Ngaba luncedo kangakanani ukufihla nokufuna?
- Ukuqeqesha iimpawu kunye nezakhono. Fihla kwaye ufune uncedo ukuphuhlisa iipropati ezibalulekileyo zengqondo yabantu, ingqalelo kunye nememori. Uphando lufundisa umntwana ngenjongo kwaye luvusa iinqwenela kuye. Amandla okuvuya. Into ebamangalisayo kumdlalo, ukuxhalabisa ngokunyanisekileyo kwizinto ezilula kukunceda umntu omncinane ukuba akhangele ihlabathi ngokuthe tye.
- Ukucinga okubonakalayo. Kubalulekile ukuba "uncedise umfanekiso" kwaye ufumane ikona yenkcazelo nangona kungekho zihlandlo. Kuphuhliso lweengcamango ezicingayo zijoliswe kumdlalo "ukuqagela inxalenye yonke": emsila - isilwanyana, kwiphepha - umthi, njl.
- Umbono opheleleyo kunye nokuqonda kwexesha. Ukukhangela umdlalo olahlekileyo, inkunzi iyakwazi ukuhlawula ipropati ebalulekileyo yezinto: nangona zingabonakali, oku akuthethi ukuba baphelile ngonaphakade, kwaye umama oshiya emsebenzini uya kubonakala ngokuhlwa kwaye adlale. Uphando alugcini nje ukuqeqesha ubuchule beengqondo zomntwana, kodwa lunceda ukulungelelanisa ubomi bomntu, lukulungele ukuzimela.
Izinto ezincedisayo
Eminye into eyenziwa yinkwenkwezi yokudlala i-hide-and-seek, ngokukhawuleza uza kukwazi iipropati zezinto ezifani kakhulu, umbala wazo, ukuma kunye nokuthungwa. Ngaphambi komntwana, ngcwaba isikhunta esicacileyo entlabathi - masiyike. Ekhaya, amathoyizi amancinci (umzekelo, ukusuka kwimimangaliso) angangcwatyelwa kwisitya kunye ne-croup okanye i-vermicelli. Fihla uze Ufune kwi-plate. Lo mdlalo unceda ukondla i-mare. Thenga isitya se-crumb, ephantsi apho udwebe umfanekiso oqaqambileyo, Uncede "ukhangele" ibhere okanye idonki, udla i-spoonful for spoon.
- Zophando. Vumela umntwana ukuba akhangele into enomdla kwiipokethi zengubo yakho okanye ingubo. Makube ngothushu - ishekhi, ithoyizi, isondo.
- Izipho zokuzalwa okanye umgomo omtsha unokuthi udibaniswe kwiindawo eziliqela zefestile ezigqithisiweyo okanye iphepha elikhanyayo. Kubantwana abancinci, inkqubo yokupakisha ibonakala iyathakazelisa ngaphezu kwesipho ngokwayo. Musa nje ukukhutshwa kwaye ungenzi umshini wokubhala omncinci umqulu omkhulu, ukuze ungadumisi umntwana.
Zonke iimeko ziyazithobela
- Ukufikelela kwiminyaka emithathu. Qiniseka ukuba ukuba umntwana osandul 'uzalwa unolwimi olubonisa ulwimi lwakhe, uya kuphendula impendulo yakhe. Bese uyifihle, njengokuba umama wenza. Zama ukuvala amehlo akho kuqala ngezandla zakho, ngoko-amehlo omntwana. Emva koko, gubungela amehlo abantwana ngeentende zakhe. Fihla emva kwe-diaper. Jonga kakuhle kwaye ushiywe, phezulu nangaphantsi, ufihle emva kwesitokisi esikhulu. Konke oku kubangela uvuyo olunobundlobongela kulutsha. Bonisa umntwana ukubonakalisa kwakhe kwisibuko. Suka kude kwisibuko - zifihla. Yiza kwakhona uze ubonise apho umama esesibukweni, kwaye kuphi-umntwana ngokwakhe.
- 6-9 iinyanga. Buza umntwana ukuba asuse i-sock ("Uphi na iminwe yokufihla?"). Lo mdlalo uza kunceda ukuphuhlisa umntwana wengqondo. Phonsa i-diaper phezu kwentloko yakho ("Uphi na umama?"), Kwaye xa umntwana usisusayo - ngokukhawuleza uthi: "Nangu umama!" Ngoku, vula iziqhekeza, kunye neyakho-ukuba zikhangele kwaye zikumangalise. Qiniseka ukuba ujabule kwaye ukhukhuze umntwana xa ebonakala okanye akufumanisa. Fihla esandleni sakho itekisi elincinci okanye elincinci. Vula isandla sakho, bonise umntwana wakho kwaye uvale ngokukhawuleza. Makhe afune umdlalo ofihliweyo. Ukuba udidekile, bonise umdlalo kwakhona.
- 10-12 iinyanga. Abantwana bathanda ukufihla izinto ezifanelekileyo kwiindawo ezininzi ezingalindelekanga, Thatha izitshixo, izilawuli ezikude kunye nomnxeba weselula ukusuka kummandla wokujonga. Fihla nayiphi na into ezwakalayo (i-clock clock) ngekomityi yehafu. Makhe akhangele, aziqhelanise ngesandi. Thenga ithoyiphu efana ne "devil from a boxbox". Kuya kubangela ukuzonwabisa ngokwenene. Fihla emva kwesitulo, kwaye mvumele umntwana azame ukukufumana. Lo mdlalo ugqugquzela ukuhamba nokukhwela. Ngoku, cela umntwana ukuba afihle, kwaye uya kumkhangela. Musa ukumfumana ngokukhawuleza-makangaboni ukukhangela unina kwaye ahlekise ukungafanelanga (ukuqeqeshwa kakuhle kobuhle).
- 1-2 iminyaka, Ngeli xesha, zifihle kwaye zifune ngokufanelekileyo ukuphuhliswa komntwana. Kwaye akunandaba nokuba yintoni na eyanyamalalayo kwaye ivela kwakhona - amathoyizi okanye abantu - inkunzi yenyana iyakonwaba.
- I-Blindfire. Insimbi okanye ukukhwela kunikwe umntu ofihlayo. Ofunayo, uvale okanye uphawule. Umntwana ngesandi kufuneka aqonde indlela eya kuyo. Umdlalo uphuhlise kakuhle ukuva nokuvalelwa kwengqalelo. Ngentambo ende okanye isiselo esiqinileyo, tyalela ithoyizi uze uyifihle, umzekelo, kwikhefu. Ukusuka kwenye i-stash ukusela igumbi, udlula ngaphaya nangaphezulu kweetrone, isepha, ikhapiti, umntwana kufuneka alandele intambo-intambo, anqobe izithintelo aze azame ukufumana ithoyilo. Okokuqala, udlale kunye, ngoko kufuneka uxelele i-crumb: "Ibhenqo phantsi kombhoxo." Ungasebenzisa kwakhona iintolo, udwetswe ngesitya (esitrato), okanye umkhondo uthathe iphepha (kwigumbi).
- Iminyaka 2-3. Umntwana sele sele eqonda ukuba i-diaper, ephoswe phezu kwentloko yakhe, ayiyi kufihla. Ngoku ufihla phantsi kwengubo, ekhupha impumlo okanye isithende, kwaye ezama ukuhlala engaboni. Ixesha lokuthandayo elithandayo lifihla kwindawo yokuhlamba emnyama (rhoqo ishiya umtya), phantsi kwebhokisi enkulu okanye ukunyuka phantsi kombhede.
- "Kubanda kakhulu." Igumbi lifihla ithoyizi, kwaye umntwana kufuneka akufumanise ngeengcebiso zomama. Ungalibali ukutshintsha ngeendima zakho ezincinci. Ukuba kukho abadlali abangaphezu kweebini, awufihla into yokudlala, kodwa umntu.
- Iminyaka emi-3-5. Ukufihla nokufuna kunokutsalwa ukuba uqhelane neencwadi kwaye ufundise ukufunda. Kwincwadi nganye kwimifanekiso unokukhangela into enomdla: izinto ezibomvu kuphela, okanye "ezifihlekileyo" zithwala iibhubhu, okanye izinto zowunxantathu, okanye ezinye iileta (ingakumbi ezo zinganikwa umntwana). Le nkqubo ikhulisa ingqalelo, imemori, kunye nexesha elifanayo-umzali womsanqa.
Indlela ende ngeemoto okanye isitimela iya kupheka ingabonakali, ukuba kuvela kwinto engathandekiyo yokuphazamiseka ngophando: ngubani owokuqala ukubona indlu enophahla olubomvu? Ingcamango yokuba "ngakwesobunxele-kwesokunxele" ingafundwa ngokudlala i-hide-and-seek. Myeke umntwana ukuba acinge, ngakuphi na ukufihla itekisi elincinci okanye i-candy. Ukuba uqikelele, yithuba lakhe lokufihla (kwaye ngexesha elifanayo regale). Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana angabonisi nje isandla sakhe, kodwa ubize. Umdlalo "Funda ngochukumiso" uya kuvuyisa kwiholide yabantwana, abancinci nabakhulu. Umdwebo "umvuzo" (amathoyizi, ipensela, i-candy, iipulo, njl.) Kwisikhwama esikhulu. Yilowo nalowo makangayiboni ngokungaziqondi ukuqonda kunye nokuchonga into ekuthinteni. Ukuqagela kuba isipho. Kwaye ungadlala ngokuhlukileyo. Gubungela ngesiguwu esikhulu sabantwana abaninzi, kwaye mvumele umntu ophetheyo azifumanise ngokuchukumisa ama-silhouettes. Ukufihla i-Classic kwaye ufune, apho ungadlala khona ubuncinci kwindlu encinane, nakwibala lokudlala, kungekhona nje ukuphuhliswa, kodwa nomdlalo weselula. Kubalulekile ukuba badlale inkampani enkulu: inkunzi iya kufuna ulwimi olufanayo nabanye abantwana.