Izinto ezisisiseko zemfundo yesondo yabantwana

Imfundo yezocansi ihlala kwindawo ebalulekileyo kwi-arsenal ye-arsenal yabazali. Usana lwakhe luqala ukuqonda isondo sakhe kwiintsuku zokuqala zobomi bakhe. Yintsapho enendima ephambili kwimfundo yenkwenkwe njengendoda, kunye nentombazana njengowesifazane ozayo.

Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ngokukhawuleza emva kokuzalwa, kufuneka uqaphele indlela i-genitalia yangaphandle yomntwana eyenziwa ngayo. Naluphi na ukuphulwa kwezinto ezisetyenziswayo ngabalinganiswa bezesondo zangaphandle zikwazi ukulungiswa ngokulula ukulungiswa kwasebuncinaneni. Jonga ngokukhawuleza ukuba iziphathamandla zesini zomntwana zikhula njani. Naluphi na okungaqhelekanga: ukuphuhlisa ngokweqile okanye ukungafaneleki, ukuvuvukala, ukumala, ukulungeleka ukuhamba, ikakhulukazi kumakhwenkwe, kufuna ukungenelela kwangonyango.
Umntwana unomdla kakhulu emzimbeni wakhe. Uqala ukuyihlola ngokukhawuleza, njengoko efunda ukulungelelanisa ukuhamba kwezandla zakhe. Qonda ukuba ukuhlolisisa okunjalo kuyisigaba esiqhelekileyo semfundo yesondo yomntwana kwiminyaka emithathu yokuqala yobomi. Musa ukuyikrokra okanye ugxeke umntwana ukuze ungamkhathazi kunye netyala. Ukuziphatha kwakho okungalunganga kunokukhokelela ekubeni umntwana uya kuba neengxaki kunye nomnqweno wokwenza into ngasese.
Xa uneminyaka engama-3 kuya kwe-6 ubudala, umntwana uqala ukuba nomdla kwimibono yakhe yobulili kwiontanga zakhe, abazalwana kunye nodade, kunye nabazali bakhe. Le nzala ibonakaliso yelukuluko lwabantwana kwaye alukho ngesondo. Ngoko ke, nayiphina imvavanyo kule minyaka ayifanele ihlawulwe, kodwa kuphela isikhokelo sakho esilulayo "kwisiqalo sokuziphatha".
Siyabonga ngqalelo yakho, umntwana uya kuqonda ngokukhawuleza ngesondo sakhe. Chaza indlela umfazi ehluke ngayo kwindoda, inkwenkwana evela kwintombazana. Uncedo kumfana oneminyaka emithathu unokuba ngumdlalo othi "Umfana okanye Intombazana": mnikeze amanani amabini ahamba-ze, omnye wabo kufuneka agqoke kwiingubo zamantombazana, kunye nezinye - ezambatho zendoda. Kulo mdlalo kufuneka ube neeseti "zebhinqa", "indoda", izambatho ezingathathi hlangothi, amathoyizi amakhwenkwe, amantombazana kunye nokungathathi hlangothi. Kubalulekile ukufundisa umntwana ukuba aphathe umzimba wakhe ngaphandle kokwesaba nokubandlulula, ukucacisa yonke imibuzo ngokukhawuleza, usebenzisa imizekelo ebalulekileyo kwiincwadi kunye nobomi.
Ukuvuthwa kwezesondo zomntwana akunakwenzeka ngaphandle kokuphila ngokwesondo ngokuqhelekileyo kwabazali bakhe. Yiba yindalo, umntwana kufuneka azi ukuba umama nobaba bathandana. Ubomi bentsapho yabazali ngumzekelo kumntwana olwalamano phakathi kwendoda nomfazi.
Akuyimfuneko xa umntwana ehamba ehamba. Akuvunyelwanga ngokupheleleyo kumntwana omncinane ukuba abone iindawo ezibonakalayo kwiTV kunye nabazali ngokwabo!
Ukususela esemntwaneni, inkwenkwe ithatha umzekelo evela kubawo, ixoxa ngokuziphatha kwayo ngokwesondo. Kwintombazana, umama ungumzekelo. Kumele ube ngumzekelo omhle ukuba umntwana alandele.
Xa ukwazisa umntwana, into ephambili akuyikuyidlula. Thetha naye malunga nokuziphatha ngokwesini kwimeko yokuthembela kunye nenhlonipho, ulwimi olufikelelekayo lwexesha lakhe, kodwa ungabi lula lula yonke into (phambi kwe-storks neklabishi).
Ukuba ubona ukuba umntwana wakho uyakunqabana, ungasongela okanye ujezise. Kungcono ukuba ungagxininisa kule nto. Zama ukuqonda isizathu sokuba akwenze. Ukugcoba umzimba kunokuba yindlela yokunciphisa uxinzelelo, kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha, ngelishwa, yindlela kuphela yokuzincama nokuzonwabisa. Kule meko, kunika umntwana ingqwalasela, umjikeleze ngokufudumala nothando. Ngamanye amaxesha lo mkhwa ugxininiswa ngengubo yangaphantsi engaphantsi ehlambululayo, okanye ukungahlambuluki kwamalungu omzimba, okubangela ukuba kubangele. Hlola ngokukhawuleza ukucoceka kweengubo kunye nokuhlambulula umntwana.
Sinqwenela inhlanhla entsimini yesifundo esifanelekileyo somntwana wakho!