Onke amantombazana anokuthanda ukuqagela. Oku akumangalisiyo, kuba ukufumana inhlanhla kusinceda sikholwe ukuba imimangaliso yenzeke, ukuze sikwazi ukuqikelela ikusasa kwaye uzixhamle ngovuyo. Kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zempikiswano, phakathi kwezinto ezixhamliweyo zokubhala iphepha elitshiswayo. Olu hlobo lobutyebi luvame ukusetyenziswa ngexesha leKrisimesi, njengoko kucingwa ukuba le yithuba elihle kakhulu lokuxela inzuzo.
Kutheni ngokuqinisekileyo inqaba yokuxelela iphepha elitshiswayo? Inyaniso kukuba umlilo uqukethe amandla okhethekileyo angokwemvelo angakwazi ukutyhilela iimfihlelo ezininzi kuthi, ukuba sinokuzibuza ngokufanelekileyo umbuzo kwaye sikulungele ukuva impendulo. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuxelela ubutyebi kwiphepha elitshiswayo. Ngoku siza kuxela malunga nezona zithandwa kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba kukho ukuqwalasela okulula nobunzima, ukuze uhlale ukhetha lowo ufanelwe kakhulu.
Ukuqagela ngokulula
Ngenxa yale ngxowankulu ekuchazeni iphepha elinyukayo uya kufuna iimpapasho kunye neemidlalo eziqhelekileyo. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale lo mkhuba, cinga ngombuzo, gxininisa, uze uyibhale ephepheni. Emva koko, kufuneka uthabathe iphepha ekupheleni kwezantsi ukwenzela ukuba limelele ezandleni zakho. Emva koko, gxobhoza umphezulu walo kwaye ulinde. Ukuba ilangabi liyavutha kwaye iphepheni liyatshisa ekupheleni - umnqweno wakho uya kuzaliseka. Ukuba iyacinywa, ithetha ukuba ayifuni ukuba.
Izithunzi ezivela kumaphepha etshiswayo
Le ntlupheko isoloko isetyenziswe kwi-Christmas Eve. Inyaniso kukuba kulo masiko kukho into enokwenza imilingo kunye nengqiqo, ngenxa yokuba sijonge izithunzi, sihlala sibona imifanekiso ekhethekileyo. Ukuxoxwa ngetyala, nathi sifuna iphepha kunye nemidlalo. Thatha iphepha ngekona elingezansi, libeke ngokubhekiselele, litshise phezulu kwaye ukhangele eludongeni, apho iqabunga elitshitshiweyo liza kufaka isithunzi. Jonga ngononophelo kwaye ungakulibali ukuba kufuneka uquke ingcamango. Kwizithunzi ezidansa eludongeni, uya kubona izibonakaliso: ubuso, abantu, izilwanyana, imithi, izinto ezahlukeneyo. Kumele uxelele iimpawu ezishushu umlilo. Baya kuthetha into enokukunceda okanye yokuphazamisa ukuzaliseka kweminqweno yakho, abantu odibana nabo endleleni yakho nangaphezulu. Into ephambili kukutolika ngokuchanekileyo le mifanekiso. Abantu abaninzi baqala ukucinga oko bafuna ukukubona. Oku akunakwenziwa. Umele ugcine kwaye ukhumbule imifanekiso. Kule ndlela kuphela ukubhula kuya kukunika impendulo efanelekileyo.
Iphepha kunye nekhandlela
Kule meko, ukuze sixelele inzuzo, asifunanga kuphela iphepha kunye nemidlalo, kodwa i-candle kunye ne-saucer. Sifanele sithathe iphepha, sibeke kwi-saucer kwaye silitshise ngomlilo. Emva kokuba iphepha libambe umlilo, sibeka ikhandlela ecaleni kwalo. Ndiyabulela ikhandlela, izithunzi ezithatyathwa ngamaphepha atshisayo ziya kuba zicacileyo kwaye zichaneke. Kuya kufuneka ulinde umlilo ukuba ushise, uze ukhangele isithunzi esicatshulwa ngamaphepha.
Ukuba awuboni ngokucacileyo umfanekiso, unokuyiphonsa ngokucokisekileyo i-saucer, qinisekisa ukuba iphepha aliqhubeki elwandle. Ngodonga kwimifanekiso yezithunzi, uya kubona into eyokuxelela ukuba imeko iya kuphuhliswa njani kwaye ukuba isifiso sakho siya kuzaliseka.
Ngethuba lokuxoxwa ngetyala, khumbula ukuba kufuneka ugxininise ngokupheleleyo umbuzo wakho kwaye ungaphazanyiswa. Kule meko kuphela uya kufumana impendulo ecacileyo kuwe. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba kukho ezininzi iimpapasho zolu lwazi. Kodwa kulungele ukuthembela kwiimvakalelo zakho kunye neengqondo. Kule meko, ukuqonda kwakho kuya kukuxelela oko kanye le mifanekiso ithetha ntoni.
Iiphetshana ezili-13
Oku kuqaphela kwiphepha kubuye kulula, kodwa kunemeko eyahlukileyo. Kule meko, awuyi kuqiqa nje ngoncedo lwamacandelo omlilo, kodwa kunye noncedo lwamacandelo amanzi. Kufuneka wenze isifiso, unqume amaphepha e-13 afana nephepha, apho ubhala khona iinguqu ezahlukeneyo zemicimbi ehambelana nomnqweno wakho. Emva koko, phinda amaqabunga abe ngilazi uze udwebe amanzi. Qaphela ukuba yeyiphi iphepha eliza kuhamba. Yintoni ebhaliweyo kuyo iya kuzaliseka. Funda ukubikezela kwaye utshise onke amaqabunga amathathu.