Ngamanye amaxesha ukuqonda malunga neengxaki kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokusombulula. Sithemba kakhulu ukuba abafazi baya kukwazi ukuqonda iingxaki zonke iintsuku ezibathintelayo ekwakheni imisebenzi yabo kwaye zizise intlungu kunye nokudumala ebomini babo.
Isizathu esinjongo
Umsebenzi uyinto ephezulu, ubuncinane inokuthelekiswa. Uhlala ekhanga amadoda, ecelomngeni. Abasetyhini banamathela nje phezulu, baqokelela i-florets kufuphi naye kwaye bahamba phambili nasemva. Kukho iimeko xa umfazi, ngomnqweno wakhe wokuqokelela iintyatyambo ezininzi, ukhuphuka kakhulu kangangokuba, okwamanje, ngokuqhelekileyo ukunyuka ngamadoda.
Icebiso: qwaba izinto eziphambili: ngaba ufuna ngokwenene ukwakha umsebenzi wakho, okanye unomsebenzi okwaneleyo kumyeni wakho? Thina-siyazi ukuba umsebenzi wakhe - ngumsebenzi wakho wendalo, kwaye akayi kukwazi ukulawula.
Isizathu esincinci
Akunabo bonke abafazi abenza umsebenzi abafuna ukwenza. Ukuba ungomnye wabo, cinga kathathu, ngaba ufuna le nto? Ingcamango ecacileyo yento ofuna ukuhlala ngayo iya kunceda ukugcina ixesha elininzi kunye namandla, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo, ugweme iingxaki ezingadingekile.
Icebo: cinga kwakhona - ngaba ukhethe ukhetho olufanelekileyo lokwakha ubomi bakho? Kwaye awuzange ubeke le mfuno?
Isizathu seBoological
Ukusuka kwinqanaba loMama Wendalo, lo mfazi unikwe indima yomlindi wesango. Ukuba akayicombululi imibuzo kwintsapho, nangengqondo yakhe, ukhuselekileyo uya kuzikhumbuza rhoqo kwaye azikhathaze ngaphandle kwesizathu. Nangona ummeli wesini obuthakathaka uye wagqiba ngokugqibeleleyo ukuba ngumama-shishini, imibuzo engaxilwanga iya kumphazamisa kwaye athathe amandla amaninzi. Oku kuya kubangela iingxaki zoshishino. Ngaphezu koko, kunokwenzeka ukuchaza ngokuqinisekileyo ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba umfazi onentsapho nomntwana uya kuziqonda ngokucacileyo yena kunye nesifiso sakhe. Uqondisisa abantu ngokubhetele, uba ngumonde kwaye unengqiqo. Ngokusekelwe kwezi zizathu, kuyacaca ukuba ukwakhiwa komsebenzi kulula emva kokuzala intsapho.
Inzululwazi
"Abasetyhini asithathwa ngokungathí sina." Apha ungatsho oku okulandelayo: intombazana encinci, enhle, ephumelelayo, kuqala iya kubona abantu njengomthandi. Abasetyhini baya kumbona njengomlingani. Konke oku kungabikho amathuba okwenza umsebenzi ophumelelayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukwesaba kubangelwa kukuba ibhinqa ngasiphi na ixesha linokukhulelwa kwaye liya kummiselo. Ukongezelela, abafazi bavame ukuba bangabikho ixesha kunye nokungabikho kombutho.
Iseluleko: khumbula, umfazi omdala osetshatileyo kulula ukwenza umsebenzi wakhe.
Isizathu sesebe
Ibhinqa, ngokungafani nendoda, inquma iinjongo zayo eziyinyaniso kunye neenjongo ezimbi. Kodwa akunakwenzeka ukufikelela kwikhathalelo elingenamsebenzi. Le projekthi yexesha elide, efuna ukulungiswa rhoqo nokucwangciswa. Kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukucacisa zombini ububanzi boshishino lakho kunye neenjongo zakho. Into yokuqala ofuna ukuyiqonda yintoni uhlobo lomsebenzi ofuna ukuba wakhe-umsebenzi okanye umntu?
Iphulo: Wonke umntu uye waziva ngeentsikelelo zabafazi. Nguye onceda abesetyhini ukuba bafune uncedo kubaqeqeshi abaye banceda ukwakha umsebenzi. Akuyena wonke umntu onokukwenza oku.
Isizathu somoya
Abasetyhini abaninzi bafuna ukufudumala nesimo sezulu kwiqela labo. Ukuba nolwalamano kunye nabalingane kunye nabasemagunyeni babengenayo indawo yokuhlala. Kodwa ngokwenene kudla ngokubanzi. Iimeko ezingenakunqwenelekayo, ngenxa yekamva elihle, umntu unokunyamezela, kungekhona wonke umntu. Kutheni uthetha ngabasetyhini? Imvakalelo ecinezelekileyo yowesifazane inokuchaphazela impilo kunye novakalelo.
Icebiso: Funda ukulawula iimvakalelo, ixesha lakho kunye nolwalamano nabanye.
Isizathu somntu
Abantu bahluke kwaye awunjalo. Khawucinge, yiziphi izithintelo ezinokukunqanda, ukufezekisa umphumo oyifunayo? Mhlawumbi awukwazi ulwimi lwangaphandle? Okanye awunalo ulwalamano nobunkokheli? Ngaba usondela kufutshane kwikhompyutyana kwinqanaba elifanelekileyo? Khangela le meko kwiindawo zonke. Ziphendule wena, unokwenza ntoni ukuxazulula iingxaki? Mhlawumbi ufuna ukuphucula iziqinisekiso zakho, ukubhalisa kwizifundo zokukhula komntu siqu? Sifumene isizathu - siphelise. Yaye khumbula, umsebenzi ngumdlalo ogqithiseleyo, ngoko ulungele kakuhle.