Kungekudala, uJulia Takshina wanika umdlali othandwayo uGrigory Antipenko umntwana wesibini. Ngeli xesha, isibini senkwenkwezi sonke ixesha labo samahhala sinika abantwana. Ngoku bahlala ngaphandle kwesi sixeko kwaye balungiselela impumelelo entsha yokudala. Yiyiphi intshintsho yakho kwintsimi yokudala? Ngaba zikho iiprojekthi ozithandayo? Ukuba sithetha ngeziphakamiso ezingenayo, ngoko zizonke zifana, amabali afanayo. Njengomthetho, ngesimo esibi kunye nesabelomali encinci ... Yonke into iyaba ngumgangatho onemibuzo wemveliso, esele isixa esikhulu kwiikrini. Ngamanye amaxesha ihlazo lokuthatha inxaxheba kule nto. Ayikho ingqondo okanye intliziyo. Kwaye ukuba kunokwenzeka, bhala, ukuba kum konke oku sele kuphumlile. Ngoko ke, phantse apho ndingasuswa khona. Ewe, ndixhala malunga nomvuzo wokufumana imali, kwaye ekwindla kuya kufuneka 'ifaneleke' kwiprojekthi.
Umdlali onguwayo uGrigory Antipenko sele sele engumntwana wesithathu! Umdala ovela kumtshato wokuqala. Ngoku, ngokuqinisekileyo, ixesha liyingxaki. Kubalulekile ukondla lonke ixesha, ukudibanisa, ngokufutshane, ukuthatha inxaxheba ebomini bomntwana emini nasemini. Thina Yulia yenza oku. Abantwana bayonwabile! Yaye ngubani oqulunqa igama leyona nyana? UJulia wafika egama esibhedlele. Kwavela ukuba usuku lweengelosi uFeodor alukude. NjengoJulia ewadi, umama wayelele, kwaye wabheka abangcwele. Kodwa umntwana wethu wokuqala wayengenakukwazi ukuza negama leenyanga ezimbini ... - UGrigory Antipenko kunye nesahlulo sesibini ukwabelana nazo zonke iingxaki zekhaya ngokulinganayo? Kule micimbi akukho nxaki kukho konke, kuba ndiyakwazi ukupheka mna kunye nentsapho yonke, kwaye mna. Ewe, isidlo sakusasa singaziswa kwitafile kunye noJulia. Ukongezelela, sincedwa ngumongikazi kaYulia. Nangona kunjalo, kunye ne-nanny kuthi manje ingxaki. Sele sele utshintshe ezininzi. Abanye babo bahlala ixesha elilodwa okanye ezimbini, kungekho. Kwenzeka ukuba asikwazi ukuqonda umntu ngokukhawuleza, kodwa ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva kutyhilwa.
Mhlawumbi inqanaba lomdlali lomdlali liphezulu kakhulu? - Ukuvuma umntu ongaziwayo kwintsapho kuyisicatshulwa. Kucacile ukuba umntanowokuqala kuzo zonke uza kuzuza imali ... Kwaye kukho abo bazama ukuzithemba. Ukuba umntu usebenza ngaphandle komphefumlo, oku kwamkelekanga. Ndifuna ukufumana umntu onetalente ukuba asebenze nabantwana nguye owaziwayo. Ngokubanzi, uluntu lunenkathazo. Ukukhangela umsebenzi, imali ibeka kuqala.
Kwaye kufuneka ukhangele into enokuyithanda ... Ukuba oku kuya kukukholisa abantu kunye nawe. Ewe, ngaba udibana nalabo basebenzayo ekusebenzeni? UProfesa Shchukin College - umzekelo ocacileyo. Nandihlekisayo ukuthetha yintoni umvuzo onzima. Kwaye kukho okwenene. Kwaye imisebenzi yabo, kunye nabafundi abangenamava, iba ngumcimbi oqaqambileyo kubomi bentlalo. banamandla okudala, kunye nempembelelo eninzi kumbukeli kunamanye amashishini oonobumba. Ngokubanzi, kubalulekile ukuba nomoya wokwenza umsebenzi owenzayo. Ewe, imali nayo inendima ... Kodwa oku akufanele kube yiphelo ngokwalo. Ngaba unxibelelana kunye nendodana endala? Kakade. Ndinceda. Ngaphambi koko kwakukho indlela ende, izilingo kunye neepazamo ... - Kwaye ungazixolelanga wena? Ndijamelana nobuqili bam ngamandla amakhulu.
Ngaba uGrigory Antipenko unomona noJulia? Ndingumnikazi kwaye ndikhwele kakhulu. UJulia, naye. Ngubani na owokuqala ukuthatha inyathelo? Ekuqaleni sasingathandani yaye sasingathethi. U-Julia wazifumanisa yena ekugqibeleni ngokupheleleyo ukumangaliswa. Ukukhangwa kukuba sifana kakhulu. Ndabona umfanekiso wesibuko. Kukho bobabini uthando kunye neemvakalelo. Kodwa andifuni ukwenza enye impazamo, ndandisele nditshatile. Kwaye kwakungekho nto ekhangayo kakhulu. Ngoko ke, sisaphila emtshatweni womtshato, amacandelwana awawubaluleke kakhulu. Ndiyomdla kakhulu emtshatweni, kungekhona kumzobo ngokwawo. Emva koko ndiya kubamkela abantwana bam (bamomotheka). Ngaba unayo naziphi na iingxaki kwiintsapho malunga nokuphila kwansuku zonke? U-Julia ngumvelo umgcini wendawo. Le yinto engaphambili kwiinkwenkwezi, ngokuthetha, ungumama, inkosikazi. Kwaye intsapho iyakwazi ukuthathwa. Nangona ngaphambi koko kwakungenakupheka. Ngoku, ngokuchasene noko, kufuneka ihliswe phantsi kwindlela yokwakha. Kwaye, ndiyathemba ukuba ngokukhawuleza uza kususwa. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akakwazi ukushiya abantwana bakhe ixesha elide, akusiyo ibali lakhe. Kodwa ngaphandle komsebenzi - awukwazi.
UGrigory Antipenko ngaphambi kokuba abe ngumdlali wenyuka waya kufundela ikhemisti. Lo msebenzi ohlukeneyo ngokwemvelo. Uqaliswe ngamayeza ngokunyanzeliswa kwabazali? Ndafunda i-biology kakhulu. Kwaye wayefuna ukuba yi-biologist. Ukususela ebuntwaneni ndangcwatyelwa kuma-encyclopedias, ndathatha inxaxheba kwii-olympiads kwaye ndafunda kwisangqa. Kwakuyinjongo yangempela. Kodwa sathuthela kwenye indawo, kwaye ndandilandela ibanga lesibhozo kwisikolo samachiza, kuba andifuni ukudlulisela kwesinye isikolo. Kwaye ufunde ntoni wena? Okokuqala, ndafunda kumava kwengqondo. Oko kunjalo? Ndinguye kuphela umfana oneminyaka engama-30.
Kwaye, mhlawumbi, omnye umfundi naye wayemthanda nawe? Olu luvavanyo olunzima kakhulu kule minyaka, kholwa kwam. Zonke zifana. Ngenxa yokuba lo msebenzi uyinto ekhethileyo. Kodwa kwakungekho nto yokuthetha ngayo nabo. Ndaba ngumhlobo kuphela nentombazana enye eyayingumfana osemvelo. Kwaye kwangezinye izikhathi wayenxibelelana naye. Ngaba wayengumlindi. Kwaye andizange ndikhululeke. Ndacinga ngalo msebenzi njengenguqu yenguqu. Nangona ebantwini oku kuyingcali inzuzo ngokubhekiselele ekukhuleni komsebenzi kunye nokuqhuba ishishini lakho. Xa ndaphumelela, ndazama kwaye ndafumana ngempumelelo imali eninzi. Kodwa isiphumo sasingenakuqhathaniswa nentlalo encinci endiyifumene kwinkqubo endiyishiye ngayo kwimeko.
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Chaza ngokwakho. Ndikho ngokwemvelo kungekhona ukuba i-misanthrope, kodwa kunokuba i-sociopath. Maxa wambi ndithanda ukuba ndedwa. Andiyena kwinqanaba le "kriketi", ngubani owenzele ihlombe kwaye "ekhwaza" phezu kwayo yonke imihla. Ndingumntu oqhwithelayo, kwaye kufuneka ndiqonde iimvakalelo zam, italente kunye neenqweno. Ndinezicwangciso ezininzi malunga nokugqithisa kakhulu. Ndifuna ukuvula ihlabathi kwakhona. Andiyi kwamkela into yokuba yonke into yayivulekileyo phambi kwam ... Umhambi ngeendalo, ndiyakuthanda ukutyelela indawo engabonakaliyo. Apho kungekho mntu kwaye unokuhamba, uzive ungumvulindlela.