Umnqweno wokwakha intsapho eqinile nomntu ohloniphekileyo uyayifumana kwiintombazana zonke. Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukufumana umviwa ofanelekileyo kuphela phakathi kwamanye amazwe. Kwaye oku kuqondakalayo, kuba ngubani ongakhange athande umgangatho ophezulu wokuphila kunye nenkcubeko ngokubanzi, ukuzimela kwemali kunye nethuba lokwakha umsebenzi oqaqambileyo? Ngako oko, umnqweno wokutshata umfokazi ulungile, kwaye yonke imizamo kufuneka yenziwe ukufezekisa le njongo.
Inyathelo lokuqala: Endleleni yokuPhumelela
Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukucinga yonke into ngokugqithiseleyo, njengokufudukela kwelinye ilizwe kuquka ukuyeka indlela yokuphila, ukuhlukana nezihlobo. Uya kulahla kwimeko yenkcubeko eyahlukileyo, apho ujikelezwe ngokupheleleyo ngabantu abangabazi. Kuya kuba ubomi obutsha, obutsha. Yaye ukuba ulungele ukuba utshintsho olunjalo-ke uye phambili kulonwabo!
Inyathelo lesibini: Imisebenzi yokulungiselela
Emva kokulungiswa kwemvakalelo kuyimfuneko ukunqoba umqobo weelwimi. Kucacile ukuba bonke abantu bezinye iintlanga abazi isiRashiya, kodwa isiNgesi (ngamazwe ngamazwe) amaninzi. Kwaye ukwandisa amathuba okuphumelela kuya kufuneka usebenze ngokuzimela. Bhalisela izifundo zesiNgesi, uhlawule ngokukodwa ukubiza amagama angesiNgesi, ukudweba ubuncinci kwiincwadi ze-audio. Zonke ezi zenzo ziyakunceda kwixesha elizayo ukuthetha ngokukhululekile kunye nekhethiweyo.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthetha ngokukhululekileyo ngesiNgesi kwizihloko eziza kuba nomdla kumfazi osemzini-malunga nawe kunye nezinto zakho zokuzilibazisa, malunga nelizwe lakho kunye nezithethe zalo, malunga nezifundo zakho nomsebenzi, malunga nezicwangciso zakho zexesha elizayo, nokunye okuninzi. Ukongezelela, ukudibanisa ubuncinane ngokungabikho kwamasiko kunye namasiko ezwe elikhethiweyo, bonise umdla kwimbali kunye nenkcubeko yomthonyama. Ukwakha ingxoxo ngale ndlela, nawuphi na umphambukeli uya kunqotshwa ngolwazi lwakho.
Inyathelo lesithathu: kwiWebhu yehlabathi jikelele
Kubukhulu be-intanethi, ukufumana indawo elungileyo yokuthandana nabantu basemzini akuyona ingxaki namhlanje. Kodwa phakathi kokukhetha okunjalo kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlala ngento yokuba ineempendulo ezaneleyo kunye nolwazi oluhle. Ngezona ndawo ezingaziwayo kukungcono ukuba ungadliyo kunye nayo - ayikwazi ukuba yintoni le nto iphela nayo.
Emva kokuba kukhethwe ukhetho, kufuneka ubhalise kwisayithi. Xa ugqiba umbuzo wemibuzo yokubhalisa, zama ukuphendula ngokuchanekileyo ngokunokwenzeka kwaye ngenyaniso yonke imibuzo efunyenwe - inkohliso iya kuvuleka olunye usuku. Ukongeza kwiimpendulo eziqhelekileyo ngemfundo nakwintsimi yomsebenzi, bonisa izinto ozilibaziyo kunye nento onokuyenza emva komtshato wakho. Kodwa khumbula, nantoni na ebhala ngayo ngawe, vumela la madoda ukuba uya kuba ngumfazi nomama ontle.
Ngokwahlukileyo, kuyimfuneko ukuthetha ngezithombe zobuqu zendawo yokuthandana. Khetha iifoto eziza kufakwa kwizinto ezinjalo kufuneka ziqwalaselwe ngokucophelela kwaye ziphathele ngokufanelekileyo, kuba ekuqaleni ziya kuvavanywa nguwe njengomntu kunye nomtshakazi.
Ngaphambi kweseshoni yesithunzi, ulala ubusuku obuhle, sebenzisa ukuthobeka, kodwa ukwenziwa kwekhwalithi ephezulu kakhulu, yenza umqubo womzimba, unwele kwaye ungakulibali ngokucoceka kweengubo.
Ungathumeli izithombe ezingenanto okanye ngaphezulu, ngeendawo ezimbi-umtshakazi kufuneka abe mnandi kwaye athobe.
Isithombeni ngasinye simele sikhangise, oko kukuthi, kubonakalisa iimpawu zakho ezilungileyo kakhulu, yingako kungcono ukwenza izithombe zemisebenzi yezandla, kunye nekhekhe elitsha, xa udlala imidlalo okanye uhlobo oluthile lobuchule. Oku kuya kuba yinto enkulu kunye nawe kunye nepottoliyo yakho.
Inyathelo lesine: Yenza isicwangciso senkqubo
Kubonakala ngathi yonke into isele iyenziwe, ihlala ilinde kuphela ukuba uyibeke ingqalelo. Kodwa hayi, lesi sikhundla asihambelani, kwaye ulindelo lunokudlulela iminyaka. Udinga iqhinga elifanelekileyo!
Okokuqala, kufuneka ukhethe isigqibo kwilizwe apho ungathanda ukuya khona ukuhlala unaphakade. Emva koko, hlaziya iiprofayile zabantu bonke abavela apho. Zikhethele wena 10-20 abaviwa abaninzi abathandayo abafanele ukukhetha kwakho.
Izitulo zokutshata zinika ithuba lokunxibelelana ngokungenamkhawulo nge-Skype, nge-imeyile okanye kwingxoxo, kwaye le thuba kufuneka lifumane inzuzo. Ngako oko, khetha ukhetho ngalunye lwezinto ezikhethiweyo zokuqala zokunxibelelana.
Gcina idayari yokunxibelelana nomfaki-sicelo ngamnye kumadoda. Bhalisa khona zonke iingxaki kunye nokuxhamla kokuthetha nomnye wabo, kuba ukugcina yonke inkcazelo entloko yakho akunakwenzeka. Kwixesha elizayo, oku kuya kunceda ukwenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo.
Akukho imfuneko ukucwangcisana kunye nazo zonke iindawo zomzimba omnye usuku, luyakhathaza kakhulu kwaye lukhupha. Ngenxa yoko, unokucaphukisa kwaye ungathandeki kumnxibelelwano, kwaye lo mtshakazi akayidingi nto. Kungcono ukwenza ishedyuli yoqhagamshelwano kunye nalowo: 2-3 abantu ngosuku. Zama ukwenza ukuba unxibelelwano lulula kwaye luzonandiphe kangangoko.
Inyathelo lesithandathu: Ukuqinisa iiMisebenzi
Ukuba onke amanyathelo angaphambili owenze ngokuchanekileyo, ngoko ngoku sele uqhelene nomntu wasemzini, kwaye kungekhona enye, kodwa ngeqela kunye. Kwaye ukuba aba baziyo bajika kuba novelwano, kubalulekile ukuqinisa izikhundla zabo. Njani ukwenza oku?
Ngaphezu kwazo zonke, zilawule. Ukuba abantu baqhubeka bexubana nawe, ngoko unomdla kubo.
Kancinci uluhlu lwabantu ababenokuba ngabayeni abathathu - bonke abantu abanakuyithandayo, naziphi na iimpazamo ozibona kuzo kungekudala okanye kamva.
Yiva bonke abafaki sicelo, musa ukuvumela ukuba bathuke, batshintshe, badlale. Njengoko uthetha, unokunciphisa ukuthozama kwakho ngento ethile yokwenza izinto (iifoto ezininzi kwiingubo ezigqoke umgca wendoda kuphela). Kodwa qaphela: musa ukugqithisa umgca weemvume, kuba ukusuka kwi-eerotic ukuya kwisenzo sokunyanzela - isinyathelo esinye. Eyona nto ingumthombo wakho.
Emva kweenyanga ezi-4-6 zoqhagamshelwano oluqhelekileyo, uya kukwazi ukuhlala kumviwa omnye, kwaye sele sele uzama kuye, zama ukufuneka. Bonisa konke ubulumko bakho, ubuhlobo kunye nokuqonda, ungakulibala ukubonisa ubuthathaka bakho, kwaye indoda iya kuba seenyaweni zakho.
Enyanisweni, iziganeko ziyakhula ngendlela engalindelekanga. Kodwa ukuba uzimisele ukuyisa intliziyo yomntu wesinye isizwe - mamela indlebe yakho yowesifazane, uya kukuxelela indlela yokuqhubeka.