Amantombazana ayathanda ukugqoka, amadoda akhangele amantombazana amhle. Kodwa ukuba intombazana isoloko iguqula imifanekiso yakhe, ibe "yinto", ngoko "uAlyonushka", indoda iya kuba nzima kakhulu ...
Kwangaphi na, emva kokungaphumeleli okanye ukuphumelela okunokuphumelelayo, uthi: "Lo akayena mfazi endinamnqula!" Yaye loo nto mbazana ifuna ukutshintsha, idla ngokutshintsha imifanekiso yazo kwaye "ilungele" kuluntu.
Indoda iyayithanda intombazana ngokubanzi, kodwa iphendulela nakwenye yeendlela zokujonga. Ukuba uthe waqhaqhazela kwiphunga lomzimba wakhe, kuya kuba lula kuye ukutshintsha umfanekiso wakhe. Kodwa ukuba iqela elibonakalayo lichaphazeleka kakhulu, ngoko ukuba intombazana isoloko iguqula imifanekiso, ubuhlobo busemngciphekweni.
Utshintsho lwe minyaka
Unyaka emva konyaka asikwazi ukuhlakanipha kuphela, kodwa, ngelishwa, sibadala. Amancinci amancinci kumacangca amehlo, kungekhona amadolo aphelile kakhulu emva kwebusika "zazhory" - konke oku ufuna ukufihla. Futhi esikhundleni sokuba "uvule kancane" into enye. Yenza ukwenziwa okwenziwe ngokukhawuleza okanye udayise iinwele zakho zibe zibomvu okanye zingabonakali ngaphantsi, kunye negama elilingayo "ibhegund ehloniphekileyo". Shintsha umfanekiso ngokubanzi.
Kodwa kusekhona ekhaya nangoko! Nangona kunjalo, akukho mntu unako ukutshintsha ngaphakathi ngaphakathi kwelinye uhambo ukuya kwi-hairdresser okanye i-salon enobuhle. Kwaye ngaphandle kokuba ungummeli weenguqu zokuhlala rhoqo, indoda yakho iya kuqonda ukuba ngaphakathi kwakho kuyafana. Ukuba kunjalo - ukuhlonipha kuye nokudumisa. Ukuba akunjalo-kutheni ufuna "umfokazi" kumhlaba we Mars, ongakulungele ukuqonda nokukwamukela?
Umzekelo, mhlawumbi, kuphela ukuhlinzwa ngoplastiki. Ngaba ufuna ukwenza "i-melon ezincinane" "kwiipeaches" okanye "utshintshe ubuso bakho"? Zama ukuqonda umfazi wakho ngoku. Uyingqina kwaye mhlawumbi imbangela yaloo mbimbi omncinci ebunzini lakho, loo minqweno emnandi emacaleni omlomo wakho ... Yiba nombulelo kuye ngenxa yememori yakhe, ngenxa yokuba uyakuxabisa, kwaye akakho konke ukulungele ukubona "intlanzi yeebhokhwe" okanye ingowesibini u-Pamela Anderson endlwini ...
Utshintsho oluntu
Ngamanye amaxesha intombazana isoloko iguqula imifanekiso yakhe ngenxa yeenguqu zentlalo. Esinye isimo sichaza isitayela esahlukileyo. AmaMom kunye namakhosikazi abashishino abaphumelelayo, kunye nabanobhala kwiiofisi zambatha ngokungafaniyo. Owokuqala uvumelekile ukuba abe "lwasekhaya", kwaye okwesibini baphoqelelwe ukuba benze i-hairstyle egxininisekileyo kwaye bajonge umzobo kunye nokugqithiseleyo-ngaphandle koko abaphantsi baya kushiywa ngaphandle, kwaye yonke imizamo iya kuba yinto.
Kodwa xa amantombazana atshintsha utshintsho imifanekiso, inokutsha. Emva kwakho konke, ukusuka kwethu kunye nabathandekayo, kunye nabaphathi, kwaye abathengi abathandekayo balindele ukuzinza. Utshintsho ngamnye lomfanekiso luyinto eyongezelelekileyo kubo, enokubonakaliswa kwimisebenzi yabo kunye nobudlelwane.
Mhlawumbi ufuna ukuba "i-bitch yeyure," okanye uzame kumfanekiso wesityebi esinyene, ingonyama yelizwe ... Kodwa umfanekiso awuyi kuphinda uthathe indawo yokuziqonda ngaphakathi kwangoku. Inokwenzeka ukuba, ukuba uziva ungeneliseki ngaphakathi kwimeko yakho yentlalo, kufuneka usebenze kunye nengcali yeengqondo.
Kutheni ufuna ukuhluka?
Sitshintsha iingubo kunye neengubo, isitayela kunye nomfanekiso - ngakumbi xa sigula, sisindayo, sifuna ukuphazamisa size siyeke ukucinga ngeentlungu. Akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi olu tshintsho kuthi sijamelane nayo, kwaye ukuba sisuke sisuka kwipeni, asiyi kufuna ngokukhawuleza "ukubuyela konke".
Kodwa ke siyanyanzelekile ukuba sicinge ngombono wendoda esondele. Emva koko, kungenakuqhathaniswa, xa ejwayele ukubona intombazana enomsindo obomvu eseduze, kwaye ngokukhawuleza i-brunette ebonakalayo iyabonakala esikhundleni sayo isithandwa sayo.
Ufanelekile ukutshintshwa
Kubonakala ngathi, nakwixesha elimnyama lokuphelelwa lithemba, ungaqhubeki ngokukhawuleza kwi-stylist. Kubalulekile ukukhangela ezinye iindlela zokuzibonakalisa kunye nokuphazamiseka kwiingcamango ezinzima. Oku kungenza ubuchule (nangona awuyidingi le mifanekiso kwisitayela "yobugcisa bomtya").
Iingqungquthela kunye neeprose - ezinye zizuze udumo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha - kunye nomthombo omkhulu wemali engenayo. Ukupheka - ubuncinane abathandekayo bakho baya kuneliseka.
Ukuhamba kweso sixeko sakho sasekhaya kunye namadlelo - umoya omtsha nolutsha, uhamba kunye nebala eliphilileyo - ezi zifana ngokufanayo.