Kulo lonke ubomi akukho lililo elinye ilizwi umntu angayiva ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunegama elifanelekileyo. Isandi segama sichaphazela zombini inkosi kunye nabantu abakujikelezile. Amanye amagama ayavakala nzima kwaye anzima (umzekelo, uAnatoly, uDmitry, Ekaterina, uJeanne), abanye bathambile (uNatalia, uSvetlana, uAlexey, uSergey), okwesithathu abathandanga (Artem, Roman, Anna, Olga). Kufuneka ukuba ukhethe igama eliya kuthiwa libizwe kwaye libizwe ngokwahlukileyo kunye kunye negama.
I-patronymic iqala ukuphazamisa umntu xa ekhulile. Ukuba ukhetha udibaniso olufanelekileyo lwegama kunye nophawu lomnxeba, ukuba baqhelanisekile, ngokobomi bomdala, xa umntwana wakho eya kuhlonishwa ngegama kunye negama lakhe, yena kunye nabanye baya kuba ngumculo nje. Yaye ukuba iinconta ezininzi kwigama-patronymic, ngokukodwa ekuhlanganiseni kwamagama, ukubethelwa kwamagama kunzima, yaye igama liza kuphazamiseka.
Kodwa kuphela ukuhlanganiswa kwesandi akwanele. Ukukhetha igama, abazali bahlala benza iphosakelo-abacinga ukuba igama kunye negama elibizwa ngokuba yi-patronymic lichaphazela njani ikusasa kunye nomlingana womntwana, amandla akhe kunye nokukwazi kwakhe. Kubalulekile ukufundisisa ukuchazwa kwamagama athatha ingqwalasela yempembelelo.
Kungcono ukunika amagama anzima kumaxesha okuphela, kunye nobunzima - ithambile.
Ixesha lonyaka xa umntwana wakho ezalwa, nayo ibalulekileyo xa ukhetha igama. Abo bazalwa ebusika, kungcono ukunika amagama amancinci kunye namathambileyo ukuze kulungiswe ubunzima bendalo, obunemvelo. Abo bazalwa entwasahlobo banokuguquguquka, ngoko ke umntwana anganikwa igama eliqinileyo. Oku kuya kwandisa kubo ukuzithemba nokulungisa umlinganisi. Abantwana abazalelwe ehlobo bahlala bekhuthele, banesibindi, bayaziqhenya, bazingezela. Abo bazalwa ekwindla ngokuqhelekileyo bayangqinelani, bangenalo, banengqiqo ecacileyo, udidi oluzolileyo, baxhamla, banomdla.
Nantsi imimiselo yamagama afanelekileyo okuzalwa okuhlukileyo.
NgoDisemba: uAlexey, Andrei, Artem, uMikhail, uSergey; Vera, Irina, Natalia, Polina.
NgoJanuwari: Vasily, Victor, Vladimir, Grigory, Eugene, Ignat, Ilya, Peter; Anastasia, Asya, Irina, Lily, Uthando, uLyudmila, uNataliya.
NgoFebruwari: uAlexander, uArkady, iValentin, uVitaly, uGeorgia, uIvan, uMaxim; UAlisa, uAna, uAsya, uVera, uJeanne, u-Irina, uMilena, uNatalia, uRita, uSvetlana, uEma.
NgoKwindla: uBobdan, uGregory, uPavel, uPetros, iTaras, uFilipu, uFedor; Antonina, Ruslan, Rostislav, Serafim, Stanislav, Stella, Sophia.
Epreli: uCyril, uConstantine, uMarko; U-Alexandra, uDaria, uKarina, uLidiya, uMaria, uSabina.
NgoMeyi: uAnatoly, uHerman, uDavid, uCyril, uMakar; UAlana, uAlexandra, u-Irina, Faina, uJulia.
NgoJuni: UVeryery, uDmitry, Igor, uConstantine, ongumRoma; U-Elena, uMaria, uSerfima, uSimon, uStanislav, uTamara.
NgoJulayi: iAnatoly, iVyacheslav, isiGeorgia, iMakar, i-Nikita; Alexandra, Alla, Antonina, Valeria, uDaria, uElizabeth, uKaleria, uLyudmila, uSophia.
NgoAgasti: uAlexander, uGleb, uZakhar, uNikolay; UAna, u-Anfisa, uMaria, uMargarita, uTamara, uTatiana, uJulia.
NgoSeptemba: Anatoly, Gennady, Gleb, Denis, Zakhar, Ivan, Myron, Pavel, Roman; UAna, Ariadne, Vera, uElizabeth, Uthando, uLyudmila, Ithemba, uSophia.
Oktobha: uAlexander, uVladimir, uVladislav, uHerman, uGregory, uCyril, uMarko, uMikhayili, uNikita, uOleg, uSergey, uFilipu; UAlexander, Vasilisa, Zlata, Olga, Sophia.
NgoNovemba: Artem, Bogdan, Valery, Valentine, Victor, Grigory, Constantine, Maxim, Mark, Michael, Philip; UVera, u-Eugene, u-Elena, uElizabeth, uEfrosinya, u-Irina, u-Maria, u-Natalia.
Oku, akunjalo, alukho uluhlu olupheleleyo lwamagama afanelekileyo ngexesha elithile lonyaka.
Ukuba igama kunye nosuku lokuzalwa aluhambelani, impembelelo yegama kwixesha elizayo liya kuba mncinane. Kukho uluvo lokuba igama liqala ukuphazamisa isithuba kunye nomlingiswa womntu ukususela kwiminyaka emihlanu kunye nobomi. Kwaye ukuba iimeko zixhomekeke kwinxalenye egameni, kungcono ukuba ukwazi ukubiza ngokufanelekileyo abantwana bakho.
Isinyathelo sakho esilandelayo kukuba ukhethe igama ngexabiso, liza kunika ingcamango yoluhlobo lwexesha elilindelekileyo kumntwana, ukuba uyithethe ngenye indlela.
Indlela yokukhetha igama elifanelekileyo lomntwana? Ukukhetha igama kubazali abangcono ngokuzimeleyo, ngaphandle kokubandakanya kwinkqubo yezihlobo nezihlobo, ngenxa yokuba Oku kuya kukudibanisa kwaye kukukhokele ngaphandle kwegama elifunekayo. Ukongezelela, ngokuqhelekileyo abazali abayithandi abanye abantu.
Okokuqala, sinqume ukuba yeyiphi amagama angacatshangwanga ngezizathu ngezizathu ezithile (umzekelo, amagama abantu abavusa izikhumbuzo kunye neemvakalelo ezingekho phantsi), uze wenze uluhlu oluncinci lwamagama awuthandayo, kwaye ukusuka kulo, yakha.
Ngoku ifestile ukubiza abantwana ngamagama angavamile. Ngaphambi kokuba unike igama elinjalo, fumana intsingiselo yalo, yehlise, yifake kunye kunye nomntu ongenalo igama kunye nefestile, ukuqonda ukuba kuvakala ukuba kuvumelana.
Ngamanye amaxesha ekubhaptizweni komntwana wakho umbingeleli ucebisa ukuba ambhaptize ngegama elithile, tk. alifumani igama lakho ngeKrisimesi. Kule nto akukho nto ikukhathazayo. Ngaphambili, abantwana babizwa ngamagama amabini. Leli gama, apho umntwana wabhaptizwa khona, lagcinwa ngasese kubantu abangaziwa, kwaye igama lesibili labizwa ngokuba ngumntu.
Kodwa oko akufanele ukwenze ukunika igama kumntwana ngokuhlonipha isiganeko okanye usuku, igama elingekho. Amagama amaninzi ayengabonakali kwaye ayengamhle, angenza ububi kwaye angonakalise ubomi bomntwana kwixesha elizayo.
Omnye umele aqikelele xa ebiza umntwana ngokuhlonipha izihlobo eziseduze, nangenxa yokuhlonipha ootata kunye nogogo. Umntwana unokuphinda i-destin kunye nomlingiswa walo mntu, kwaye ilifa elibi lilula. Inokubangela ukuba kubekho ukuhluthwa kwelo hlobo.
Akukhuthazwa ukuba unike abantwana amagama eentsapho eziye zafa, ngakumbi abo bafa ngokubi.
Akuyimfuneko ukubiza abantwana ngokuhlonipha amaqhawe amafilimu, uchungechunge lwethelevishini, abantu abadumileyo kunye nobuntu, ngokukodwa ukuba ifani kunye negama elilodwa lihambelana.
Ungabiza umntwana ngomthetho wamaKristu - ngokuhlonipha omnye wabangcwele abazalwa namhlanje. Ukuba awuyithandi amagama aloo mini, thatha igama lomntu ongcwele ozalelwe ngolunye lweentsuku ezilandelayo, kodwa kungekhona kwimihla yangaphambili.
Indlela yokubiza umntwana, unquma. Kodwa khumbula ukuba igama lidlala indima ebalulekileyo. Vumela umntwana wakho abe negama elihle, kwaye makhe akakhe ubomi obonwabileyo naye!