Ukwakha indlu kwiphupha: zithini abatoliki?
Kuye kwenzeka ukuba amanye amaphupha ahloselwe ukuba angabi nje ukuqikelela ikhosi yexesha elizayo, kodwa uyakhuthaza ukuba ucinge ngalo ngoku. Kuloluhlu apho indlu ekwakhiwa ifakwe kwiphupha. Ngokutsho kwabaninzi abavakalisi abathandwayo, ukuba kwakhiwe ingqalelo indlu yokwakha, ithetha ukuba ihlabathi lakho eliphakathi liza kutshintsha kakhulu. Ngokukhawuleza uza kutshintsha iimbono zakho ezihleliweyo kwizinto eziqhelekileyo, kuya kuba nokuhlaziya kwakhona ubomi.
Ukuphendukela kwisitoliki esidala saseRussia, unokufumana inkcazelo echaseneyo. Ngoko, umzekelo, ukubona kwiphupha indlela izindonga zendawo yokuhlala zokuhlala ezakhiwayo zithetha utshintsho olulungileyo. Mhlawumbi, kungekudala uza kutshata / utshatile uthando. Kubantu abasele benentsapho, ukulala kubathembisa ukuchuma nokuchuma kwishishini.
Ukuba ngokuqinisekileyo kwakufuneka uwakhile indlu ephupheni, oko kuthetha ukuba umi emngceleni wobomi obutsha. Yonke imithwalo iya kwenziwa ngaphandle kobunzima kunye neentlungu. Zama ukwenza izinto ezininzi ezikholisa entliziyweni. Kungenzeka ukuba kwikamva elikufutshane uza kuba ngumnikazi wezindlu zangempela, eziya kubhenela kuwo onke amalungu entsapho yakho. Into ephambili akuyi kuhlala, kodwa ukwenza oko uyithandayo.
Ngokutsho kwencwadi ephuphayo yamaphupha kaMiller, ukwakha indlu kuthetha utshintsho kwindawo yokuhlala okanye umsebenzi. Ngokukhawuleza kufuneka ufumane isibonelelo ongenakwenzeka ukuba unqabe. Ukuba indlu ekwakhiwe isele ifumaneke ngokugqithisileyo, ibukeka ilungile kwaye iyanelisekile, ngoko ulinde ukuvisisana kwiintlalontle zentsapho, iziganeko ezimnandi ezinxulumene nabantu basekuhlaleni. Kuba ibhinqa, eli bali lithetha ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili okanye ulwalamano olutsha oluphumeleleyo.
Kutheni uphupha, njani indlu yakhiwa ngabanye abantu?
Ukubona kwiphupha indlela umntu owakha ngayo ikhaya kuthetha ukuba awunelisekanga ngokupheleleyo ngobomi obukhoyo. Kwakhona, esi sicwangciso sinokuthetha ngquzulwano lwangaphakathi kunye nalo. Ukusuka kwisinyathelo ongeke unqume ngaso nayiphi na indlela, ikusasa lakho liya kuxhomekeka. Eli phupha linokuthathwa njengophawu lokuba zonke izingozi oya kuzo ziya kuba yinhlanhla.
Ukuba ephupheni lakho unobungane ukuze uncede ukwakha indlu yesihlobo sakho okanye umhlobo, qiniseka ukuba lo mntu akasoze akungcatsha. Ngezihlandlo ezinzima unokuhlala uncike ekuxhaseni nasekuncedeni kwakhe.
Ukuthatha inxaxheba ekwakhiweni kwindlu yomnye umntu kwaye uzive ukhathele kakhulu ngexesha elifanayo, kuthetha ukuba ububele bakho nenceba yakho umntu usebenzisa iinjongo zeenjongo zemali. Kungenzeka ukuba uyanciphisa nayiphi na into enhle, kwaye umkhohlisi ngeli xesha uhlala ngokuzilolonga kwakhe, adibanise, ngexesha elifanayo, amatyala amatsha.
Njengoko sele sele icacile ekuchazeni, ephupheni ukwakha indlu, akuthethi nje utshintsho oluthile, kodwa kunye nesimo esithile sokuba ngubani na. Ukongezelela, isicatshulwa sikhuthaza ukuba ucinge ngendlela oye wawugubungela ngayo kwaye, xa kwenzeka ntoni, ukuhlaziya indlela eqhubekayo.