Ingozi yokuxilisa ixesha elide

Phakathi kwezinto ezininzi ezinxulumene nokuncelisa, zikhona ezo zibangelwa iingxoxo ezifudumeleyo. Ngoko ke, ukuba imfuno yokuzalisa ngokupheleleyo ikhona ekungathandabuzeki komntu, ngoko ubude bayo - ezininzi zihlala ziphikisana.

Ubuninzi boomama bakholelwa ukuba ubungozi bokuncelisa ixesha elide kuninzi ngaphezu kweenzuzo zakhe. Ukukhokelwa yile nkolelo, oomama abaninzi baxosha abantwana babo kwibele emva komnyaka nesiqingatha. Kwaye kaninzi, kwaye abantwana bafumana le nkqubo ngokubuhlungu, kunye noomama ngokwabo. Siza kuzama ukuqonda ukuba yintoni ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuncelisa.

Njengomthetho, ukuba umama wakwazi ukuqala ukuncelisa ukubelesa ekuqaleni kwalenkqubo kwaye uyigcine iinyanga ezilisithandathu, ke akukho ziphumo ezingaphezulu. Kodwa kufutshane nomnyaka - umama omnye kunye nesiqingatha uya kusebenza, umntwana usulungiselelwe inkulisa. Kwaye kukho umbuzo wokuxothwa. Kwaye kaninzi akaqwalaselanga ukuba, okokuqala, kufuneka ukuba ingqalelo: "Ngaba umntwana usulungele oku?" Emva koko, ukuphazamiseka kukaMama ngendlela eqhelekileyo yobomi, izondlo zokusondeza kubangela uxinzelelo (kwaye unomdala!). Yintoni efana nomntwana?

Ukuqonda ukuba umntwana usulungele ukuphuma ebuseni, qwa lasela oku kulandelayo. Ingaba umntwana angalala ngaphandle kobisi lwangunina? Ngaba kukho ithuba elihle lokulala ngaphandle komama - kunye nonina, utata? Ngaba unokuhlala udibeneyo, ngaphandle kokuhlambalaza uhlala u tyelele ngokuhlala ubusuku (umzekelo, ngogogo?). Ixesha elingakanani umntwana usalathisa kwisifuba? Ungavumelana nomntwana kwaye ungamondli kwiindwendwe, esitratweni, kwisithuthi? Ukuba iimpendulo zakho zineempembelelo, ngoko ukuxothwa kwintsimi kuya kudlula ngobumnene kwaye akusayi kubangela uxinzelelo kumntwana. Kodwa ukuba akunjalo - kufuneka ufunde okungakumbi malunga nokutya kokondla umntwana emva konyaka nesiqingatha, malunga neendlela zokudibanisa umsebenzi womama, i-nursergart kunye nokuncelisa. Emva koko uza kwenza ngobulumko ngokusemandleni akho, ugxininise kwiimfuno zentswelo zakho. Nanku umgaqo oyintloko - "Musa ukulimaza!"

Kuyaphawuleka ukuba ngexesha lokusondla sineengcinga ezininzi. Ngokomzekelo, unako ukuva malunga neengozi zokuncelisa ixesha elide kubafana. Kuthetha, umzekelo, ukuba ukuba umntwana osemtsha uqhubeka esondla ngesifuba sikamama, ufumana ama-hormone angaphezu kwama-female, okuza kusenokubangela ukuba abantu basini nabasini. Enyanisweni, izifundo ze-WHO (World Health Organisation) zibonise ukuba ubisi lwebele luhlala lukulungele ukubunjwa kumntwana womntwana onikeziwe. Ngenxa yoko, akukho mfuneko yokuthetha malunga naluphina i-hormone engaphezulu. Kwaye ukuqhubeka nokutya (kunye nentlangano efanelekileyo) kunenzuzo efanayo kubafana kunye namantombazana. Iyintoni ukusetyenziswa kwayo?

Inzuzo ebalulekileyo yokuncelisa ixesha elide yinkxaso ebonakalayo yokukhusela abantwana. Emva koko, emva kweminyaka emine nesiqingatha kukho okubizwa ngokuba yi-involution yobisi. Ngokubunjwa kwalo, kufutshane nebala. Kwaye kubonakala kwangaphandle. Ukuba ubonisa umgca wobisi ngeli xesha kwaye uyakuqwalasela, unokubona ukuba umbala awunamhlophe okanye ucebile ezimhlophe, njengobisi oluvuthiweyo oluvela kumama onesiko. Ngombala kuluhlaza, kwi-consistence-liquid, watery. Enyanisweni, i-colostrum ehlanjululwayo. Ewe, ndibhalela okuninzi malunga neenzuzo ze-colostrum, ngoko akuyimfuneko ukuthetha ngayo ngokukhethekileyo. Ngoko cinga malunga nokuba ufuna ukuzithandela uncedo oluphawulekayo lomzimba womntwana. Ngaphezu koko, ukuba umntwana unomlutha kumyezo (ukuxinezeleka!), Ukudibana kunye neentsholongwane kwiqela lezingane zeqela, ukulungelelanisa kubo (kwaye luvavanyo olunzulu lokukhuseleka kwemivumba!).
Ewe, ukuba iingeniso zokuncelisa ixesha elide zininzi, unganditshela ukuba kunokwenzeka ukudibanisa nomsebenzi womama kwaye ndwendwela ingadi yomntwana? Kakade, unako! Ngenxa yoko kubalulekile ukulandela imithetho emininzi.

  1. Ewe, ukuba ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuya emsebenzini, umama uya kuba kude kwintsana encinane, amshiye umntu oqhelekileyo kuye-ugogo, umhlobo, umfana. Unokushiya, uqale kwiinyanga ezine (iyure okanye ezimbini). Emva kweenyanga ezintandathu, kufuneka uhambe-ngcono kangangeentsuku ezimbini ngeveki ezimbini ukuya kwiiyure ezine. Emva konyaka kunye nesiqingatha (jonga umntwana) ungashiya iiyure ezingama-6 ukuya kwe-8 kabini ngeveki.
  2. Fundisa umntwana wakho emva konyaka, ukuba asidli ubisi nonke, naphi na ukufunayo, kodwa ekhaya, ekamelweni, ngaphandle kokujonga amehlo. Ungavumeli amabele akho athengwe kwiindwendwe. Kodwa ziphathe ngokuzinzileyo nangomdla, ungabhubhisi uxinzelelo kumntwana. Mncedise: "Usube mkhulu, uhlakaniphile, uzimeleyo!"
  3. Qiniseka ukuba ukondla ubisi lomntwana emva kokubuya emsebenzini, ukusuka kwirejista, emva kokuhlukana. I-crumb kufuneka iqinisekise ukuba uyakuthandwa kwaye ulinde.
  4. Hlela (ukuba kwakungekho ngaphambili) okanye qhubeke uphupha iphupha elidibeneyo nomntwana. Ukuba awufumanekanga kwintsana emini, nangona ebusuku uya kuziva ukuba ubukho bakho bukufutshane. Ukuze ugweme ukwesaba ubusuku kwaye usebenzise umbhede womzali oneminyaka emi-5 ukuya kweyesi-6, xa umntwana sele ekhulu kunene, kukulungele ukondla ngokufudumele komama ngaphambi kweminyaka emithathu. Emva kokuba abathathu abantwana abanjalo ngokuqhelekileyo bahamba bendiye embhedeni ohlukeneyo, bethetha ukuba sele bekhulile.
  5. Khumbula ukuba indlela eqhelekileyo yokondla umntwana emva komnyaka nesigamu ubisi lwebele ngaphambi nangemva kokulala, kwaye emva kokufika kukaMama ukusuka emsebenzini okanye emva kwontanga. + Isidlo sasekuseni, isidlo sasemini, isidlo sasemini (ukuba sisemzimbeni), isidlo sakusihlwa - ngokwendlela eqhelekileyo yobomi kwintsapho okanye kwi-kindergarten.
  6. Ukuba inkunzi ekhulile iqala ukucela amabele kaninzi, njengomncinci, mhlawumbi ufumana uxinzelelo olunzima (khangela isizathu!) Okanye unexesha elininzi lokukhulula nelinganakulungiswa (uququzelele ukunxibelelana nabahlobo, ukuvakashela igug, njl.

Njengoko sibona, inzakaliso yokuncelisa ibinzana. Inzuzo ifumanekile. Kodwa isikhokelo esiphezulu kwisidingo sokususa kwisifuba okanye ukungabikho kwayo kuya kuba ngumntwana ngokwakhe. Ukuba kwithuba eliphakathi kwe-2.5 ukuya kwe-3 ukuya kweyimi-5 kukho ixesha apho umntwana engaceli isifuba - anganikeli. Ukuba ulungele ukuzikhupha, akayi kucela ubisi. Ukuba akunjalo, linda ngokuzenzekelayo umzuzu ofanelekileyo. Ngoko uya kunika umntwana into ephambili - ukuzinza kwenkqubo ye-nervous, impilo ephezulu kunye nophuhliso olupheleleyo. Emva kwakho konke, abantwana abaye bahlala esifubeni sabo, abanalo iingxaki ngeentetho zonyango, baluma, bahlala bekhupha intanga yabo ukuphuhlisa kwengqondo, banamandla emoyeni, bavuya, banoluntu.