Usuku ngalunye umntwana usakhula, imihla ngemihla wenza izinto ezintsha ngokufumana isakhiwo sehlabathi elikujikelezile. Ukususela kwiinyanga ezi-3-4 ubudala umntwana uqala ukuguqula umbhobho, uphaphama kwaye ubonisa umdla okhulayo kuyo yonke into eyenzekayo. Ukuqhubela phambili-ngakumbi: xa uhlaselo luqala ukunyuka, umama kufuneka abe "iso lombhalo", eqhuba ukulawula okuqhubekayo. Kungenjalo, ukusuka kwimbono yombono kunye nesandla sokubamba, akukho nto nto endlwini. Yintoni endiyenzayo? Impendulo iyabonakala - ukuthenga inkundla yintsana.
Kutheni ndifuna isikolo esikhwele?
Ukuchongwa ngokufanelekileyo-into eyimfuneko kwaye inomdla kakhulu, ngakumbi xa umntwana efunda ukuhamba nokukhwela. Ukufunda indlu yakhe kwiinkcukacha ezincinci, lo mfana ubhekene neengozi ezininzi. Abazali kufuneka bafihle izinto ezininzi, batye iisiseko kwaye bahambe ngqo emva komphandi omncinci kwizithende zabo zokukhusela. Kwibala lebhokhwe inokuba yinto ethile ngaphandle kokujonga abantu abadala. Ukusebenzisa i-arna kuyokwenza umama enze imisebenzi yasekhaya, okanye ncinane uyidle, ngaphandle koyiko lokuba umntwana othandekayo uya kwitheyibhile aze aphonse ipuleti phezu kwakhe.
Abanye oomama nootata, oogogo nomkhulu bakholelwa ngephutha ukuba ngaphandle kokuphumelela ngaphantsi ungasebenzisa isikhalazo somntwana: imifanekiso yokudlala, kunye nepopptu yokudlala ekulungele. Kodwa oku akunjalo. Ikhefu akufanele lisetyenziswe njenge-arna. Kwaye kukho izizathu ezininzi:
- izandla kunye neenyawo zezingane zinokuthi zizinamathele kwiinqanaba;
- Ngethuba lomdlalo, inkunzi iyakwazi ukuwa iphinde iphose intloko yayo malunga nekratshi;
- Isibhedlele kufuneka sidibaniswe nomntwana ngokuthula nokulala okuhle;
- umntwana unxinwa ukuhlala uhlala kwisibhedlele, uqala ukungenangqondo kwaye ufune umama.
Ukukhangela kuklanywe ngokukodwa ukwenzela ukuba abazali bayishiye umntwana kuphela, bangaqapheli ukhuseleko lwabo. Kodwa ukuba ukholelwa ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthenga indawo yokukhwela kunomntu omdala, ngoko ulahlekile. Into yokuba umntwana, ngaphezu kwezinto eziqhutywayo ezenza i-muscular system, idinga ukuzivocavoca kunye neetayiti ezibangela ekuphuhliseni izakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi kunye nokuqonda kwesixhobo sezinto.
Abazali abaninzi bathi ukugubungela phantsi kumnika umntwana ithuba lokwenza izinto ezimbini ngelo xesha: ukuhamba ngokuzenzekelayo kwaye udlale kunye neentshukumo zakho ezizithandayo. Kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba aba bazali baya kukhanyela into yokuba kwanomgangatho ohlanjululwe kakuhle awunalo ucoceko ngokwaneleyo kwintsana. Kodwa okubaluleke kakhulu - kwibala lemidlalo, unokushiya umntwana wakho ngaphandle kwe-diaper, ukwenzela ukuba ulusu lwethenda luhlala kwi-diapers kwaye luphefumlelwe umoya. Ngaloo ndlela, ukuthenga i-arna ye-arna kubalulekile ukuba uyisebenzise:
• ekhaya, ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuba unina alandele umntwana, aze adle ukupheka, kwaye endlwini ahlambulule;
• ekuhambeni nasekutyeleleni, apho i-Arena iya kuba yindawo ekhuselekileyo yokuzonwabisa, kodwa i-berth yintsana;
• Eli lizwe, apho kunzima ukulandela umntwana kwaye simfumana ekhuselekileyo kwaye ngexesha elifanayo indawo enomdla.
Ziziphi ii-arnas?
Iibhenna zokuqala zenziwa ngamatye. Ngoku indawo yabo ihlala ngama-atnas enziwe ngezinto zokwenza izinto, apho, endaweni yeenqwelo ezinamabala ezinkuni, umnatha kunye namacu anotsholongwane atyaliweyo, ukhusela umntwana ekukhuselweni.
Ifom yezona ziqhelekileyo ze-arena zixandeke. Kodwa kukho iindawo eziqhelekileyo, ii-añas ezijikelezayo kunye neenxantathu - le fom ikuvumela ukuba ufake i-arna ekhoneni kwikona, ebalulekileyo kwimeko yendlu encinane. Udidi oluhlukileyo lwee-annas - ibhedi yokuhamba-i-device eyenza ngokukhawuleza imisebenzi ye-crib kunye nebala.
Phantse zonke iimodeli ze-annas zinesakhiwo sokubumba, ukwenzela ukuba kulula ukuthutha. Iimodeli zanamhlanje azigcini nje ngamacala, kodwa zona ngokwazo zidibanisa ngokupheleleyo umgaqo okanye i-umbrella. Kukho uluhlu olukhethekileyo lwee-anna ezilungele kakuhle kwaye zilinganise ngaphezu kwe-8 kg. Iimpawu ezinjalo zikulungele ukuthatha nabo kwikhaya okanye ukutyelela.
Ukukhetha ukunyusa
Isigqibo sokuthenga i-arna senziwe. Yintoni ekufuneka uyibuke, ukuze ukuthenga kungenzi ukudumazeka?
1. Ukuzinza kokwakha kubaluleke kakhulu. Abazali bafanele baqonde ukuba ubunzima obukhulu kakhulu, kubanzi kunzima.
2. Inkundla kufuneka iphakame ngokwaneleyo ukuba inkunzi ingakwazi ukunyuka kuyo kwaye iphume. Qaphela: ukuphakama okuqhelekileyo kweebhodi zamanqaku anamhlanje e-annas yi-70, 75 ne-80 cm. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iimpawu eziyi-110 cm eziphezulu, ezingayi kuphuma kuphela, kodwa awuyi kubona i-TV.
3. Le ndawo kufuneka ivuke ngokwaneleyo ukuba umntwana akanakuvalelwa. Kuphela ke kuya kukhuthaza ukuphuhliswa kwe-assiduity kunye nokuvela komdla ekuphuhliseni amathoyizi. Qaphela ukuba umntwana uya kukhululeka kakhulu kwibala le-118x110, kunomzekelo kunye nobukhulu be-96x96 okanye i-100x70.
4. Nika ingqalelo kwinani, ubungakanani kunye nokuma kwezibamba. Emva koko, baya kunceda umntwana ukuba akhuphuke.
5. Hlasela ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kumacandelo omgangatho wezemidlalo kunye nomxhesho obunzima. Baya kunceda ukuzikhusela kwiimivimbo, izibhamu kunye neentsimbi.
Iingcebiso zeengcali
Ekubeni kwibala lemoto umntwana uchitha ixesha elaneleyo, ngoko, ngaphambi kokuthenga, kubalulekile ukwazi ulwazi lweengcali, nokuba luyingozi kwimpilo yabantwana. Iingcali zezilwanyana zincoma ukunyamekela ingqalelo apho isikolo esikhweleyo senziwe khona, ingakumbi ukuba umntwana okanye omnye wentsapho yakhe unelungelo lokuphendula. Ukuxhatshazwa kufuneka kwenziwe kwimiba enobungqongquthela kunye nobuncwane obuphathekayo. I-arna kufuneka ihlale iphefumlelwe umoya kwaye ipheliswe ngendwangu ebomvu. Ngaphandle koko, uthuli luya kuqokelela kwi-grid ye-arna kunye nomgangatho wayo, okubangela ukuvuvukala kwebhubhane leenkukhu kunye neelballs.
Ngokutsho kwe-ophthalmologists, i-arna kufuneka ikhethwe ngomnatha omkhulu, njengokuba uhlala kwi-arnafa ngesitya esilungileyo siya kubangela umxube kwizitho zomzimba. Ungathengi i-playpen ngegridi ekhanyayo okanye umfanekiso kuso. Umbala wengubo kufuneka ube mhlophe okanye ukhilimu.
Oogqirha bayavuma ukuba ubude obude bokuhlala kwi-arhente akufanele kudlule iiyure eziyi-1.5 ngosuku. Ubude bomntu omnye uhlale kwi-arna kufuneka ukuba ungadluli kwisiqingatha seyure. Njengoko ukukhula nokuphuhliswa komntwana, abazali abanako ukunyanzela ukuncediswa kwinqanaba lezemidlalo.
Konke kulungile ekumodareyithweni
I-Manezh - ifowuni ilungile kwaye iyimfuneko kakhulu, kodwa akufanele uyisebenzise kakubi. Ukuhlala rhoqo kwintsana kwinqanaba lezemidlalo alivumelekanga. Ukuxhatshaza kufuneka kusetyenziswe kuphela kwimeko apho kuyimfuneko ukushiya umntwana yedwa ixesha elithile, umzekelo, uye ekhitshini ukumpheka.
Ukugqithwa kweengqondo zengqondo kubonise ukuba xa uphephaza kwaye ukhusela umntwana wakho, ukuhlala umshiya kwisibhedlele okanye i-arna, umntwana uvakalelwa njengentolongo-intsimi efanayo nomsebenzi kunye noxinano olufanayo kunye nabantu.
Ngokuchasene noko, abo bantwana abahamba ngokuzimela kulo lonke igumbi phantsi kolawulo olubukhali lwenina bayafumana inkundla enkulu yokuphanda kunye nezinto ezininzi eziphathekayo ezahlukahlukeneyo. Ngenxa yoko, iintsana ezinjalo zide phambili kubantwana abaye bahlala kwibala lexesha elide.
Ukuqhuba uvavanyo
Njengoko bathetha, kungcono ukubona kanye ngaphandle kokuva ikhulu. Unokukuxelela ngokude uthanda malunga nokubaluleka kokuthenga i-arna yintsana, ungapheli ngxabano malunga nokulimala kwabo kunye nokuxhamla, ngoko kukugqibela kwaye ungaqali zonke iingeniso kunye nokungalunganga. Kucacile ukuba sibone isidingo sokuthenga i-orna okanye ukungabi nentsingiselo kokuthengwa kwayo kuya kunceda inkundla ngokwayo. Thatha ityholo ubuncinane ngenyanga kwaye uza kubona indlela umntwana wakho aphendulela ngayo ukufumana entsha. Yonke iya kuwela ngqo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuyinkathazo enkulu kubazali bomntwana ongenasiphelo ukuze babone umphangi wabo kwaye babhekane nayo yonke imisebenzi ekhaya. Indlela yodwa ephuma kule meko yi-arna. Nangona kunjalo, abantu abadala kufuneka bahlale bekhumbula ukuba umntwana kufuneka ahlale kwindawo yokudlala ngaphandle nje kokuba unomdla apho. Ngaphandle koko, i-arna iba yindawo yokujeziswa kunye nokuvalelwa entolongweni. Ungathandabuzeki, ubulumko behlabathi kunye nothando lomntwana luyakunceda ukuba ufumane iinqununu zegolide.
Ikhuseleko imithetho
• Awukwazi ukubeka umntwana omkhulu kwibala lokukhwela kwinqanaba lokugibela, ngoncedo apho angakwazi khona ukuphuma nokuwa.
• Musa ukushiya umntwana kwisiteyimu kunye nomxhesho ophantsi, kungenjalo ungangena kuwo okanye uphume kwibala.
• Ungavumeli umncinane ukuba athabathe i-arna.
• Ungalokothi ushiye umntwana kwi-arna ukuba kukho imingxuma kwipridi, kwanabancinci. Umntwana akayi kukwazi ukukrazula igridi kwaye aphume kwinqanaba, ngelixa uya kuqiniseka ngokhuseleko lomntwana wakho.