Ukuphila ngendlela enempilo, ibhinqa kufuneka idle yonke into yemvelo kunye ntsha, ukuze ikhangele ibutsha kwaye ikhangele.
Ngoko, ngokokuqala ngqa kwiminyaka emininzi uvumelekile ukuba udle nantoni na, ngaphandle kokububula nokugwetywa kwangaphakathi. Ngokudlulileyo, abafazi bafumana ngokumangalisa ukuba ngaphandle kwemithetho yesondlo abajwayele ukuyenza okanye yokuphulwa, abayikwazi ukuva ukuba bathanda ngokwenene, okanye yintoni imveliso yomzimba wabo eyifuna.
Ukufumana into oyifunayo, yenza uluhlu lwempilo enempilo kunye nempilo enomdla ocinga ukuba ungathanda, okanye ukuhamba ngexeshana phakathi kwamashalofu esitolo kwaye uqaphele ukuba iya kutsala ingqalelo. Iqhinga kukuthenga izinto ezininzi ezahlukeneyo kwaye uvumele ukuba uzame.
Khumbula ukuba uzama ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni impilo yakho enempilo idinga kulo mzuzu othile wokulamba, kwaye akuyiyo into enhle kuyo! Abanye baqala ngokuchonga incamango abafuna ukuyenza emlonyeni wabo, ngoxa abanye bazama ukuvakalelwa kukuba bafuna ukuvalelwa esiswini. Kwaye, nangona kulula ukulungisa intlekele, kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba ufunde indlela yokujonga indlela yokudliwa kuya kuvelelwa ngayo esiswini.
Zama ngokuzenzileyo izitya ezininzi, kwaye vumela isisu sakho "siphendule" ingcamango yabo nganye uze uqoke ofanelekileyo. Ekuqaleni, kuyakufuneka umzamo wokuziphulaphula kakuhle umzimba wakho, kodwa ngokuhamba kwexesha kuya kuba yinto eqhelekileyo kunye neyendalo.
Ukuba awukwazi ukuqonda oko kukukhathazayo kakhulu, zama ukuzibuza imibuzo:
Isisu sam sifuna ntoni ngoku?
Ndingathanda ntoni - kubanda okanye kushushu?
Ukukhanya okanye ubunzima?
Ukuhlafuna okanye ukuhlafuna?
Ukutshisa okanye ukutsha?
Amanzi okanye amnandi?
Oily okanye omile?
Ubangela obunzima- okanye kunoko, ukutya okungalawulwayo kunye nokutya okungalawulwayo konke okumnandi kwaye kungabi nandi - kuninzi kukho ukungabikho kokuthula nokuvisisana nomphefumlo womfazi. Ukufuna isizathu sengqondo "ukungondleki" kuyimfuneko, okokuqala, okokuqala. Ukuze uholele ubomi obuqhelekileyo kwaye udle konke umphefumlo onqwenelayo, umntu makabe ngowokuqala ukungena kwimidlalo. Indlela yokuphila enempilo yowesifazane ayikho kwisidlo kunye nezemidlalo kuphela, umntu kufuneka alandele ukuhlambulula kwakhe, kukho ezo zinto ezingathengiswa kwiithala zeMcDonald okanye ezinye izidlo.
Kufuneka udle ukutya okuqhelekileyo kwanokwenyama. Khumbula, xa uluntu lungazange lucwangcise i-sausage kunye noshizi, umzekelo, bonke abantu badla iitapile kunye nelayisi, iklabishi, iinqathi, iikomkom kunye nezinye iifuno nezityalo. Ngoku, ngokuchaseneyo, silindele ukubalwa kwemvuzo ukuze sifumane kwisitoreji kwaye sithenge zonke iintlobo zeesausage, ushizi, i-ketchup kunye ne-mayonnaise. Awukwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kwezi mveliso? Emva koko sinokunye okunye okunye. Yenza yonke imveliso "embi", umzekelo: isobho kunye noshizi - iintlanzi kunye noshizi; i-ketchup kunye ne-mayonnaise - yeoli yeoli kunye nombona. Kukho njalo, ngokuba into ephambili kukuba ufuna! Yidla ukutya okulungileyo, kwaye awuyi kuze uphuze uMezim xa usondla ngokutya. Emva koko, zingaphi imifuno neziqhamo ongazondliyo - izibonelelo ezivela kubo zihamba kuphela ekuphuculeni umzimba wakho.