Kuyafaneleka ukuba kwenziwe ezikolweni apho kubanjwe khona ii-workshops ezizodwa zokuqeqesha abantwana kunye nabazali, ngexesha apho abathathi-nxaxheba bezoqeqesho benza izigqibo zabo baze bafikelele kwimbono efanayo. Kwaye konke kulula! Kufanelekile ukuqonda izinto ezimbalwa ezilula ukuba ukwazi ukuba umfundi uya kuhamba esikolweni. Into yokuqala elula: isitayela somsebenzi. Sekuqaleni kwibanga lokuqala, nangona umntwana ethobela ngaphandle kokubuza abantu abadala, kufuneka achaze ukuba yintoni isitayela somsebenzi kwisembatho. Ngaloo nto asigcini nje ukufaka ingcamango yongcamango kunye nesitayela kumntwana, kodwa kanye kunye sonke sikwenza ukuba kucace ukuba isikolo siyindawo yokufunda, kungekhona ukuzonwabisa. Ngomdlalo womdlalo, unokubonisa ukuba uluhlobo luni lweengubo ezibandakanyekayo kwimidlalo, apho-ukuya kwindawo yokudlala, ukuba yini ukuhamba ngebhayisikili kwaye uhambe ngesitalato.
Into yesibili elula: lula. Abazali kunye nabafundi beeklasi eziphezulu benza ukhetho kwiindlela zansuku zonke. Kwaye ingxabano yokuqala kulolu khetho yinto elula yokugqoka. Kwijeans kunye neebhulukwe zezemidlalo, ukuhlala kwideski kulungeleka ngakumbi kunabhulukwe entsimbi. Kwaye amantombazana angakwazi ukubamba iintambo kunye nokulila. I-Counterargument: iidrafti ngeentolo zeebhokhwe ziyakuthatyathwa ngendwangu emnyama eqhelekileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha intombazana inokugqoka i-suit shirts. Yaye ngokuphathelele i-pantyhose, kufuneka ufundise intombi yakho ukuba ichanile-inobomi obukhulu phambi kwayo. Kuyo-indawo ye-pantyhose!
Into yesithathu elula: impilo. Xa i-jeans yokuqala ibonakala, benza i-revolution kwilizwe lefashini malunga nawo onke amazwe athuthukileyo. Ngelishwa, le nto evelelekayo yashiye uphawu lwayo kwimpilo yabaselula. Ababelethi be-Gynecologists, beza esikolweni, bathetha amantombazana ngokuxhalabisa ukuba i-jeans eqinile ikhubaza ukuphuhliswa kwezitho zobulili, ezidla ngokuchaphazela ikhono lentombazana lokuba ngumama esikhathini esizayo. Kwakhona kunzima kakhulu ukuphazamisa impilo yezinto zesikolo ezenziwe ngobuncinane, ezithe zatshengisa izityalo kunye neemarike.
Into yesine elula: uqeqesho. Akunjalo nje kuphela, kodwa umehluko omkhulu phakathi kwabafundi abahlala kwiklasi kwiingubo ezingaqhelekanga, kunye nalabo abasemfanweni yesikolo. Izambatho zihlala ziqeqeshwa. Intombazana e-skirt kunye ne-pantyhose ayiyi kuhlala imilenze yayo ngokubanzi, iya kuzama ukuyibuyisela ngqo. Amakhwenkwe eempuphu kunye nekhati aziyi kuhamba esitini okanye alala phantsi kwideski. Bobabini utitshala nomfundi, bebona phambi kwabo abantwana bembethe ngendlela efana nezoshishino, baya kuhlala befanelekile, kunye nezifundo-ziphumelele ngakumbi.
Into yesihlanu elula: ubudlelwane. Isikolo semfundo esiqhelekileyo sisikolo esinikezela ngemfundo yesibini. Amagama aphambili apha apha yimfundo jikelele. Oku kuthetha ukuba ngamnye umntwana, ukusuka kwiphina intsapho, nangayiphi na ingeniso, nayiphi na imeko yentlalo inelungelo lokufunda. Abafundi abaseJunior abakhange babone ukungafani kwintengo yokugqoka, isikolo esiphakamileyo - abayikuyiqwalasela oku, bazi ezinye iimpawu ebomini. Kodwa udidi lwabafana ukusuka kwiklasi yesi-5 ukuya kweyesi-9 lukhuni kakhulu, lukhohlakele omnye komnye. Awukwazi ukubanika ithuba lokuvavanya abantu ngobutyebi bentsapho yabo.
Unomama nothando abanomdla, ukuhlaziywa ikhabethe ye-schoolboy boy, khawukhumbule njalo izinto ezilula. Kuloo bazali, abantwana bahlale benempilo, bevuya, bazive bekhululekile phakathi koontanga babo baze babalekele esikolweni ngovuyo!