Ngaphambi kokucinga malunga nendlela yokusombulula le ngxaki, kubalulekile ukuqonda izizathu zokubonakala kwazo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kanye ngeemeko ezinjalo, umama uya kwisigqibo sokuba umntwana wakhe akanalo ubisi obaneleyo kwaye ushintshela kwisondlo somsebenzi. Kodwa ukunyelwa kuncinci kunokusindiswa, okokuthi akuyi kusebenzisa i-fact before before the time to remove the baby from the breast. Ngethuba elithile lophuhliso lwayo umntwana usana kwiibele ezininzi, kwaye oku kungokwimeko yesimo somzimba. Kwixesha elizayo, sichaza amaxesha okuphuhliswa, anokuthiwa ngundoqo - oku xa umntwana ebuza ibele rhoqo.
Usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa luvame ukucela isifuba
Ngethuba lokuqala iintsuku zobomi umntwana ulala kakhulu emini, evuke kuphela ukuze anelise imfuno yakhe eyisisiseko, isidingo sokutya. Nangona kunjalo, ekupheleni kweminyaka emine okanye ezintlanu, umama ubona ukuziphatha komntwana kwiinguqu ezimbalwa - umntwana uphaphe ixesha elide, liqala ukuphendula ngokucacileyo kwiindawo ezizungezile, oko kukuthi, ukucasula-kunokuba lula, isandi, ukumomotheka. Umbono wakhe ngethuba elithile lijolise kwizifundo ezithile. Ngokuqhelekileyo kule minyaka ubudala umntwana uqala ukubonisa unina ngethuba lokuqala elilindileyo, elilumkileyo.
Kungenxa yokuba ngethuba leenyanga, izitho zomzimba zomntwana ziqala ukuphuhliswa kwazo ngokukhawuleza. Umntwana uqala ukuqonda ukuba kwilizwe eliqhelekileyo kuye, into eqala ukutshintsha. Ngokuqinisekileyo, umntwana uthathwa ngengqondo yokudideka kunye nokwesaba, umnqweno wokubuyela kwihlabathi eliqhelekileyo kwihlabathi. Nangona kunjalo, umntwana sele eqonda ukuba uMama uhlala esondele kuye. Ukumenza abe namava kaMama kunye nokhuselo oluphezulu rhoqo, ukwenzela ukuba kukho uqhagamshelwano lomzimba phakathi komama nomntwana.
Oku kungafezwa njani? Okokuqala, sisebenzisa kwisifuba. Ixesha elinjalo lwenzeka kubo bonke abancinci, kulula ukuba kwezinye zibonakaliswe ngokukhazimula okukhulu, kwaye kwezinye iimeko ezingabonakaliyo. Ixesha elinzima linokuqhubeka kuwo wonke umntu - umntu unemihla embalwa, kwaye umntu unemizuzu embalwa. Uninzi unina akacingi ukuba kukho into enjalo ngexesha lokukhula komntwana kwaye ufune ukukhathazeka ngezizathu zokuziphatha kwakhe okungazinzi. Ukuziva ukudideka kunye nokwesaba akushiyi loo mfazi ngokukodwa xa ixesha elinjalo likhutshwa kwiiveki ezimbalwa. Ngelo xesha, unina ufuna uncedo kumntwana wezingane, kodwa ngenxa yoluviwo kuvela ukuba umntwana usempilweni kwaye akukho zintsholongwane. Kungenxa yokungazi ukuba kukho ukungaqondakali ngento yokuba konke oku kubangelwa ukungabi nobisi lwangunina kwaye umntwana olambile ukhalela ngokuchanekileyo kwesi sizathu.
Ngoko sifanele siziphathe njani kwiimeko ezinjalo? Isizathu sokukhala komntwana sisekuntshweni engavamile kwento entsha, bafumana isidingo sokuthuthuzelwa ngumama, okukuphela kokumnika. Ewe, khulisa umntwana wakho nge maximalisation. Ukufudumala komzimba wakho kunye nevumba elivakalelwayo xa unxulumene nomzimba nguyena nto imfuneko oyifunayo kuwe.
Ungalibali ukuthetha nomntwana rhoqo ngezwi, uthetha naye. Ilizwi lakho lijwayelene naye, kungabikho nanye, kuba yena, ehleli ngaphakathi kwakho, wamphulaphula ngeenyanga ezilisithoba. Kwaye kuyinto evamile kwaye yendalo ukuba inyaniso kukuba umntwana uhlala esetyenziselwa esifubeni kwaye akafanelekanga, ukuzama ukubuyisela isifuba nge-pacifier ye-raber okanye ibhotile. Isimo esivela kule nto asinakuguquka, kodwa sinokuba sibi kakhulu. Kulula kakhulu ukuthatha ukutya kwibhotile kunokusuka kwibele. Ngombulelo, umntwana usenokuphelisa ubisi lwebele, kwaye umnqweno wokudibanisa nonina, obaluleke kakhulu, unokuhlala enganelisekanga. Ukuba ungenasiphelo, umntwana uya kulila ngokungapheliyo, kwaye wena, phantse njalo, uzama ukunqabisa, ugqoke ezandleni zakho kwaye unyikima.
Kodwa nangona kunjalo, ukuba kukho nayiphi na ingqalelo yokuba kutheni umntwana ehlala efuna isifuba kwaye usacinga ukuba awunayo ubisi obaneleyo, kwaye ngenxa yoko umntwana uhlale elambile, kufuneka wenze njalo: ungasebenzisi i-diapers ezilahlayo ubuncinane ngosuku olulodwa. Ukuba ukubalwa kubonisa ukuba i-diapers ezimanzi zi malunga ne-10-12, ngoko unako ukuzola - umntwana wakho uzele kwaye ubangela ukukhathazeka kwenye. Kodwa ukuba awuzange udibanise, kufuneka udibane nodokotela wezilwanyana oza kuqiqa umntwana wakho. Kwimeko apho umntwana efumana ubunzima obuyimfuneko kulo nyaka, oku kuthetha ukuba ubisi lwakho lwanele. Ukuze uhlalise ngokupheleleyo kwaye ungahambi rhoqo ukuba udibanise kuphela ukulinganisela umntwana, fumana iimpawu zecomputer. Nsuku zonke, umntwana ofikelela kwiinyanga ezintathu kufuneka aqikelele ama-gram amane. Kukho indlela yokulinganisa, ebizwa ngokuba ngumlawuli, kodwa izazinzulu zayo zanamhlanje zijonga ukuba aziyiziphumo kwaye azikho iziphumo zokufunda ukutya okudliwayo ngumntwana kwiiyure ezahlukeneyo, kuba umntwana ngamnye uthatha ixabiso elithe zahlukileyo. Futhi ungakhathazeki xa umntwana wakho eneempawu ezi ngasentla, ezibonisa ukungabikho kobisi lwakho, kwaye ugijimele kwi-pharmacy ukuthenga umxube we-milky.