Isifundo 1: UkuQeqesha koQeqesho
Unentombazana encinane, othanda ubomi, ufunde ihlabathi kwaye ubonise uthando lwakhe nokubulela kuwe. Kodwa, ngaphezu kokutya okunesondlo kunye nokuhamba, umntwana ngamnye ufuna ukukhuliswa ngokufanelekileyo.
Kuhle kakhulu, ukuba sele ucinga ngokuqeqesha intshontsho. Kodwa kwenzeka ukuba ababelethi okanye abahlobo abanalo inja, bayamangalisa ngemibandela yakho malunga nokuba uqala nini ukuqeqesha, kwaye ucebise ukuba ungabi msinya uze unike umntwana ukuba ujabule ubuncinane buntwaneni. Ngaba kunjalo? Ukuba sithetha ngokuqeqeshwa njengophuhliso lwezakhono eziyinkimbinkimbi kwinja kunye nokuphendula ngokucacileyo kwimithetho yomnini-ke, ngokuqinisekileyo, kulungile.
I-Puppy eneminyaka emi-2-4 inzima kakhulu ukugxila kwisenzo esinye ixesha elide. Intsana ikhawuleza iyakhathala kwaye ishintshele nayiphi na into ebonakalayo kwintsimi yakhe yombono.
Siza kuqwalasela izinja zokuqeqeshwa kunye noqeqesho ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo njengendlela yokukhetha umdlalo odibeneyo. Ukuba, ngokuncediswa kwemisebenzi elula kunye nenomdla, uchazela intombazana enxibelelana nawe imnandi, kwaye, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, ayiyikotyi, ngoko ke ngokubuyisela ufumane ukudibanisa kakuhle nenja yakho. Oku kuya kunceda ukubeka isiseko sobudlelwane obuqhelekileyo bexesha elizayo phakathi komnini kunye nesilwanyana.
Izifundo zokuqala zenzelwe i-puppy phakathi kweminyaka eyi-1 neye-4.
Akukho mfihlelo ukuba impazamo enkulu kunye nesizathu seengxaki ezininzi ebuhlotsheni phakathi komnini kunye nenja ngumnqweno wethu "wokuhlambulula" inja. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abanikazi bavumela iimfuyo zabo zonke izinto, balungisa le ndlela ngokuziphatha: inye ilungu losapho lwethu, kwaye simthanda. " Ngenxa yoko, bafumana umshicileli ongalawulwayo osebenzisa ngokuzenzekelayo ukuvunyelwa kwiinjongo zabo.
Ngoko ngubani na inkokheli?
Ngalunye uhlangothi lwengqekembe yindawo ebizwa ngokuthi "alfalider", ehlala ngabanikazi abaphulaphule ingcebiso yomqeqeshi okanye "i-doggirl". Ngamanye amaxesha lo mbono inja uyakhiwa ngokufunda iincwadi ezincinci malunga nokuqeqeshwa, okucebisa ukuba ulawulo olunzulu phezu kwenja kwaye lubonise ukuphakama kwalo imihla ngemihla. Izinja ezikhulayo kwiintsapho ezinjalo ziphantsi kwengcinezelo kwaye zisoyike umnini, oku kudla ngokuba yimbangela yokuba amalungu omndeni atshabalale kunye nokulwa nokungalawulwa kwabanye abantu okanye izilwanyana.
Ukuze uphephe iimpazamo ezingenakucatshangelwayo kwizinja zokuqeqesha ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo nokwakha ubudlelwane obuqhelekileyo, ubudlelwane obugcwele kunye nenja yam, ndincoma ukuba uhambelane nale migaqo elandelayo. Inja iyayiqonda intsapho njengomhlambi, kwaye nayiphi na imizamo "yokuzihlakulela" ngaphandle kokuzama 'ukucinga njengenja' nokuba yincinci, iholele kwimibango. Izinja zizidalwa zentlalo apho iikhontrakthi ezifana nesakhiwo sepakethi, inkokheli kunye nokubaluleka kubaluleke kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, ezi ngcaciso zininzi ngokubanzi, kubonakala ngathi ziqala kuqala. Musa ukuthobela "i-alpha syndrome" kwaye ukhumbule ukuba ukubaluleka kuninzi malunga nenhlonipho yenkokeli kunokuba ukwesaba, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukubonakaliswa ngoncedo lwamandla omzimba. Isakhiwo somhlambi asikwazi ukumelelwa njengendlela elula yokuzimela. Ekuhambeni koqeqesho lwethu siya kuzama ukuncedisa umnini ukuba abe negunya le-puppy, eliya kuba nzima, lifanele kwaye lihloniphe.
Imfuneko ebalulekileyo
Ukuqonda kangcono iskimu esiza kuyakha izifundo zethu, makhe sijonge imigaqo emibini esondele kakhulu kwisandi kwaye ngamanye amaxesha unxulumene nathi njengolu hlobo. Kodwa ulwahlulo lwayo olubalulekileyo lubaluleke kangangokuba luya kukuvumela ukuba ukhangeleke ngokuthe ngcembe kwintsebenziswano kunye ne-puppy yakho.
Ugunyaziso - igunya lokunandipha, elifanelwe ukuzithemba ngokungenanto.
I-Authoritarian-ngokusekelwe ekuthobeleni okungaqinisekanga, amandla, ukunyanzelisa.
Ndiyathemba ukuba ngoku kuzo zonke izigaba zokuqeqesha kunye nokuqeqesha isilwanyana sakho isiseko sobudlelwane bakho siya kuba nethemba elingenasimo, ukuqonda nokuhlonipha.
O mnandi
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale, jonga ezinye iinkalo ezibalulekileyo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo uza kufuneka unyango olumele lulungiswe kwangaphambili.
Ukudla okuncinci kumancinci amancinci okutya okuthandwa ngumntwana, kodwa akawudli rhoqo. Ngaloo ushizi, ubilisiwe okanye inyama eluhlaza (intaka yenkukhu, inyama yenkomo, isibindi) iya kwenza. Ubungakanani bokudla buxhomekeke kubuhlanga lwenja (encinci intshontsho, ezincinci iziqhekeza), kodwa kungabi ngaphezu kwe-1-1.5 cm (isithunzi 1). Into ephambili kukuba inkukhu ayichitha ixesha lokutshiza, ngaloo ndlela iphazamisa kwisifundo.
Isikhathi sokufunda kwisigaba sokuqala sokuqeqesha akufanele sidlule ukuphindaphinda kwama-5-6. Kwixesha elizayo, kubalulekile ukwandisa ubude bee-5-10 imizuzu. Ezinye iimbotyi ziyakwazi ukumelana nezifundo ezimfutshane. Kwiintombi ezinjalo, kufuneka uchithe iiseshoni ezingama-5 ngamaxesha amathathu ngosuku.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba emva kweeklasi intshontsho ayizive idinwe. Ukugqiba isifundo okanye ukumisa isikhashana phakathi kokuzivocavoca, unakho ngendlela yomdlalo odibeneyo, ukubaluleka kwento esiza kuthetha ngayo emva kancinci.
Ukunyamezela kunye nokuzimelela zimbini iingongoma eziphambili omele uzame rhoqo. Ukuba ukhathele emva komsebenzi - thumela isifundo. Zonke izenzo ezichanekileyo zebhola kufuneka zikhuthazwe ngokunyanisekileyo ngelizwi, ekubeni i-intonation kunye nococeko ngenye yezixhobo ezibalulekileyo zokufunda ngokuphumelelayo. Ukuba intshontsho ayikwazi ukwenza umsebenzi awunikwe yona, mhlawumbi, isizathu asikho kwisimo sakhe okanye ubudenge. Awukwazi ukuxilisa umsebenzo kude kubekho umphumo osisiseko ofunyenweyo kwinqanaba lokuqala. Kubalulekile ukwahlula nayiphi na iqela elinzima kwiinkalo ezilula kwaye usebenze ngokwahlukileyo.
Isiteketiso
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yiminyaka yenkukhu kunye nokuba uhambahamba esitrato okanye engekabikho, "qalisa iiklasi ezingcono ekhaya. Ukuba umntwana uhlala kwinqanawa, unokufunda naye edieni. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukuqala ukusebenza ngaphandle komyalelo ngaphambi nje kokondla.