Omncinci kufuneka abe kuyo yonke into. Indima ebalulekileyo ekudaleni umfanekiso omncinci udlalwa yimpahla, izihlangu, izixhobo. Izambatho ezikhethiweyo ngokufanelekileyo ziyakwazi ukuhlaziya umfazi ngokukhawuleza iminyaka elishumi!
Izambatho.
Kwiingubo zidibana ... Kwaye inkolelo yendoda yakho, njengomfazi omncinane nomhle, iqala ngeengubo zakho. Injongo ephambili ekukhetheni iimpahla zokudala umfanekiso oqaqambileyo kukugxininisa ngempumelelo umfanekiso, ngelixa ukufihla ukusilela kwayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akufanele ukhethe ukugqoka iingubo ezimfutshane, kodwa iingubo ezide zesikhwama ezithe zandisa kakhulu ubudala bakho azinjalo kuwe, kuba ixesha elide likhange, le nto ihlale ingacacanga loo nto ibhinqa loo ndoda. Ubude obude beengubo okanye iengubo ziphakanyiswe phakathi kweedolo. Izambatho zakho akufanele zibe ngumkhonto, kungcono ukukhetha ukhetho olumiselweyo olugxininisa amabele amahle okanye ubunqunu obunqabileyo. Khetha iingubo zala ma toni aya kuwe, zama ukugqoka abamnyama abancinci, ngakumbi xa kuziwa phezulu kweengubo. Umbala omnene, ubude obunzulu kunye nobude obude buyakwenza umfanekiso wakho mncinci iminyaka emininzi.
I zihlangu.
Umgaqo obalulekileyo ekukhetheni izicathulo zowesifazane osemncinci ukhangeleka ukuba "uphezulu", ngeendlela ezilula - isithende kufuneka! Ukuba awuqhelekanga ukugqoka izithende okanye ukhathala ukuhamba kubo usuku lonke, khetha ukuphakama okuncinane kwesithende-3-4cm. Abanye besetyhini basebenzisa amaqhinga alandelayo ukuba babonakale bekhangelekile: bathabatha izicathulo ngeentendelezo, njengezicathulo zokutshintsha, kwaye, xa beya ekhaya, gqoke izicathulo ze-ballet ezipholileyo okanye izicathulo eziphathekayo. Isithende siphucula kakhulu intsha yabasetyhini kunye nobulili, kwaye iphakamileyo isithende, isisiseko esiphumela kumadoda.
Izixhobo.
Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba enkulu isikhwama somfazi, omdala kubonakala. Ukuba uzama ukudala ulutsha kunye nobuhle bomfanekiso, zithenga izikhwama zeesayizi ezincinane. Umbala wekhwama ingaba yiphina. Nangona umfazi oneminyaka eliphakathi angakwazi ukufumana isikhwama esikhanyayo, ukuthabatha umkhwa wokukhanya oya kubonakala ngokunciphisa ubudala kwaye anike ukukhanya komfanekiso kunye nokudlala.
Imihlobiso.
Umfazi omncinci ukhanga amadoda ngokuchanekileyo athatha imihlobiso. Iingcali zengqondo ziye zafumanisa inyaniso enomdla kakhulu - amadoda ezingeni elincinci likhangele zonke izinto ezintle. Musa ukugqoka imihlobiso emininzi enika umfanekiso obunzima, ubudala kunye nokuqina. Nika okukhethekileyo amatye endalo kunye nokuhlobisa, ukuhlobisa izinto. Musa ukumbathisa imihlobiso emininzi, luphawu lokutya okubi. Kwanele ukucoca umzobo ngamacici, ubuhlalu kunye nesongo. Musa ukulibala malunga namasongo kunye nokugcoba. Ibhinqa elibukela izandla kunye nezipikili lixhasa ulutsha lomfanekiso walo lonke. Amadoda afana nobuhle, izandla ezithandekayo ezintle, nezikhonkwane. Ukukhanya okuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kungumlinganiselo ogqithiseleyo "weengubo" zeempiki, ezinika ingqiqo yendalo kunye nobubele bezandla.
Ukuziphatha ngokwesini somfazi.
Umfanekiso wowesifazane osemncinci awunjalo kuphela kwidatha yakhe yangaphandle kunye neempahla. Mhlawumbi esinye sezibonakaliso eziphambili zobutsha bentombi emehlweni omntu ubulili bakhe. Ukuze ube nesondo ngokukhawuleza kumadoda, kufuneka uqale uzive ngamandla akho ngokwesini, njengakho. Kuphela ngokwamkela ngokwakho ngokwenene, ngaba uya kuphumelela ngesini esahlukileyo. Zithande ngokwakho, ngoko abanye baya kukuthanda - oku akusiyo into engenanto, kodwa isiqubulo sokutyhila ubulili bakho, ngoko ke ukwandiswa kolutsha.
Ukulungiswa okufanelekileyo, iinwele, iimpahla ezintle kunye nezihlangu - konke oku sele kuhlose ukwandisa ubulili. Kwakhona indlela ephezulu yokunyusa ubulili kukubandakanya umdaniso waseMpumalanga okanye i-strip-plastics, eyaziwayo kakhulu kwabesetyhini namantombazana namhlanje. Yaye ayikho ize, kuba iiklasi zokudanisa zichaphazela ngokupheleleyo isimo somzimba wesetyhini. Indoda ayinakuqothuka ekubukeni ibhinqa lokudansa, ukuhamba kwayo kugcwele ubunqunu, kwaye amehlo akhe ashisa ngomlilo onomdla. Umdaniso onjalo, owenzelwa umntu othandayo okanye umyeni, awugcini nje ukunika ithuba lokuba uzive engumntu, kodwa uzisa izinto zobuqili kunye nobuqili ebomini bobulili. Ibhinqa lokudansa lihlala lincinci kumfazi kunye nendoda.
Umda wangaphakathi lomfazi.
Musa ukulibala ukuba ulutsha lomntu emehlweni omntu ngokuxhomekeke kwixesha elide lo mfazi uvakalelwa ngaphakathi. Ukwanda kwimiba yethu yangaphakathi kudla ngokuchaphazela izinto ezifana nokuxinana emsebenzini, ukungabikho kokulala, ukuziphatha kakubi kunye nemikhwa emibi. Ukuze uzive usemncinci ngaphakathi, kunye nokuzinza kwangaphakathi kunye nolonwabo, zama ukudibanisa umsebenzi kunye nokuphumla okusebenzayo, ncokola nabahlobo, wenze iindabuko kuwe, ukhethe ukutya okunempilo kwaye ulahle imikhwa emibi.
Ukuba le miqathango idibeneyo, uya kuhlala ukhangeleka kwaye ukhangele emehlweni omfana osemnye, kwaye, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, ulutsha luya kuba yinto nje kuphela yomfanekiso wakho, kodwa kunye nomlingiswa wakho. Ukuba ngumntwana ungaphandle nangaphakathi - akunjalo le ndlela ekulinga ukuvuselela inzala yomntu?