Isihloko sobudlelwane obusondeleyo bubuhlungu kwaye bunzima. Nangona kunjalo, ukuthuthumela okungaphantsi kwesi sihloko sokuzalwa kobomi obutsha apho intombi igule ngentliziyo yakhe. Iiveki zokuqala ezilishumi elinambini zokukhulelwa kwintombi ziyinkimbinkimbi, zombini ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Kwaye ngeli xesha, umbuzo wokuba ulwalamano lwezesondo luba ngowona mfazi.
Lo mfazi ukhulelwe kwaye uthetha ukuba umzimba wakhe uqala ukuhlaziywa ukuze unakekele kwaye unondle umntwana kwisithuba seenyanga ezilisithoba. Ngentsasa, kwaye kwenzeka njalo imini, umfazi unokuhlanza, ngokuqhelekileyo intloko ivela, ukulala nokukhathala kudla rhoqo. Akukho namnye owaziyo ngesimo esithakazelisayo senkosikazi, kuba kubonakala ukuba lona wesifazane uhlala efana, kodwa ngaphakathi kwakhe kwakukho utshintsho olunamandla. Zonke iingcamango zowesifazane, ngokuqinisekileyo, zihlala zixhamle ngengcamango yakhe ngengane yakhe, ikamva elitsha, amaphupha akhe wobomi obutsha. Ngokuqinisekileyo, lo mfazi ukhathazeke ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye ukhathazekile, kuba uyesaba ukwenza inzakalo yakhe kumntwana wakhe. Ukulumkisa okunjalo kusebenza nakwiintlobano zesini. Ibhinqa lingafuni ukulala ngesini okanye lifumana ezinye iimpawu. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba ubudlelwane bezocansi kuphela kuphela ukuba bavunyelwe ngumntwana.
Iyeza zanamhlanje alithinteli abafazi ukuba balala ngesini ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ukukhulelwa akusisizathu sokungavumi ubudlelwane obusondeleyo, iingqondo zengqondo ziyavuma. Ngexesha lobudlelwane bezocansi, ii-hormone zenjabulo ziphonswa kwigazi lomfazi-i-endorphins, kwaye oku kuchaphazela kakhulu umntwana. Kwakhona kukuthi kukuba ngexesha lobudlova livela ukuqeqeshwa ngaphambi kokubeletha. Ukuba umfazi usenokwesaba, ngoko unokuqinisekiswa. Okokuqala, kumanyathelo okuqala okukhulelwa, umntwana usemncinci kakhulu, kwaye ngoko ngandlela-thile uyamkhathaza okanye ukuphazamiseka akunakwenzeka. Ukongezelela, uhlobo lwalo luye lwacingisisa yonke into kangangokuba nangaphambi kokuba umntwana abelethe umntwana ukhuselwe (umlomo wesibeleko uvaliwe ngumgcini we-mucous, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo umntwana ujikelezwe yi-placenta, i-uterus kunye ne-amniotic fluid) kunye nobudlelwane bezesondo bunokwenzeka.
Kuyakwazi ukuqhawula izi zihlandlo ezilandelayo zesini kwisigaba sokuqala sokukhulelwa:
- Ukulala ngesondo kukuqeqesha kakuhle izidumbu zesisu, okuqinisekileyo kuya kuba luncedo ngexesha lokubeletha.
- I-Orgasm kweli xesha lifezekisiwe ngokukhawuleza, kuba ukunikezelwa kwegazi kwizitho zeplavic kunamandla kakhulu.
- I-embryo idinga i-spermatozoa kude kube ngeveki elinesine, njengoko ziyizakhiwo eziphezulu zeprotheni.
- Ngeli xesha, akukho sisisu esikhulu esingaziphazamisa ngokuthe ngqo ukulwa nobulili, ngoko ke inokusetyenziswa ngokupheleleyo.
- Ekubeni ukukhulelwa sele sekufikile, ukwesaba ukuba umfazi angakhulelwa akusiyo.
Nangona kunjalo, kukho imeko apho isondo lisafuneka khona ukuba luhlehliswe.
Ubundlobongela buphikisana:
- kwimeko apho ibhinqa lalinomzimba;
- ibhinqa linomntwana ongaphezu kweyodwa (kule meko, phantsi kweemeko ezifanelekileyo, ugqirha unokuvumela isondo);
- kukho umngcipheko wokupheliswa kokukhulelwa;
- ibhinqa igule izifo ze-venereal;
- ibhinqa linomkhuhlane okanye igazi elingaqhelekanga;
- Iingcali ziye zaqinisekisa ukuba ukuphazamiseka kwephacenta kubonwa okanye baphantsi kakhulu.
Ukuba kwenzeka njalo ukuba ugqirha akacebisi ukuba enze uthando, ngoko umfazi akafanele akhathazeke, kuba ukukhulelwa kuyinto evuyisayo xa kubalulekile ukuba nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kunye nemvakalelo emihle, kwaye awufumani nje ngesondo kuphela. Ukulula okulula kunokubangela uvuyo olungapheliyo.
Kufanelekile ukucatshangelwa ukuba akufuneki ukuba nesondo ngosuku lwexesha lokuba ekhefu. Kwakhona, musa ukulibala malunga neikhondom, zinokukhusela umntwana kwiintsholongwane. Ngeli thuba kungcono ukuba ungasebenzisi iiblue, njengoko ziyakuchukumisa ukuphendula. Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, akukhuthazwa ukuba uhlanganyele ngesondo esilumkileyo, njengoko oku kunokubangela isongelo sokuphazamiseka.