I-actress ethandwayo uKsenia Alferova eneenkwenkwezi kwiifilimu, idlala kwimidlalo yezemidlalo, ibonakale kwimiboniso ebonakalayo yeTV.
U-Xenia Alferova unyule udliwano-ndlebe kwenye yeefestile, uchaza oku ngale ndlela: "Ndiyasweleka ixesha. Xa uhamba kwi-cafe okanye kwindawo yokutyela, unokudibanisa uncedo kunye nentleko-udle kwindawo enhle kwaye uxoxe nabahlobo okanye intatheli. " Ixesha lenye yezona zixhobo ezintle kunye neetalente akwanele: ukudubula kwi-cinema, ukusebenza kwibala lezemidlalo, ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimiboniso yeTV. Ukongeza, u-Xenia kunye nomlingane wakhe, umlingisi uYork Beroev, baphazamiswa ngumnye umntu ... - Sitshele ngendodakazi yomdlali odlalwayo uKsenia Alferova?
- Kakade, ndichitha ixesha lam elikhululekile kunye naye. Kwaye ndiyicinga ngo-Yegor onobuhle. Sonke sibalungiselela ukubonakala komntwana, siye kwiikhosi zokuzilungiselela "Ukukhulelwa", apho saxelelwa ngako konke okuvela kwimpilo ukuya kwi-metaphysics. Ndicinga ukuba isimo sengqondo ebomini kufuneka sitshintshwe ngaphambi kokukhulelwa. Kuphosakeleyo, xa abafazi beqala ukukholisa indlela yokuphila enempilo, kuphela xa bekhulelwa (bayeke ukutshaya, ukusela, ukutya ukutya okunobungozi).
Ngaba umlinganiswa ubonisa umlingiswa?
-Impawu sele ikhona ! Ndandisoloko ndifuna umntwana ongenazo. Ukuba wayengumngcebisi wengqondo, kuya kuba nzima kuye. Sihamba kakhulu kwaye sihlala sisithatha nathi. Kwiminyaka emincinci wayetyelela eFransi, eJamani, eFinland. Xa uncelisa, akuyona ingxaki nhlobo. Ukuncelisa ukubeleka kuyinto elula kakhulu (ukufudumala, okuhlwayileyo, ukutya okuzinziwayo kuhlala kunye nawe). Andikwazi ukucinga indlela abanye oomama bafake ibhotile ngayo umntwana. Kwimi kufana nephupha elibi. Kwaye andiyiqondi xa abafazi bebeletha ngamachiza enhlungu. Ndikholelwe, akukhathazi ukuzala! Umntwana kufuneka ancedwe, kunzima kakhulu kuye. Saba ngababi kakhulu. Ukuba sele ubelethe umntwana, kufuneka ujongane nayo. Oku kuyinto ekhohlakeleyo xa umntwana eba ngumama wakho kumntwana. Ngoku kuyimfashini yokuzala, kwaye abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba into eyona nto eyenziwa yiyayikhupha umntwana, ibele umntwana, kwaye ngokukhawuleza "flip" umntwana kumntwana.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo ukubonakala komntwana kuguqula ubudlelwane bomtshato. Bahlukaniswe omnye nomnye ...
- Mhlawumbi, le ngxaki yomlingane kwindawo yokuqala. Xa umntwana ezalwa kwaye ibhinqa lichitha naye onke amaxesha - lendalo. U-Egor wandinceda. Akazange abe nomona. Kuyenzeka xa umntu engakulungele ukuba nguyise. Kwaye ke, ngokusondeleyo kunyaka, yonke into yendalo kunye neyendalo iphakama kwindawo yayo. Kufuneka nje ufundise ukuba intsapho ayisabini, kodwa abantu abathathu.
-Udlala kunye no-Egor kwisigaba. Musa ukudlulisa ubudlelwane bomntu kunye nokusebenza?
-Iintetho. Kodwa sifunda. Kwimeko nayiphi na, ngoku kulula. Indlela enkulu idlula, siye sazalisa amaninzi amaninzi. Ngamanye amaxesha umyeni wakhe ufumanisa kunzima ukuzibamba, kwaye kufuneka athi: "Egor, awuzange wenze into enjalo kunye nomnye umlingane. Yaye kum ungazidiliza, uphume. Musa! "Kodwa sifuna ukuba kunye enkundleni. Sihlala sikhululekile kakhulu kunye nomnye, kwaye kungekhona nje ngokuba singumyeni nomfazi. Sithetha ulwimi olufanayo.
- Ksenia, ungathanda ntoni amantombazana?
- Kholelwa kuwe! Musa ukuphulaphula nabani na. Yazi ukuba wena ungcono. Akukho zikhonkwane zobuhle. Zithande! Uhlukile, okwesibini akukho!
Yintoni enye eyenziwa ngumdlali wesithandwa uKsenia Alferova?
Umdlalo wendibano ufana neseshoni ye-psychotherapy. Kwaye xa usenzakwenzakalisa, ubugcisa bokusebenza bukunceda ukuba ube neengxaki zemvakalelo. "
"Andizange ndive noxinzelelo olungakumbi kunomsebenzi wokuqala kwisebe. Wonke umntu wandiphulaphula ngamehlo: "Hayi, uya kusibonisa ntoni ngoku?" Zonke iziphumo ezilindelekileyo eziphezulu. Kwaye xa ndiphosakele, bathi: "Uhlobo luhlala kubantwana!" Kodwa ngokukhawuleza waphumelela intlonelo yootitshala. Kwaye uviwo lwamazwe lwenziwa ngokugqithiseleyo, lubonisa wonke umntu ukuba ndinako! Kwakuyintshaba yam! "