Elena Verbitskaya, utitshala.
Ngesinye isikhathi, ndathi ndavula umgogo wam ugogo, ndafumana incwadi endala enothuli. Wachitha iminyaka engaphezu kwekhulu phakathi kweKrisimesi nePhasika amakhadi. Kwakuyincwadi enobulunga obuhle kumamazana. Emva koko andisazi ukuba kuya kuba luncedo njani kum. Iminyaka eyikhulu ininzi ishintshile, kodwa izifundo eziphambili ze-etiquette kwaye zivela kule ncwadi.
Isifundo esisodwa
Ibhinqa lokwenyaniso kufuneka linyamekele ukubonakala kwayo rhoqo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yiyiphi imigomo.
Ndiyakhumbula isiganeko umama wam umhlobo endixelele. Kulo dacha, apho yena kunye nendodana yakhe eneminyaka emibili beyichithe ihlobo, uninazala, owesifazane obelekileyo, wafika kumtyelela. Umkhwenyana wagijimela kwi-veranda ukutshala uninazala kumgangatho ococekileyo, kodwa wayeka ngamazwi athi: "Mhlobo wam, ngaba unako ukuvumela indoda ukuba ikubone kule ngubo yokugqoka? Tshintsha ngokukhawuleza! Unako ukungena. " Umfazi osekhulile akazange abe neentloni ngaye, ngenxa yokuba wayephoqelelwe. Kodwa ukunyaniseka kwifomu yakhe kwakubonakala kungamkelekanga kulo, nakweyiphi na imeko.
Isifundo ezimbini
Umhlobiso oyintloko weenwele zowesifazane. Ukutshintsha i-hairdress ilandelelana kunye neyendlu yangasese, ngokwemozulu, ixesha lemihla, ixesha okanye isimo.
Intloko efanelekileyo kufuneka igcinwe yonke imini. Ukuze wenze oku, qhafaza nje iinwele zakho rhoqo. Kodwa intloko efanelekileyo ayiyonto. Ekuseni, iinwele ezigqoke kakuhle zilungile, ngokuhlwa-zibeka ngokukhululekile. Ngokuqhelekileyo, i-hairdo ingatshintshwa amaxesha amaninzi ngosuku, ukuba unayo ngeli xesha. Khawukhumbule: akufanele udibanise iinwele zakho kwindawo kawonkewonke - kungekhona kwindawo kawonkewonke, okanye ekhaya.
Umhlobo wam uthetha ngokwalo ngale ndlela: "Ndivuka emva kweesithandathu ezisiqingatha ukuba ndibe nexesha lokuzibeka ngokusemgangathweni-ukwenza lula ukuzenza kunye neenwele. Kodwa yintoni enye? Andikwazi ukubonakala ngombonakalo obushushu phambi komntwana omncinci! "Kungekudala ndafunda ukuba lo mfazi wayeneminyaka eyi-86 ubudala, kunye nomkhwenyana wakhe omtsha-iminyaka engama-61. Ngaba akuyinto enhle ukuqonda ubomi?
Isifundo Sithathu
Ibhinqa elifanelekileyo kufuneka litshintshe ubuncinane iintsuku ezisixhenxe ngosuku: kusasa, isidlo sakusasa, ukuhamba kunye nokutyelela, isidlo sasemini, emini, kusihlwa nobusuku. Ngokutsho kweengubo, iinguqu ezisixhenxe zeengubo kunye neenguqu eziyisixhenxe zengubo, kuquka nezicathulo zelanga.
Ewe, oko kuninzi, uya kuthi. Kodwa masithathe esi sincomo asizange senze, kodwa ngobuchule. Emva koko, into ephambili kukuba ihlakaniphe kwaye ihlaziye. Ngoko, musa ukuhamba ngexesha elifanayo kwinto enye, ungagqoki i-slippers ezixutywayo kunye ne-apron e-greasy, ube ne-plateau ecocekileyo kunye nawe, okanye ezimbini: enye yezoshishino, enye inesikhwama se-stock. Kulo mabhinqa banamhlanje, ndiyakumcebisa ukuba uyilibale ngesambatho okanye ukhumbule kuphela ekuseni okanye ngaphambi kokulala. Ukuhamba ngeenxa zonke kwindlu kukhululekile kakhulu kwiingubo zasekhaya okanye ngeebhulukhwe.
Kuya kuba kuhle ukufunda kubantu bexesha elidlulileyo inkohlakalo yokutshintsha isidlo sakusihlwa. Ixesha lesidlo liphezulu kwimihla, i-harbinger yohlwaya omhle. Ngeveki-ntsuku, yonke intsapho ibuthela etafileni yokutya. Izambatho ezintle, iphunga elincinci leqhumiso lidala umoya ophezulu ekudleni, oku kugcinwa kuze kube sekupheleni kosuku. Ngenxa yezihlwele zethu ootatomkhulu bazi indlela yokuhlala bekhululekile ubomi bemihla ngemihla, kungekhona ukuba bangene kuyo. Ukongezelela, iinkqubo ezintle zikhonza ukuqinisa ukuzithemba, ukuzisa abantu kunye. Kwizinto ezincinane ezinjalo, inkcubeko yolwalamano lwentsapho igcinwa.
Ndiza kunika umzekelo kumlando, osebenza njengomgangatho kum. INkosana MN Volkonskaya, umfazi weCemembrist SG Volkonsky, waya kwindoda yakhe nzima eSiberia, akazange ayitshintshe imikhwa yakhe. Akazange avele esidlangalaleni ngaphandle kweiglavu kunye nesigqubuthelo.