Ukuba uzinikezelwe ukuba ngumama kaThixo, kufuneka ulungiselele ngokufanelekileyo. Kwi-christening, ungathenga isibhamu (esinjalo isicathulo, esithintela umntwana emva kwefayili), isithuthuthu esinomlenze, ishati yokubhaptizwa, ingubo. Njengomthetho, ukuthengwa komnqamlezo kunye nentlawulo yeendleko zilawulwa ngamagxa ka-godfather, kodwa oku kunokwenziwa no-godfather. Ngokomzekelo, ngokwemiqathango ethile unkulunkulu unako ukwenza isipho kumntwana kwizinyo zokuqala. Ingaba yimpahla okanye ithoyilo. Izipho zoothixo akufanele zifumaneke, kodwa ixabiso kufuneka libe liphezulu kunezipho zabazali. Oku kuhambelana nesiganeko esinjengomtshato ka-godson.
Iingcebiso zokunika i-godson
- Kuhle, xa oothixo ethatha inxaxheba kuzo zonke iziganeko ze-godson, nangona kungengenxa yobukho bobuqu, izipho kunye nokuqwalasela. Ukubhaptizwa, izipho zemveli ezivela kumnqamlezo - ukubhaptizwa kunye nomnqamlezo. Kodwa ukuba unina wengane uthenge konke okufunekayo ukuze ubhaptizwe, ngoko unokukhetha izipho zokumisela uKrestu, ngokuqwalasela iimfuno zabazali bentsana, nangona nayiphi na isikhwama kunye nesinambitha.
- Xa ukhonkotha umntwana osana okanye usana ukuya kwiinyanga ezintathu unganika i-albhamu yabantwana okanye ifreyimu yesithombe. Ukuba amazinyo ka-godson aqoshiwe, ibhokisi yezinyo zokuqala okanye i-spoon yesilivere iya kwenza. Ngomnyaka we-godson, unako ukunika ikhekethi ye-curl yokuqala, ukwenzela ukuba unina wengane alondoloze i-hair first cut strand.
- Isipho esibi kakhulu esivela kubantwana bobazali siya kuba sisetyenzisi se-silverware yezingane okanye ngendlela yempahla nganye. Musa ukulibala ukwenza umdwebo wegama lomthikazi okanye u-godson-soloko isipho esihle.
- KuKristening kwizithethe zeOrdodoxi banikela uphawu, kwaye u-godson okhulile uya kufumana isipho esihle kunye neBhayibhile yezingane nemifanekiso. Isipho esiqinileyo nesindleko sokumisela uKristu siya kuba ngumnikelo wesipho weBhayibhile kwi-leather bonding or icon icon
- Isipho esifike ngexesha esifanelekileyo kumntu obulala uThixo isongo okanye amacici abantwana, kwaye i-godson inokukhetha isikhumbuzo sesiliva okanye ityathwa ngomnqamlezo.
- Uninzi lwabantwana lubhaptizwa kwiminyaka engama-1 ubudala, kubhaptizo isipho esihle siya kuba yintsimbi okanye ihambahamba. Ngooncedo lwabo, umntwana uya kufunda ukuba ahambe njani, ukuvuyiselwa okunjalo kumntwana kuya kuzuza.
- Kwi-Epiphany, unika iincwadi zezingane ngemifanekiso emininzi. Umntwana uya kubajonga ngentshisekelo kwaye uya kukhumbula esi sipho ixesha elide.
- Ukuququzelela iindleko zemali zabazali, izipho ze-Epiphany kufuneka zikhethwe ngolo hlobo: ungathenga iimpahla zomntwana. Le nkwenkwe iyakwazi ukuthabatha i-panties, kunye nentombazana-ingubo egqibeleleyo. Abazali baya kuthanda izipho ezinjenge-diapers, isethi yamashishini okuhlamba kunye ne-ryoshonki.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo, iindwendwe kwiikristen zinika imali. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, oku kuphazamisa umzuzu osisigxina, ulwaphula amasiko, kodwa ngakwelinye icala kuyasebenza. Abazali baya kuba nako ukuthenga umntwana izinto ezifanelekileyo ezingenakukwazi ukujikeleza ngexesha.
- Kuya kuba yindlela yokunika umntwana ubhaptizo "lwesibingelelo" - umfanekiso okhuselekileyo we-Angel Guardian entanyeni yakhe, kwindlu, kunye ne icon ye-Guardian Angel. Kwimihla endala, isipho esingokomoya somntwana sasingumfanekiso ogqityiweyo, umphathi wakhe. Le icon ibhaliwe ekukhuleni komntwana kwibhodi ekhethekileyo, ebekwe kufuphi nombhede wengane ukuze akwazi ukuthetha ngokomoya kunye noMphathiswa wakhe.
Unkulunkulukazi, ubuncinane, ngamanye amaxesha, makamtyelele unkulunkulu wakhe, umkhumbule, unike amathoyizi, uthathe inxaxheba ebomini bakhe, umnyamekele. Esi siko kunye nomsebenzi ongcwele kaThixo. Kodwa ke bambalwa abenza lo msebenzi, baninzi bawunaki, bawujonga njengento engenanto, ephosakeleyo kakhulu, kuba umntu onyanisekileyo akayi kuvumela ukungabikho nokunyaniseka kwemisebenzi yakhe kulo mbandela ongcwele.