Ukuqhelana nomntu wasemzini kwiindawo zokuthandana

Umnqweno wokwakha intsapho eqinile nomntu ohloniphekileyo uyayifumana kwiintombazana zonke. Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukufumana umviwa ofanelekileyo kuphela phakathi kwamanye amazwe. Kwaye oku kuqondakalayo, kuba ngubani ongakhange athande umgangatho ophezulu wokuphila kunye nenkcubeko ngokubanzi, ukuzimela kwemali kunye nethuba lokwakha umsebenzi oqaqambileyo? Ngako oko, umnqweno wokutshata umfokazi ulungile, kwaye yonke imizamo kufuneka yenziwe ukufezekisa le njongo.


Inyathelo lokuqala: Endleleni yokuPhumelela

Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukucinga yonke into ngokugqithiseleyo, njengokufudukela kwelinye ilizwe kuquka ukuyeka indlela yokuphila, ukuhlukana nezihlobo. Uya kulahla kwimeko yenkcubeko eyahlukileyo, apho ujikelezwe ngokupheleleyo ngabantu abangabazi. Kuya kuba ubomi obutsha, obutsha. Yaye ukuba ulungele ukuba utshintsho olunjalo-ke uye phambili kulonwabo!

Inyathelo lesibini: Imisebenzi yokulungiselela

Emva kokulungiswa kwemvakalelo kuyimfuneko ukunqoba umqobo weelwimi. Kucacile ukuba bonke abantu bezinye iintlanga abazi isiRashiya, kodwa isiNgesi (ngamazwe ngamazwe) amaninzi. Kwaye ukwandisa amathuba okuphumelela kuya kufuneka usebenze ngokuzimela. Bhalisela izifundo zesiNgesi, uhlawule ngokukodwa ukubiza amagama angesiNgesi, ukudweba ubuncinci kwiincwadi ze-audio. Zonke ezi zenzo ziyakunceda kwixesha elizayo ukuthetha ngokukhululekile kunye nekhethiweyo.

Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthetha ngokukhululekileyo ngesiNgesi kwizihloko eziza kuba nomdla kumfazi osemzini-malunga nawe kunye nezinto zakho zokuzilibazisa, malunga nelizwe lakho kunye nezithethe zalo, malunga nezifundo zakho nomsebenzi, malunga nezicwangciso zakho zexesha elizayo, nokunye okuninzi. Ukongezelela, ukudibanisa ubuncinane ngokungabikho kwamasiko kunye namasiko ezwe elikhethiweyo, bonise umdla kwimbali kunye nenkcubeko yomthonyama. Ukwakha ingxoxo ngale ndlela, nawuphi na umphambukeli uya kunqotshwa ngolwazi lwakho.

Inyathelo lesithathu: kwiWebhu yehlabathi jikelele

Kubukhulu be-intanethi, ukufumana indawo elungileyo yokuthandana nabantu basemzini akuyona ingxaki namhlanje. Kodwa phakathi kokukhetha okunjalo kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlala ngento yokuba ineempendulo ezaneleyo kunye nolwazi oluhle. Ngezona ndawo ezingaziwayo kukungcono ukuba ungadliyo kunye nayo - ayikwazi ukuba yintoni le nto iphela nayo.

Emva kokuba kukhethwe ukhetho, kufuneka ubhalise kwisayithi. Xa ugqiba umbuzo wemibuzo yokubhalisa, zama ukuphendula ngokuchanekileyo ngokunokwenzeka kwaye ngenyaniso yonke imibuzo efunyenwe - inkohliso iya kuvuleka olunye usuku. Ukongeza kwiimpendulo eziqhelekileyo ngemfundo nakwintsimi yomsebenzi, bonisa izinto ozilibaziyo kunye nento onokuyenza emva komtshato wakho. Kodwa khumbula, nantoni na ebhala ngayo ngawe, vumela la madoda ukuba uya kuba ngumfazi nomama ontle.

Ngokwahlukileyo, kuyimfuneko ukuthetha ngezithombe zobuqu zendawo yokuthandana. Khetha iifoto eziza kufakwa kwizinto ezinjalo kufuneka ziqwalaselwe ngokucophelela kwaye ziphathele ngokufanelekileyo, kuba ekuqaleni ziya kuvavanywa nguwe njengomntu kunye nomtshakazi.

Inyathelo lesine: Yenza isicwangciso senkqubo

Kubonakala ngathi yonke into isele iyenziwe, ihlala ilinde kuphela ukuba uyibeke ingqalelo. Kodwa hayi, lesi sikhundla asihambelani, kwaye ulindelo lunokudlulela iminyaka. Udinga iqhinga elifanelekileyo!

Inyathelo lesithandathu: Ukuqinisa iiMisebenzi

Ukuba onke amanyathelo angaphambili owenze ngokuchanekileyo, ngoko ngoku sele uqhelene nomntu wasemzini, kwaye kungekhona enye, kodwa ngeqela kunye. Kwaye ukuba aba baziyo bajika kuba novelwano, kubalulekile ukuqinisa izikhundla zabo. Njani ukwenza oku?

Enyanisweni, iziganeko ziyakhula ngendlela engalindelekanga. Kodwa ukuba uzimisele ukuyisa intliziyo yomntu wesinye isizwe - mamela indlebe yakho yowesifazane, uya kukuxelela indlela yokuqhubeka.