Indlela yokudibana nomntu osanda kutshata eofisi yokubhalisa

Isibini ngasinye sagqiba ukubhiyozela umtshato, sizama ukucwangcisa phantsi, siqwalasele zonke izithethe kunye nemifashiselo yemo. Unokufunda malunga nomcimbi wobhaliso apha , kodwa yintoni omele uyenze ngokulandelayo? Xa umtshakazi nomyeni befika kwindawo yokutyela okanye ekhaya emva kweofisi yokubhalisa, baqala ukuvela ngaphambi kweentsapho zabo kunye nabahlobo kwimeko entsha - indoda nomfazi. Kuyimfuneko ukuba umkhosi wokudibana nentsha uqhubekile kwaye uhle kakhulu. Musa ukulibala malunga nemikhosi yasendulo, eyenzelwe ukukhusela isibini esitshatileyo, ukumnika uthando nokuvisisana. Makhe sibone indlela yokudibanisa ne-ofisi yobutsha kunye nerejista?

Amasiko okuhlangana nabantu abatsha

Akuyimfuneko ukutsho ukuba ngaphambi kokuba umtshato umiselwe ngokusemthethweni. Isenzo ngasinye sasinexesha, indawo kunye ne-sacral ecacileyo intsingiselo. Kwakudingeka ukudibana nabancinci ngokuchanekileyo emva komtshato (iiofisi zobhaliso zazingekho). Kule meko, indima ephambili yabelwa kubazali.

Emngceleni wendlu isibini esitshatileyo sasilindele abazali bomyeni okanye abazali kumacala omabini. Kwakhona kwakukho oothixo. Ezozandleni zabo babe nesonka kunye netheyile ekhethiweyo-itilu. Umkhwenyana nomkhwekazi babingelela umtshakazi-intombi yakhe entsha, umkhwezala noninazala-unyana omtsha. Esi sithethe sasifanisa ukwamkelwa kwabaselula ngeentsapho zabo. Emva koko, indoda kunye nomfazi kwakufuneka baphule isiqwenga sesonka: inxalenye enkulu, enye endlwini kunye nentloko. Yenza ityuwa ngokukhululekile kwaye udle, uze uphuze iwayini uze uphonse iilazi, ungaphenduli, phezu kwegxala lakho. Kweminye imimandla, kwakukho isiko ukuhamba phantsi kwetawula phantsi kwesango, kwabanye - ukudibanisa abantu abasandul 'ukutshata kunye nethawula kwaye nibone kwindawo yokuhlonipha etafileni. Zonke ezi zithethe ziya kuhobisa kunye nemibhiyozo yanamhlanje, umzekelo, intlanganiso yabaselula abasuka kwiofisi yokubhalisa kwindawo yokutyela.

Sidibana nabasanda kutshata emva kweofisi yokubhalisa

Kwenzeka njani namhlanje ukuhlangabezana nabantu abaselula?

• Ngelixa umtshakazi nomyeni befotshwa kwiiholo zeNdlu yeMitshato, iindwendwe ziya etaweni yesitrato zenze umzila wokuhlala emnyango. Ubungqina kunye nobungqina kufuneka buququzelele isihlwele, ukusabalalisa iipalali, njl, iiglasi, ulungiselele ukuvula i-champagne.
• Ngokukhawuleza ukuba abatshangatshangelwayo bevela emngceleni weendwendwe phantsi kokumemeza okuthandekayo: "Ndiyakuhalalisela!", Baqala ukuwahambisa ngelayisi, iipelisi ezibomvana kunye neentlawulo ezincinci. Kukholelwa ukuba irayisi izisa ukuchuma kwindlu, ukuchuma kwemali, kunye neepalals-uthando (ngaphandle kokuhle). Kufanelekile ngokukhawuleza ukulumkisa abo babakhoyo ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuphosa ezinyaweni zenu, ukuze ningabi mfana ebusweni. Iingqekembe kufuneka zifumane iincinci (kungeyi-5 ruble, ngokuqinisekileyo). Iipilisi zithengiswa kuzo zonke iivenkile zeentyatyambo, kuphela ukuba zilandele ngcono ngaphambili.
• AmaNgqina sele esele anike iiglasi kwiindwendwe aze athulule i-champagne. Ekunene emnyango weofisi yokubhalisa ukuba umtshakazi nomyeni baya kuzwakalisa okokuqala "Inkohlakalo!". Abantu abaselula bayaphinda baphuze i-champagne kwaye banokuphulaphula iiglasi ukuze babe nolonwabo.
• Ukudibanisa abantu abaselula kwiofisi ye-registry - umcimbi omhle kunye nenjabulo, kufuneka ukuba ifakwe kwividiyo yentsapho kunye ne-albhamu yezithombe.
• Isigaba sokugqibela - abasandul 'ukutshata bangena emotweni baze bahambe, iindwendwe, njengommiselo, uye kwivenkile yokutyela. Apho balungiselela enye intlanganiso enesidima yomyeni omtsha nomfazi.

Kufanelekile ukukhankanya ngemigaqo yokuziphatha. Inyaniso kukuba ababhalisi abaninzi kunye nezindebe zomtshato ziyakwenqabela ukufafaza abantu abancinci nokubetha iiglasi kwiingcango zabo, kwezinye iindawo, apho ihlawuliswa khona intlawulo. Ukuze ungangonakalisi umbhiyozo, amaNgqina kufuneka avume kwangaphambili kunye nokulawula, aqeshwe iqumrhu elikhethekileyo eliza kususa udoti okanye lenze ngokwabo. Ukuba ukuvinjelwa kuluhlu, iintlanganiso eziqinileyo kuya kufuneka zibekelwe umgcobo.

Indlela abantu abancinci abasuka kwiofisi yokubhalisa badibanisa kumazwe ahlukeneyo ehlabathini

Ilizwe ngalinye linamasiko alo angavamile, anomdla kunye nesothando lokudibanisa isibini esitshatileyo. Abaninzi babo bangathanda ukusetyenziswa:

EUnited States, ukuba umyeni womkhosi, oogxa bakhe basebenze phambi kwecawa ngamabini amabini baze baphakamise amakrele abo phezulu. Umbhangqwana osemtsha uhamba kule corridor.

ESweden, abasandul 'ukutshata banokubingelelwa ngesihlwele esikhulu seentombi kunye neentombi. Bememeza bebethe umkhwelo, bafefe isibini semolina. Ekuphenduleni, umtshakazi uphosa i-bouquet yakhe, kunye nomyeni-iinkcukacha zengubo encinci (ngokuqhelekileyo i-panties).

KwiCroatia, emva komtshato, kunokuba kube ngumgubuzelo kumtshakazi, i-apron kunye ne-kerchief zifakwe, kwaye emva kwexesha zidibene ngeenxa zonke apho iipula ziphonswa khona.

EScotland, emva kwangoko mthendeleko, umyeni uphosa i-handkerchief emagxeni akhe aze ambethe ngepini yesiliva. Abahlobo bentsha kufuneka bahlambe iinyawo zabo, ngoko balungiselela indlela entsha ebomini.

Isiko lokuhlamba iinyawo emva kokuba umkhosi ukhona eNdiya. Inyaniso kukuba iinyawo zomyeni kuphela zihlanjwe, kodwa uyise womtshakazi akwenzi.