Ewe, akunakunceda ukuchitha namhlanje, kwaye akunjalo imfashini. Kodwa kuninzi ukuyigcina kwintlangano yomtshato, nayo, ayikwazi. Ngoko, sisebenzisa ukugcinwa komtshato ngokufanelekileyo: sithenga yonke into esemgangathweni, simema iindwendwe, setha itafile kwaye ujabulele impilo yemantshi. Kodwa senza konke ngokumodareyitha!
Okokuqala, siya kuqonda, kwintoni okunokwenzeka ukuba uyisindise kwintlangano yomtshato?
- ngezothutho? Ewe!
- kwiintyatyambo? Ewe!
- Ingubo? Ewe!
- kwiimemo? Ewe!
- kwi-mastermaster? Ewe!
- emthendelekweni womtshato? Ewe!
Inketho ephezulu kakhulu yokutshata komtshato iyimoto embalwa yabahlobo bakho nabahlobo. Kakade, wonke umntu uphupha nge-limousine ngosuku lomtshato: zombini isityebi kunye nabampofu, ukususela ngeli mini kufuneka kube ngumlingo kwaye ungayibaleki. Kodwa injongo yethu ukwenza umtshato uphumelele. Ngoko ke, imbono yokuqesha i-limousine ingcono ukushiya ngoko nangoko. Ukuba uthabatha imoto yabangani, cwangcisa kusengaphambili ngubani oza kusemva kwevili, kuya kufuneka uqhube iimoto, kodwa kungabizi ngaphaya kweemoto zomtshato okanye eziqashisayo. Iimoto zingahlotshiswa ngaphezu kokuba unqwenela, kwii-salons ezikhethekileyo zokubamba iindleko zokubhatala imali, ngoku kukodwa oku kubhekisela kumacangci omtshato kwiingoma okanye zomculo zomculo. Unokuyihobisa imoto ngamabhaloni kunye neetronbhoni ze-satin.
Ukuthetha ngeentyatyambo zomtshato, sithetha ukubunjwa kwesidlo somtshato. Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba iiflorist kwiintengiso zeentyatyambo zicela ixabiso elihle kakhulu elincinci kumabhinqa amancinci omtshakazi. Akunjalo, ukuyala umtya womtshakazi, itsho ukuba ungumyeni. Unokwenza umyalelo weentyatyambo kwiimbali ezifanelekileyo zokubhiyozela, ubukhulu obufanelekileyo, kwaye uthenge ngexabiso elithengiweyo. Ukuba unayo ingcamango encinci yokwenza izimbali (apha, ngendlela, intsingiselo yakho yemvelo idlala indawo enkulu, kwaye ingazi), unokuzenza umtshato womtshato ngokwakho okanye ngoncedo lomhlobo. Iintyatyambo zilungele ukhethe ezo ixesha eli lixesha, zingabizi. I-bouemade ye-wedding boutiade ingahlotshiswe ngamanqabha, i-lace, ubuqaqa bamhlophe kunye nezinye izinto zokuhlobisa.
Ininzi yazo yonke intlungu ngenxa yomtshakazi inika imali yokugcina ingubo yomtshato. Ewe, kwaye kule ngongoma, iindleko ziya kufuneka zinqunywe. Inketho egqibeleleyo - ukuthenga endaweni yengubo yomtshato yendabuko - isambatho sakusihlwa, esinokugqoka ukugubha. Kumyeni, ngokulandelanayo, sifumana i-suit apho uya kuhamba nayo ukuya emhlabeni okanye ukusebenza. Kuyafana nokukhetha izicathulo. Ukuba, emva kwakho konke, awukwazi ukuwamkela into yokuba emtshatweni wakho uya kuba ngaphandle kwengubo yomtshato, ngoko uthathe ingubo yamaphupha akho kwirenti, ngale ndlela, nayo inokugcinwa kakuhle. Omnye akakwazi ukwenza ngaphandle, ngoko ke ngaphandle kokuthenga izixhobo ezahlukeneyo zomtshakazi: iiglavu, iingubo, imihlobiso. Kungcono ukuba ungabathengi kwii-salon zomtshato, kodwa, umzekelo, kwiivenkile ze-intanethi, apho kungekho nkohliso enkulu. Ngomhla womtshato, unokwenza ngaphandle kweenkonzo ze-salon enobuhle, ukudala i-salon yobuhle ngasekhaya. Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi komtshato, udle ngokufanelekileyo, njengoko yonke into enamafutha, enomnandi kwaye ecocekileyo ibonakala kwimeko yesikhumba sethu. Kumntu wayepheleleke kwimeko, udinga iveki ngaphambi kokuba imibhiyozo ibe yinto eqhelekileyo kunokuba iyimkele. Unokutya okunomsoco, sebenzisa indlela ecacileyo yokunika isikhumba ukukhanya kwemvelo. Kuyafana kunye neenwele, kufuneka babe semgangathweni ngemini yomtshato.
Ukwenza kunye nekhwele kungenziwa yedwa. Ngenxa yoko, unokufunda uncwadi kwindlela yokusebenzisa umtshato. Ngeenwele, unokukunceda intombi yakho, akunqabile ukuba ngubani ovela kwiintombi azikwazi ukuzenza iintlobo zakho. Ngeenwele unako ukurhawula iintyatyambo okanye imihlobiso.
Ungagcina kumakhadi omemo kwiindwendwe: Khangela amakhadi omemo okuqala kwi-intanethi uze uyibhale ngaphandle - izimemo zomtshato zilungele, uya kufuneka uwasayine kuphela.
Amagama ambalwa malunga neendwendwe. Ukuba sicinga ngokusindisa, kuyafaneleka ukumema ukubhiyozela kuphela abo bantu ofuna ukuwabona. Ebusuku kubalulekile ukubiza zonke iindwendwe kunye nokucacisa ukuhamba kwabo ukubhiyozela, ukwenzela ukuba unqatshelwe ukwazisa ivenkile malunga neendwendwe ezimbalwa.
Awukwazi ukuqesha umphathi wesigqeba. Kuyo nayiphi na intsapho okanye inkampani yabahlobo kukho ngaso sonke isikhathi umntu okwazi ukutshintsha umphathi weastastor eholide. Kuhlala nje ukuvumelana naye kwangaphambili kwaye ufumane imvume yakhe. Kuya kuba sisipho esihle somtshato esisecaleni lakhe. Ukumema abaculi, abadansi, i-jugglers - unquma.
Idibano ngokwalo ifuna ukucwangciswa "ukusuka" kunye "ngaphambi". Umtshato ungabanjwa kwi-caffe okanye kwindawo yokutyela esandula ukuvulwa ukuze ugcine imali kwidili, njengoko kwiindawo ezintsha zenza izaphulelo ezinkulu. Kwiindawo ezininzi zokutyela unokuzisa iziyobisi ezinxilisayo kunye nokutya. Kubalulekile ukuba uvumelane kwangaphambili kunye nolawulo lokutya.
Umtshato onwabileyo kwaye ungalibali ngokulondolozwa okufanelekileyo!