Ukuba uphupha ukuba usufikile ukuhamba ngesitimela okanye ngebhasi
Kwimeko nayiphi na into, sele ifike kakhulu ukufika kwaye ayikwazi ukuhamba ithikithi yendlela ekhethiweyo yokuthutha kwaye ngokwenene akusiyo imicimbi emnandi kakhulu. Kodwa ukuze uguqulele kakuhle imeko enjalo ephupheni, umntu kufuneka akhumbule indlela ozivelele ngayo kwezi ziganeko, nangona ngokubanzi lo mbono kuthetha ukuba umntu kufuneka aphinde acinge ngezinto ezibalulekileyo zokuphila.
- Ukufezekisa okufunwayo, umntu obona iphupha elinjalo, akakwazi nje ukuzimela kunye nokukwazi ukucwangcisa ixesha lakhe. Ukuba ufuna kakhulu ukufezekisa iinjongo ezibekiweyo, kufuneka uzenzele ngesandla kwaye ubeke phambili ngokuchanekileyo.
- Ukuba ulahlekile ngamabomu isitimela okanye isitimela, ukulibazisa ixesha lokushiya indlu, ngoko unokungathandabuzeki ngokuchanekileyo kwesigqibo. Zama kwakhona ukulinganisela zonke iingxaki kunye neengxaki kunye nokubuyiselwa kwesigqibo sokuzolalisa isazela esilumkileyo.
- Xa ibhinqa okanye ibhinqa ephosakele ngokulahlekileyo isitimela okanye ibhasi, uxineke kakhulu kwaye akafuni ukuyixazulula iingxaki zakhe. Kodwa incwadi yephupha iyaxwayisa ukuba ukufumana rhoqo kwiimeko ezinjalo kungakhokelela ekubeni inenekazikazi ayikwazi ukubuyela kwisiqhelo esisebenzayo, ukuba akayi kukhawuleza ukuba enze ukubuyisela uxolo lwengqondo.
- Umfana osele emva kweloliwe kufuneka aphinde acinge ngezinto ezibalulekileyo zokuphila. Kufuneka sihlolisise imeko yezinto kwaye sinqume ukuba inkampani yangoku ichaphazela kakubi imeko yezinto.
- Emva kwexesha loliwe, kodwa kusenokuba nexesha, uthi umphuphi uya kuthatha amanyathelo angenakwenzeka ukuphumeza okufunwayo.
Kutheni sifuna ukuphuculwa ngokukhawuleza ukufunda okanye intlanganiso ebalulekileyo?
Isalathiso esinjalo sithetha ukuba empeleni umphuphi akanelisekanga ngoqhagamshelwano kunye namava entlungu yokushiya nokungabi nanjongo. Kodwa into eyona nto yokusola ngumlophu ngokwakhe. Ngoko ke, ukuyeka imeko engathandekiyo iya kuba ngumntu obone iphupha.
Ukukhawuleza ngomhla luhlobo lwesilumkiso sokuba akufanele ukukhawuleza ukuphuhlisa iziganeko ebomini bakho. Khawujonge ngakumbi okhethiweyo wakho, ukuze ungave udidekile kwixesha elizayo ukuba iimvakalelo zeqabane oye wazinqwenela zazingenangqongqo.
Ukukhawuleza emsebenzini okanye isifundo kuthetha ukuba uhlawula kakhulu umsebenzi wakho. Ukuba uqhubeka kwaye uqhubeka kulo moya, ngoko unokuzibangela ukuphazamiseka kwamanzi okanye ukhathala. Zama ukuba mnandi kwaye uphumule.
Xa ephupheni usondele kakhulu kwisiganeko esibalulekileyo, ke lo mbono kufuneka uphathwe ngokunyamekela. Mhlawumbi, izinto ezibalulekileyo ezicwangcisiweyo aziyi kuphelisa ngempumelelo njengoko ungathanda. Ngoko ke, kungcono ukuwadlulisela kwenye imini okanye ubuncinci kwelinye ixesha.
Olu ngcaciso lugqityiwe bubungqina babantu abaye basinda kwintlekele yeshumi elinanye kaSeptemba. Abaninzi babo baphupha ukuba bafikeleleke kwisiganeko esibalulekileyo, ngoko ngengomso bashiya indlu ngethuba elincinci, kwaye ngenxa yoko baba ngamaxhoba ohlaselo lwabungqongquthela.