Kule meko, umfazi, ngokubanzi, uqondwa, kuphela kwendima yomfazi wendlu. Kuxhomekeke ekuhlambulukeni, induduzo kunye nokuhlelwa kwindlu. Kwaye akukho mbuzo malunga naloo nto. Ukuba unokuqesha umgcini-ndlu, nangona ziyimali. Udinga kuphela into enye - isidlo esimnandi nesentliziyo esifanele sihlale silungele, njengoko kunakho nawuphi na umzuzu ukubonakala ekhaya. Kwaye ukungaphumeleli kwalo msebenzi kubangelwa esinye isihlazo. Kodwa yintoni umfazi angayenzanga, kwidilesi yomyeni wakhe, uya kuva, akukho nto ngaphandle kokuhlambalaza nokuhlambalaza. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umyeni ocebileyo ozinzile kwiindawo zakhe ezizuzisa imali, uqala ukunyanzelisa umfazi wakhe. Uhlala emhlambalaza ngento yokuba uyigcina, ngelixa eshiya imali. Yena imihla ngemihla, uchitha, ngakwesobunxele nakwesokudla uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali, kwaye phambi kwakho nezidingo zakho akazinandaba. Le ndoda ibeka phambi komfazi wayo i-veto esicacileyo necacileyo, isiseko salo isithintelo sokufeza naluphi na ukuthengwa okungahleliwe. Wena, endulo, bobabini sele belibalekile, xa bephelile kwaye bengenazo izibilini, bathetha intliziyo ngentliziyo, babelana ngeengxaki zabo, iimvakalelo kunye nemihlali. Kwaye ngokubanzi umlingane waqala ukuphawula kwaye uyakunxibelelana nawe kuphela kwimeko apho unesimo sengqondo okanye into efunekayo kuwe. Kodwa le ngxoxo ayifani ngokufana neyokuqala, ngelizwi lomfazi, ngoku kungabi nandaba nokubandayo. Wathula waza wahluke ngokupheleleyo. Emva kokuba indoda ifike ezinyaweni zakhe - kwaye umfazi wayengasadingeki, into eninzi yatshintshile kwaye, ngokuthe kancinci, ayikho into yakho.
Izizathu zendlela yokuziphatha yendoda, ingaba, umzekelo, yena, wayenkosikazi. Isiqhamo esinjalo senzeke ngokuqhelekileyo kule meko. Emva koko, ukuba umntu unemali, ngoko-ke ungumntu oza kuba ngumviwa kwabanye abafazi kwaye akukhathazeki ukuba ukhululekile okanye u-bachelor. Apha, akukhatywanga ngaphandle kwento yokuba wayenokuthandana nomnye umfazi. Ngoko waba, ebanda kakhulu kwaye engakhathaleli.
Isizathu sesibini sinokudityaniswa okubukhali kwehlabathi lakhe elingaphakathi. Emile ngokunyanisekileyo kwiinyawo zakhe, ngelinye ilanga, akazange acinge ngokucinga ukuba ngaba uhamba naye ngoku nje ngenxa yeemeko zakhe zezemali. Isidenge, kodwa ingqondo yesintu, mhlawumbi ayikho into enjalo. Kwaye ezo zicamango, imihla ngemihla, zivuselela ingqondo yakhe kwaye ngaloo ndlela, zona zitshatileyo. Nanku, indima ebalulekileyo idlalwe ngokukhawuleza nokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye, njengesigqibo, uloyiko lokulahlekelwa yinto yonke, kunye nokuhaha kunye neengcambu, ukuhaha, oku akuyona into engumfokazi, akukho nathi.
Isizathu sesithathu sisebakala lokuba wayejonge amehlo akho ahlukileyo kwaye le nto yamsusa. Uhlala kwimodi ecacileyo kunye neshedyuli ebalwayo yosuku ngalunye. Ukuxinezeleka kunye noxinzelelo baba ngabahlobo bakhe abathembekileyo. Yena, onjengawe, ufuna ukuxhaswa kwengqondo kunye nomoya, okwangoku, akufumani kuwe. Umlingane ubona kwiqabane elingumntu ongeyena ongakwaziyo ukuziphatha ukuze ancede. Ngenxa yoko, wayenesimo sengqondo esibi kuwe. Nantsi, kunjalo, zonke iintyala zihamba, kuphela kumfazi wakhe. Emva koko, kufuneka abe ngumyeni wakhe, njengomhlobo, kunye nengcali yeengqondo, ukuba akafuni ukuhlawulwa ngokupheleleyo.
Esinye isizathu kuba ngumsebenzi wakhe rhoqo kunye nomsebenzi wakhe. Zonke iingcamango zakhe zihlala kunye namanani, ipesenti, izivumelwano kunye nazo zonke ezinye iinkqubo zokusebenza. Kwaye usenakho amandla kuye kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, ixesha. Ngokuqinisekileyo, watshintsha isimo sakhe sengqondo, waba neentloni kwaye wayenomsindo. Ngaphambili, yonke into yayihluke - ngaphambi kokuba iingxaki kunye neengxakini zingaphantsi. Umyeni wakho, ngokukhawuleza, ebudeni bexesha elidlulileyo, wayekhokela ubomi obuhluke ngokupheleleyo. Le yinguqu enkulu kwimeko yentsapho kwaye yatshatyalalisa ubudlelwane bakho.
Zama iindlela ezahlukahlukeneyo zokubuyisela zonke izinto kwiindawo zazo, kuba imeko "indoda yavuka ezinyaweni zayo - kwaye umfazi ayengadingeki" ayiyinto emnandi kakhulu. Qala kunye nawe, unakekele imbonakalo yakho, utshintshe umfanekiso wakho, wenze kube kufanelekile ukuqinisa umfanekiso womyeni wakho. Funda iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeencwadi kunye nezikhokelo kwengqondo yesintu kwaye emva koko, ncokola ngengqumbo nomyeni wakho. Mbonise ukuba ungumntu onenkalipho kwaye uziqhenya ngokunyuka ukunyuka kwinqanaba lomsebenzi emsebenzini wakho. Ukuba oku akunakwenzeka, zama ukutshintsha, ukuba uphumelele kwaye uthembise. Ukuba akukho nenye yeendlela ezingasebenzi, indlela efanelekileyo yokuphuma kule meko iya kuba kukuhamba kwakho kumyeni wakho. Khumbula ukuba ngamanye amaxesha kukho amaxesha athile akufanelekanga, ukunyanzela ukuzinikela kunye nokuzinza kwakho kokuziphatha.