Ukuphuhliswa kobuntu bomntwana kwiminyaka yobudala

Kwixesha lokufundela esikolweni umntwana ufumana utshintsho oluthile lomzimba kunye nolwazi. Uba lula ukuqonda, ukuvakalelwa kunye nokuzimela, ukukhumbula kwakhe kukuphucula. Usadinga ukuvavanya okufutshane, kodwa sele esazi ukuhlamba, u tyelele indlu yangasese, udle, ugqoke kwaye ugqoke.

Nangona ukukhala rhoqo, i-whims kunye ne-scandals, umntwana ngokugqithiseleyo uyakunqumla u-egocentrism wangaphambili, uyazi into enokuyenza kwaye ayikwazi, kwaye uyayiqonda xa iyanconywa okanye ityala. Yintoni ekufuneka ibe yinto efanelekileyo yokuphuhliswa kwengane kwiminyaka yobudala, funda kwinqaku ngesihloko esithi "Ukuphuculwa kobuntu bomntwana kwiminyaka yobudala."

Uphuhliso lomzimba kunye nolwazi

Xa kuthelekiswa namanqanaba adlulileyo, izinga lokukhula linciphisa. Ngomnyaka wesithathu wobomi, ubunzima bomntwana bunyuke ngo-2.3 kg, ubude - ngo-9 cm; emva kokufikelela kwiminyaka engama-4, ubunzima banda ngo-2 kg, ukuphakama-ngu-2 cm Ukongezwa kuba ngumdlalo ophezulu, umlinganiselo-omncinci. Kule minyaka, amakhwenkwe adla ngokude kwaye anzima kunamantombazana. Abafana banesisindo esingaphezulu kwesisu, amantombazana anesisipha ezininzi. Olu tshintsho lomzimba, kunye nokuphuhliswa kwengqondo kunye nenkqubo ye-nervous, ivuselela i-motility (ukuhlakulela imisipha emide kunye emfutshane). Ngombulelo kwiinkqubo ezijikelezayo kunye nokuphefumula, umntwana unemithombo enkulu yamandla, kunye kunye neenkqubo zokuzivikela ezikhulileyo zikhonza njengesiqinisekiso sempilo kunye nokuphila. Kulo nqanaba lophuhliso, abantwana bahlala behlushwa zizifo ezinjengezilwanyana kunye nokusuleleka kwezifo. Kwiminyaka engama-3 kuyacaca ukuba umntwana onamalungelo okanye i-left-handed, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo oku kuqinisekiswe kuphela iminyaka emi-5. Kubalulekile ukuhlonipha ukhetho lomntwana kwaye ungalokothi ulungise, uqiniseke ukuba wenze "njengalindelekileyo": umntwana kufuneka aziphathe ngokuhambelana nenkqubo yendalo yophuhliso lobuchopho.

Uphuhliso lwengqondo kunye nengqondo

Umntwana unombono weempawu (uthetha kwaye uzama ukubhala). Uqonda ubudlelwane phakathi kwesizathu kunye nomphumo. Ukwandisa imvakalelo ebuntwini bomntwana. Ukukwazi ukuphatha amanani kuphuhliswa. Umntwana ucingisisa, ngamanye amaxesha unobunzima bokucacisa inkolelo eqhelekileyo. Akasakwazi ukugcina iingcamango ezininzi entloko, ngoko ngamanye amaxesha ufumana izigqibo ezingenangqiqo kwaye akaqondi ukuba esinye isiphumo singafikelela kwiindlela ezininzi.

Phuhliso loluntu

Umlingani kunye nokuzithemba ngobuntu bomntwana kwiminyaka yokufundela kuyabonakala ngakumbi. Umntwana uye wandisa amathuba okuva nokuveza iimvakalelo. Ukwahlula phakathi kweenkcubeko zentlalo neenkcubeko ezinxulumene nabasetyhini okanye amadoda. Umntwana uqala ukuthetha nabazalwana noodadewabo. Abazali bafanele babe negalelo ekuthandeni kwabo, ukuhlonipha kunye nokunyamezela, kwaye akukho mzekelo ukuthelekiswa, ukucasula nawuphi na wabantwana. Kwiminyaka engama-3 ubudala, umntwana unabohlobo bakhe bokuqala. Ufunda ukugcina ubudlelwane obuhle, ukwazi nokuthetha nabanye abantwana. Ukuphuhliswa kwentetho kunye nobuntu bomntwana kukhuthaza ukucinga okucetywayo, ngenxa yoko, intetho isetyenziswe ngokufanelekileyo. Kule minyaka, abantwana bayakwazi ukuthetha ngezinto abazibonanga ngqo phambi kwabo - ukukhumbula ixesha elidlulileyo, ukwenza izicwangciso zekamva, ukuthetha ngezifundo ezicinga, usebenzisa ubuninzi kunye nexesha elidlulileyo.

Kwiminyaka engama-3-5 ubudala, abantwana banokufunda amagama ambalwa ngosuku, kodwa abawasebenzise ngaso sonke isikhathi njengabantu abadala. Ngokomzekelo, igama elithi "ngomso" umntwana angayichaza nayiphi na ixesha elizayo. Kule minyaka, abantwana bayakha izivakalisi ngokumalunga namazwi angama-4-5. Abantwana abaninzi kule minyaka baxoxa nabo kwaye ababonisi umnqweno omncinci wokuthetha nabanye abantu. Kodwa qaphelani: ukuba lo mkhuba awupheli kunye nexesha, unokuba yimbangela yokukhathazeka. Kwiminyaka yokuqala yobomi, abantwana bava imiyalelo emininzi, imiyalelo, ukuthintela, ngoko akumangalisi ukuba ngamaxesha abo baqala ukuwasebenzisa. Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-4 bafumana amandla lamagama: bayalela abanye, ngakumbi abantwana abaselula. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba oku kuphela isigaba sentshintsho, esibangela ukuphuhliswa komdlali. Kwiminyaka engama-3 ubudala ubudala, umntwana unomuva wokuba awazi amagama amagama kunye nokuqonda indlela ahlelwe ngayo. Ixesha lokungapheli "kutheni?" Uqala. Abazali akufanele bacasulwe. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukunika iimpendulo ezimfutshane nezilula ukuba umntwana angayiqonda ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa ngumnqweno wokufunda. Ukuqala kweli nqanaba kukubonakalisa ukuba umntwana ukhula. Ngoku siyazi indlela ukuphuhliswa kobuntu bomntwana kubakho kwiminyaka yobudala.