Apha ufuna ukuqonda amaphuzu ambalwa. Ukukhulelwa akunakwenzeka ukuba kudlule kangcono kwiminyaka engama-30 kunama-25 Le nto yinto efunekayo ukuyiqonda. Nangona usenokuba nomsebenzi omhle, njl., Ngokuqinisekileyo oku kuhlanganisiweyo. Njengokuba ubona, ukukhulelwa emva kokukhawuleza kunemibutho yayo, kuninzi kakhulu kubo, kodwa akwanele ukuzisa bonke, ngoko ke, makangathi umntu makabe sele ekulungele ukukhulelwa ngethuba lokuvuthwa, kwaye ezinye ziphela nje. Ngenxa yokuba ngalinye ibhinqa le minyaka ihluke ngokupheleleyo. Umbuzo othi "Uphi na umfazi olungele ukuzalwa komntwana? "Kuninzi kakhulu, akunakwenzeka ukuyiphendula. Ngoku siza kuzama ukucacisa iimpawu zokukhulelwa kwangaphambili, ukusuka apho, uya kukwazi ukuqonda ukuba ulungele, okanye ulungele ukulinda.
Kufuneka uqaphele ukuba kwiminyaka engama-35 ubudala, ibhinqa isele ibe ngumntu ogcinwe ngokupheleleyo. Yena, kule minyaka, wayekwazi ukwenza umsebenzi, sele sele eneendawo zokuhlala. Oko kukuthi, amava obomi bakhe sele sele akwanele, ngokuqinisekileyo, engabalali umntwana. Eli xesha liguquka. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba ukhangeleka ngaphandle, ungabona ukuba kwelinye icala ukuya kwiminyaka engama-40 alide kude, ngokufanelekileyo, kwelinye - umzimba ugcwele amandla, amandla kunye nethemba. Eli lilungelo lokugqibela lokuba nomntwana, kungekho miphumo. Yiloo nto, ngeli xesha xa lona wesifazane ekulungele ukuzalwa komntwana. Kwaye ngoku, umfazi udidekile, ukhumbule iminyaka yakhe engama-20, xa efuneka enze ukhetho olufanayo, kuphela apha kukho utshintsho oluthile. Akakwazi ukuba enze ntoni ngokuzayo, kuba sele eselungele indlela yakhe yokuphila, apho ehlala ekhathalela umsebenzi, kwaye ke kukho ithuba elinjalo, ngoko ke naye uyona wokugqibela ... Ufanele enze ukhetho phakathi komsebenzi nekhaya. Ukhetho luyinkimbinkimbi, kodwa, ekugqibeleni, kukho umsebenzi, amava axabisekileyo atholakala, ngoku unako ukuzala umntwana omhle. Eli lixesha apho le ntokazi ilahlekelwa ngokupheleleyo. Akayiqondi into enokuyenza. Ewe, kuya kuba kuhle ukuzala, kodwa yintoni na? Yonke ixesha eliya kuhamba ngendlela ehluke ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye ngexesha elifanayo, lo mfazi uyaqaphela ukuba unokulahlekelwa yilo lonke igunya elifumanayo ngexesha elilodwa.
Leli lixesha elifanelekileyo xa umfazi ekulungele ukukhulelwa, kodwa kungekhona ngokomzimba, kodwa ngokwemigaqo yokuziphatha. 35 yimihla apho amadoda nabesetyhini bekulungele ukuba nomntwana, bamnyamekele, bahlawule ngokwaneleyo.
Umntwana ubuncwane obulinde ixesha elide, kodwa ekugqibeleni sithola inkosana okanye ikosikazi, ejikelezwe ngqalelo, kuba kungcono kunokuzalwa ngaphandle komntu, xa abazali, ngokufanayo nophuhliso lomntwana, bahlakulela imisebenzi yabo. Oku akunjalo! Ukuba oko kwenzeka, ngoko umfazi akayikulungele ukuzalwa komntwana. Kodwa ekukhulelweni ngokukhawuleza kukho umda. Kule minyaka, imeko yomzimba yowesifazane ayiphuculanga nonke, enokuthi ithinte kakubi indlela yokukhulelwa. Kwaye, kukholwa ukuba umfazi ulungele ukuzalwa komntwana osele minyaka engama-20-24-eli lidala libhekwa njengelungileyo, kodwa, njengoko sele uqondayo, akulula wonke umntu ngengqondo, ngenxa yokuba. Apha kufuneka ucinge ngokucophelela ngazo zonke izenzo zakho. Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zabonisa ixesha elide lokuba ukulungelelanisa kwengqondo kuza emva kweminyaka eyi-10 emva kwenyama.
Kwaye ke, ngokwemibare yamanani, inani labasetyhini ababeletha umntwana eneminyaka engama-30 ukuya kwe-40, lukhula minyaka yonke, ngoko ke kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo.
Ukuba usenza isigqibo sokuba ukhulelwe, ngokokuqala, okokuqala, uye kwi-gynecologist yakho. Uya kukuxelela ngokubanzi iinkcukacha ezifunekayo ukutyelela. Nceda uqaphele ukuba ukukhulelwa okufanelekileyo, isifo sakho se-thyroid kufuneka sisebenze kakuhle. Kutheni? Ewe, kuba ama-hormone aveliswa yiyo, ayichaphazela kakhulu ukubunjwa kwenkqubo yesantya yomntwana, kwaye iyakuchukumisa kakhulu ingqondo yengane. Ukuba umntwana wazalwa ebangeni eliphezulu, kuyimfuneko ukuhlola eli nqaku kwangaphambili. Ukuzalwa komntwana okumele ulungiselele ngokucophelela, khumbula ngalo.
Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukuqaphela enye inqaku, ukuba ukukhulelwa kuma-20 nangama-30 kwiminyaka yamakhadi ahlukeneyo. Emva koko, abafazi abakhulelweyo abaneminyaka engama-30 ngokuzenzekelayo bawela kwiqela elijongene nobungozi, ekubeni ingozi yengozi ye-chromosomal engafanelekanga kumama osele kuneminyaka ephezulu kunokuba ngumama oselula. Kodwa ungakhathazeki ngako. I-teknoloji iya phambili ngamanyathelo amakhulu, ukwenzela ukuba unokwazi ukuxilongwa kwe-fetus ngexesha.
Okwangoku, iyeza sele lifikelele kwinqanaba abafazi abasele bangaphezu kwama-35 bangakwazi ukuzala ngokukhuselekileyo kubantwana abanobuphilileyo nabasempilweni.
Ingxaki ebalulekileyo yokukhulelwa kwexesha elide, okwangoku, ayikho kwinkqubo yokukhulelwa, kodwa ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kuba ukukhulelwa kwile minyaka sele kunzima kakhulu. Kungathatha inyanga ezi-6 ukuya kwezi-12 ukukhulelwa. Into eyingozi kunazo zonke ezinokuthi zenzeke kwinkqubo yokukhulelwa kwexesha emva kokukhulelwa kwexesha eliqhelekileyo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba into ayihambanga ngokucwangcisa, umntwana unokuzalwa nge-Down syndrome. Kodwa ungakhathazeki kakhulu, kuba amathuba omfazi oneminyaka engama-40 wokuba nomntwana omncinci kakhulu kakhulu, malunga ne-1%.
Kodwa abafazi abangaphezu kwama-35 banokufumana ukulahleka kwamathambo amaninzi, ukubeletha, ngokwabo, kunokuba nzima, kubangele imiphumo emibi kunye neengxaki ezahlukeneyo. Musa ukulibala malunga nempembelelo yezinto eziyingozi ezinokuchaphazela umzimba wakho ebomini. Kwaye emva kokuzalwa kokubeleka, ukugqithisa umntwana kuza kuba.
Umfazi okhulelweyo akafanele abe nemikhwa emibi, ngaphambi kokuba adle ngokufanelekileyo, uhambe emoyeni omtsha, thatha amavithamini.
Zizo zonke iimpawu. Ngoku ugqiba-mhlawumbi ungasilungelelwanga kwengqondo, okanye unako ukukhulelwa kwengxaki.