeleyo. Ngelo xesha, i-10% yabathathiweyo bayalinganisa i-orgasm lonke ixesha. Yintoni ephawulekayo, izizathu zezenzo zamabhinqa ziye zaziwa ngokude kwiingcali.
Isifiso sokugqiba kungekudala
Isizathu esivakalayo sokumlinganiswa kwe-orgasm yabasetyhini ngumnqweno wokuphelisa ngokukhawuleza isenzo sesondo. Ukunyameka kule meko kuyindlela yokukhawuleza iqabane. Umfazi wakhe sele 'anelisekile', ixesha lokufikelela kwi-orgasm kunye nam.
Ngokuqhelekileyo ukufaniswa kwe-orgasm kunokubangelwa ukuba ubuhlobo obusondeleyo nomntu obhinqileyo abuvunyelwanga. Mhlawumbi, isigqibo malunga noqhagamshelwano sithathwe ngaphantsi kwengcinezelo okanye iingcamango zakhe zithatha iingxaki. Iingxaki zomsebenzi, usuku olunzima, ukugula kwengane - konke oku kunokubangela ukulinganisa i-orgasm, ukuze kugqitywe isenzo sobudlelwane obusondeleyo. Zonke ezi zinto ziphazamisa loo ntokazi, musa ukuvumela ukuphumla nokuzonwabisa. Ngoko ke, ubudlelwane obusondeleyo buboniswa ngumfazi njengoko wenza imisebenzi ekhethekileyo kunye nezinye iindleko zentsapho kunye nezindlu. Oku kubangela ukuba umnqweno wakhe uqede ngokukhawuleza.
Into ebalulekileyo yiingxaki zabasetyhini abanezempilo. Ukuba isondo senza intombi ibe yintsholongwane, ukulinganisa i-orgasm kumvumela ukuba ayeke kwaye aphumle. Ukongezelela, kukho iimeko xa i-orgasm yowesifazane ibangela intlungu yowesifazane kwaye ingakhathazeki. Abasetyhini abaneengxaki bahlala besetyenziselwa ukuzincama. Ngoko ke, ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo, ukuguqula i-orgasm, bathambekele ekuqinisekiseni ukuba ubuncinane babo iqabane livakalelwa.
I-Orgasm njengomqondiso wokubulela
Isizathu esilandelayo sokuxelisa i-orgasm ngumnqweno wesifazana wento into yokubulela indoda yakhe. Umzekelo, xa ubuyela ekhaya, umfazi ulindele isidlo sothando esilungiselelwe ngumlingane wakhe okanye isipho esibalulekileyo. Yaye nangona ibhinqa lingenanto yokwabelana ngesondo, uyayenza njengesiqinisekiso sokubonga, ngenxa yeso sizathu sokumisa i-orgasm.
Ukulandela iziganeko
Ngamanye amaxesha amanyathelo athatyathwa ngumfazi achazwa ngokungafuni ukujongana. Zonke iindaba ezixhamlileyo zenza kuphela oko zithetha ngeengxaki zobuncwane, ezinokubangela ukuba ibhinqa libeke le ngxaki kuye. Ukongezelela, uluntu lwangoku luthi ukuziphatha ngokwesini kwintombi kufuneka kubonakaliswe kwisifiso sakhe sokuhlala ngesondo. Ukuzama ukulandelelanisa la maqhinga, le ntokazi ihlaziya ukuxelisa i-orgasm.
Ngaba bayabona ukulinganisa komntu
Kunzima ukuphendula lo mbuzo ngokungathandabuzekiyo. Yonke into incike ekugcinweni komntu kunye nekhono lomdlali weqabane lakhe. Ukuziphatha nokuvakalelwa komntu ngamnye ngabanye. Yaye yonke into enomntu ofanayo iyazibonakalisa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Kukho amadoda axhalabele kakhulu malunga nomcimbi we-female orgasm, obangela ukuba bafune iimpendulo ezithile kwiindawo ezizodwa okanye kwiincwadi. Emva koko, bazama ukuqonda iimpawu zabo zomlingani zengqondo. Kwaye ukuba ubuncinane bodwa "amaphuzu" akakho, umntu onjalo unokugxeka lo mfazi ngokulinganisa, nangona kukho i-orgasm yangempela. Kodwa ngelenhlanhla la madoda angamaxabiso akwanele.
Ziyingozi kumzimba wesetyhini
Oogqirha baye baqinisekisa ixesha elide lokuba ukuxelisa umfazi nge-orgasm kunokubangela ukuba umzimba wakhe ube nengozi kakhulu. Ukukhutshwa komzimba okunjalo kuyimfuneko kwaye luncedo kumfazi. Kwaye akusebenzi nje kuphela kwimizimba, kodwa nempilo yengqondo. Ukongezelela, ukuba iqabane elidlulileyo kwiminyaka emininzi yobudlelwane sele lityhila ibhinqa ngokuziqhenya, oku kungenza ikhefu elidityanisiweyo kulwalamano lwabo.