"Masibize u-Antoshka!" - ngokukhawuleza ekuhlambulule, ukuphulaphula ngesisu sakho.
- Aaaa ... Uyakhumbula, uthando lwakho lokuqala. Inyaniso iyatshelwa, ayiqumi ...
- Ewe, kwaye andizange ndicinge !!!! Mane ufunde: uAnton - ngoko, "eza ekulweni," kwaye inkwenkwe yethu, njengoko iqhubezelayo, isandla sakhe sithatha! - Ukhawuleza ukuzolalisa abathembekileyo. - Ewe, mhlawumbi u-Alyosha okanye uKolenka?
- Ewe. Kufana noyihlo, okanye yintoni? Yaye yavela phi eNikolas? Ingaba kunjalo nommelwane wethu?
Yilokho ubomi bentsapho obungabikho bungozi bokuphelisa ...
Kwiinyanga ezilandelayo uhamba ngokugqithiseleyo kuwo onke amagama awaziwayo / angaziwa / afumanekayo. Kwaye ufikelela kwisivumelwano - uLeonid, ngokuhlonipha iqabane lakhe, kunjalo. Kodwa awunakulungele ukuzalwa kwentombazana ... Kodwa ke, njani ukhetha igama lomntwana ozayo kunye nabazali abaza ku khokelwa yii? Imfashini? Ukuhlonela ookhokho okanye abangcwele? Okanye mhlawumbi nje indlela engafanelekanga yokucinga?
IGAMA "QALA"
Ukukhethwa kwegama lomntwana kukuxhomekeke kubazali bakhe. Ngaphansi komthetho waseRussia, "isipho sokuqala" esinelungelo labo. Ukongezelela, awuyi kukhetha omnye kodwa amagama amabini. Kule meko, owokuqala ubhekwa njengongundoqo. Ngaba ufuna ukubiza umnqweno ongaqhelekanga? Ifowuni. Kwiofisi yeRejista akulungelanga ukunika igama kumntwana okhethwe ngabazali, ngaphandle kokuba iphikisana nemigangatho yokuziphatha komphakathi okanye izithethe zesizwe. Kodwa ungamangaliswa ukuba i-"sipho" ayinakucatshangiswa kwaye iya kuqala ukukhawulela oku kusungulwa ngxelo esele iguqule "igama" kakhulu.
LI SI SI
"Unokudibana nomntu, kodwa awukwazi ukugculela negama lakhe" - wabhala uMarina Tsvetaeva. Ngendlela, amaRashiya ayaqonda oku kwaye ayamkele. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, "uphawu" olusandul 'ukuzalwa kwelo lizwe lohlobo lweRashiya okanye i-BOCH RCHF 260602, njengelinye ilizwe, ungazami. Yaye yonke inzame yokuphepha amagama anqakrazayo ukhunjulwa ixesha elide. Ngoko, umzekelo, iofisi yokubhalisa yaseMoscow ikhumbula indlela inkwenkwana eyayizalwa ngayo abazali ababefuna ukubiza uYesu. Ngaphandle koko, udade wakhe wabizwa ngelosi. Kodwa ngokwenene, amaRashiya ayehlala eqala ukuhlawula imbali kunye nemithetho yeBhayibhile. Amadoda kaMakar, uZakhar, David, Tikhon, uSerfim kunye nabesifazane - uMelania, uBarbara, uStephanie, uSofia okanye uArnina abamangalisi abasebenzi baseofisi yokubhalisa. Kwaye oku kuvela kwenye i-opera. I-melodramas engakumbi ngokunjalo ... Emva kokuba uMarianna noMaria baqala ukuhlala kwizihlalo zokutya ngaphambi kokuba kusetyenziswe isephaphu "U-Maria nje" kunye "noTyebileyo wakhala" bavela kwizikrini eziluhlaza. Olunye igama kwi "chungechunge", nangona kunjalo, sele sele i-Angelica. Ngoko ke umnqweno oomama abanomdla ngokukhawuleza wakha umkhwa wokubizwa ngegama. Kwaye namhlanje, ukuba uvele nje kwisikrini sezinto ezithile "ezidlala ixesha elide", njengowesifazane wesimanje, ukubetha isisu sakho, uqala ukuzama ngokugqithiseleyo egameni lomdlali oyintloko kwintombi yakhe ezayo.
"Liliphi igama lakho?"
- Nikita.
- kwaye mna Nikita! - Ingxoxo eqhelekileyo kwi-sandbox yezicwangciso zeminyaka emithathu. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba "i-yard yaseJahara" inkulu ngobukhulu, ngoko ke inani le-Nikita elingcolileyo ngemitha yendawo yokudlala ngokuqinisekileyo liya kwanda. Into into yokuba leli gama lithandwa kakhulu kwiminyaka embalwa edlulayo. Yaye yintoni eyayiyifashane izolo, iya kuba yimini ngemini. Ukulwa noNicita kwisithandwa esithandwa kakhulu kunye negama lendoda yaseVladislav. UDarya uhombisa isini esicuthakathaka. Iingqungquthela zeenkampani zingu-Artem no-Anastasia, u-Ivan noSofia, u-Ilya noMaria, uDaniil no-Anna, uAlexander no-Xenia.
Akuqhelekanga kumagama angaphandle. Kwaye bayathandwa phakathi kwabo bathathe ubumi bobuzwe bamanye amazwe, naphakathi kwamaRashiya omthonyama. Ngaphandle kweyodwa eyimfihlakalo ezweni, u-Inji Elif, kungekudala ubhalise uNicole, uSimon, uEsenia, uDominica no-Adele.
IVAN, UMNYE WEMALUNGU ...
Amanye amazwe. UMichael okanye uArnold, kunye ne-patronymic Ivanovich ayidalanga ibini elihambelanayo. Igama elithi "ukungenisa", nangona kunjalo, liyamkeleka xa umntwana ezalwa kwimitshato edibeneyo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali bayalibala ukuba buninzi ukhetho oluseRussia. Isikhundla sendawo yelizwe lethu sanikeza abazali indlela eyahlukileyo yamagama "emveli". Ngoko, kwelinye iklasi, inkwenkwana enegama leMveli yaseGrike - uAndreya, kunye nentombazana enegama lamaRoma Katolika likaYadvig, lihlala ngokuthula. Kwenzeka ngokokuba ngenxa yoxolo lwama-Orthodoxy kunye nobuKatolika, bobabini amagama aquka iinkqubo kwilizwe. Ngokomzekelo, uDmitry, u-Irina, uTatiana, uGalina, uVeronica - baneengcambu zamaGrike zasendulo. Kwaye u-Edward, uAlbina, uJadwiga, Wanda okanye u-Adolf bangamaRoma Katolika. Ngoko, unobungqungquthela xa ukhetha igama lomntwana ozayo - kwaye uhloniphe ilizwe lakho, kwaye ubonise okokuqala!
UKUSETYENZISWA KUNYE
Shayela ngaphandle kokungabaza, ukuba:
1. Ukhetho olubandakanya umama noyise. Ilizwi likayise lidlalwa ngqalelo ngumama ozayo. Kwaye! Emva koko, kuba ngumphumo we "labasebenzi" abadibeneyo oya kuba yinto yolonwabo kwindlebe kwipapa elizayo. Nangona kunjalo-iinzame zikapapapa nonina. Musa ukudideka nootatomkhulu, obazali bakho sele sele bakhetha ngexesha labo!
2. Uqale wambona umntwana waza wambona ukuba nguSasha. Akunjalo iVladimir, njengoko kwagqitywa kwibhunga leentsapho ezintandathu kwinyanga edlulileyo, kodwa uSasha, uAlexandria, uSashenka. Umama ovela kumhla wokuqala wobomi uya kunqumla umlingani wakhe kwaye enze ukhetho olufanelekileyo. Kwaye akukho zichazili, okanye iincwadi ze-encyclopedias, okanye iingcebiso kubantu ababaziyo xa kunjalo.
3. Igama lonyulwa ngokutsho kwabangcwele. Yaye ungesabi isakhelo esincinci.
Enyanisweni, umntwana ozayo unokunikezwa igama ngenhlonipho yongcwele, inkumbulo yakhe ihambelana (okanye iintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi okanye emva) ngokuzalwa kwakhe okanye ngosuku lokubhaptizwa. Yaye unako kunye negama lomntu othile ongcwele, ozukileyo kwintsapho yakho. Kukho ixesha elide phakathi kokuzalwa kunye negama legama.
4. Ukukhethwa kwegama kuye kwaziswa kunye nawo wonke uxanduva. Awuyivila kakhulu ukuba ukhangele kwitoliki yamagama. Kwaye ngoku uyazi kakuhle ukuba lithetha ntoni na eli gama. Inzuzo yezipapasho zanamhlanje zikhulu! Ngeke kube ngongqongqo ukubonisana nabasebenzi beofisi ye-registry malunga naliphi igama eliqhelekileyo okwangoku. Ngenye imini unyana okanye intombi iya kukubonga! Ootitshala, ngendlela, nabo. Khumbula, indlela uthisha wakho wesikolo "obukhali" ngayo ukwabiwa ngeempawu ezinqamlekileyo ezintlanu. Ezinye okanye ezine zeTayim, abafundi baseklasini enye.
5. Igama likuvumela ukuba ubonakalise lonke uhlobo lweemvakalelo ezibangelwa ngumntwana wakho othandekayo. Ngoko, kuxhomekeke kwimvakalelo ekhukula, uHelen unokuthiwa yiLenochka, kunye noLenka, no-Alenushka, kunye noLelka. Ifomu yokwenza ifom ye-caress xa ukhetha igama akufanele linikwe indawo yokugqibela.
Cinga kwakhona, ukuba:
1. Umzukulu okanye umzukulu wakhe wagqiba ukubiza igama lomzali wakho. Kubukeka, kodwa ... Igama alilona isethi elula yeeleta. Iya kuthwala ngokwayo kunye nememori yomntu, ngokuhloniphekileyo oye wagqiba kwegama lomntwana. Kwaye, kunokwenzeka ukuba kuya kwenzeka ukuba uyazizama kumlingani, izenzo kunye nobuchule balo mntu kwiimvumba zakho. Kwaye kulungile ukuba yonke isethi ikhangele ngokwayo. Yaye ukuba uthe wagxothwa yintsongelo yomamazala, okwenzakalisa ukukunceda uncedo xa wenza isigqibo "esingalunganga"? Cinga ngumbono oqinileyo, okanye ngaba uzinikezela kwenceba yomnqobi, ongenakukwazi ukumelana neengxaki zemfazwe yentsapho?
2. Ukuze usebenzise igama leemvumba, ufanele uqeqesho oluthile. Igama elinzima elibizayo liya kuba ngumqobo kumanyathelo ekuhlaleni kunye nokunxibelelana. UDale Carnegie uthetha ngeli gama ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: "Igama lomntu lilizwi elihle kakhulu nelona libalulekileyo kuye nangaluphi na ulwimi." Kodwa ukuba ukubiza kwakhe kuya kubangela iingxaki, ngoko ukuva eli lizwi elimnandi kwintsana aliyi kwenzeka rhoqo. Ngokukodwa ebuntwaneni, kuba igama elithi "intlanzi" elinomntwana oneminyaka emihlanu ubudala lifana ne "liberalization" kuwe.
3. Ekukhangekeni kokuqala, awuzange ukhumbule i-patronymic kunye negama leemvumba.
4. Xa ukhetha igama lomntwana, ukhokelwa yinkwenkwezi, ingcinga okanye uzimisele ukuhlawula umlingisi wakho ozithandayo (umculi, upolitiki). Inkqubo yezopolitiko inokutshintsha, umdlali weentloni udidekile, kwaye njengokuba ubukhulu bakhe bubude bhanya, akukho mfuneko yokuchaza. Ukongezelela, igama alilona uphawu, kungekhona i logo kunye ne-brandmark!
5. Ukhohliwe ukuba inkwenkwe enesibindi, i-fluffy namhlanje ngumntu kunye nentloko yosapho kusasa. Umntu oqingqiweyo owenziwe egameni lakhe kufuneka ukholise abazukulwana bakho besikhathi esizayo.
NGABANI OYA KUYA ...
Imfihlo enkulu yenkampani encinci ingaba negama lesibini le-crumb. E-Russia kwakukho isiko sasendulo sokunika umntwana, ngaphandle kweyona nto ephambili, kunye negama elifihlakeleyo. Kwakukholelwa ukuba ngale ndlela ungayigcina i-blame kwijiso elibi okanye ukhohlise imimoya emibi. Ngoko ke, ukuba bayiphanga igama "elisemthethweni," "imfihlakalo" iya kusindisa umntwana. Kwaye ngaphambi koKrestu, okhokho bethu bakholwa, kwaye akukho mfuneko yokutyhila igama kubantu abangabazi.
Kukho isizathu!
Isikhumbuzo somtshato wabantwana, ukuzalwa kwamalungu entsapho. Unyaka omtsha, ngoMatshi 8 .... Namhlanje, uluhlu lweeholide lokuvalwa luya kuhlanjululwa. Uhlobo lwegama lokunika igama luya kuqala ekubambeni omnye umthendeleko ebomini bakho. Leyo ndlela yokukhetha igama ibonisa uhlobo lokubhaptizwa. Okokuqala, abazali baya kuxelwa ukuba yiliphi igama elinikezwe ukuphazamiseka. Emva koko baya kunika uxwebhu lokuqala olubonisa ubungqina bomntwana. Kwaye konke oku kumgangatho oyingqumbo, kunye nobukho bentsapho ngokusemandleni onke.
Ngendlela, umvuzo wokuqamba igama awuninzi, kungeyona encinane, kodwa enye yeengongoma kwiprogram yoluntu ekubunzeni imilinganiselo yentsapho nokuphakamisa imeko yentsapho kuluntu. Ngoko ukuba umtshato wakho sele udlulile kwaye udansa ", ke kukho indawo yeholide kwiofisi yokubhalisa kwintsapho yakho!
AMALUNGA ATSHALA
Kwaye ngoku i-crumb isile ngoxolo iphosa kwi-crib okanye ingasayi kukuxoshela ngesisu esikhulu. Omnye wenza ukhetho lwakhe, afunde ngokucacileyo malunga 'nesimo esithakazelisayo', kwaye umntu kunye neenyanga ezimbini emva kokuzalwa kwemvumba akakwazi ukuzimisela. Ngoko, ngeveki yamashumi amabini kubonakala ngathi kuphela uGalina onokuthintela ngobumnene - obumnene, ukuzola. Kodwa emva kwemashumi amathathu nesibini uziva uyingxenye ekulweni ngaphandle kwemithetho kwaye ucinga ukuba: "Ukuba ngu-Ekaterina, ngokuhlonipha intloko yesebe!" Ngamashumi amathathu nesibhozo, umfanekiso welosi eyisikizi-bluhlaza uzisa iingcamango kuSvetlana. Kodwa ekuzalweni kwe-brunette ye-curly eyamehlo emdaka, ezi ngcamango ziphuphuma. Nantsi kuyimfuneko ukubiza ngelixa intombi "inyana yam", "ilanga", kunye "nakwimeko yonke" isohlwayo sam ".
Nangona kunjalo, naluphi na uhlobo, ubuhle begama labo aluyi kuba nomdla kwintsana ixesha elide. Kodwa kufuneka ube noxanduva kwaye uqine kwizinto ozikhethayo. Igama akufanele libe yingozi!