Ingcamango evamile kukuba emva kweminyaka emashumi amathathu, akunakwenzeka ukuba uthinteke ngokufanelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, inyaniso ibonisa okuchaseneyo: iminyaka engama-30-35 yithuba elibaluleke kakhulu lomsebenzi. Kwiminyaka engama-30, kungakhathaliseki ukuba sele ufikelele kwiindawo eziphakamileyo zemisebenzi okanye uqale ukusebenza ngaphandle komyalelo, kungafanelekile ukuthatha umphumo ophakathi kunye nokucinga: kodwa phi ukuhamba ngokulandelayo? Yilapho umnqweno wokwenza umsebenzi, ukufezekisa impumelelo yomuntu ufikeleleka. Yaye yenza oko, kholwa kum, akusayi kukhawuleza ...
Inkqubo yomsebenzi "ukuya kwi-30" ibonakala iyayaziwa kwangaphambili. Ngokuqhelekileyo malunga neminyaka engama-22 sifumana idiploma. Emva kokusebenza iminyaka emibini okanye emithathu, sivame ukuqonda ukuba enye imfundo ephakamileyo ayanele. Yongeza kulo xesha lobomi bomntu, umtshato kunye nokuzalwa kwabantwana, kwaye kuvela ukuba ngeminyaka engama-30 ukuya kwe-35 ukuya kweyesihlanu singabanga indawo "yetshokolethi" enomvuzo ophezulu. Oku kubizwa ngokuthi "ukukhula okuthe ngqo" ...
Ephakamileyo nangaphezulu ...
UTatyana, ephumelele kwisikolo, waya emsebenzini njengekhuriya kwibhanki enkulu. Kubonakala ngathi isikhundla asizange sithembise ukukhula kwakhe komsebenzi, kodwa emva kweenyanga ezintathu uTatiana wasukuma waya kubhala, waba ngumncedisi entloko, iminyaka emine kamva-usekela umlawuli, kunye neminyaka elishumi kamva wabuyela kwisebe lophuhliso.
Ukushiya "ukukhutshwa", nangona kunjalo, akunjalo ngokusemncinane. Ngoku akukho mntu uyamangalisa kukuba kwiminyaka engama-30 yomsebenzi, ngokukodwa kwabasetyhini, kuqale nje. U-Eugene watshata ngo-19, ngomnyaka wesibini we-Faculty ye-Economics yaseMoscow State University, kunye neminyaka eyisi-7 yokuqala yobomi bentsapho yayibandakanyeka kubantwana, ngelixa besebenza ixesha elithile emsebenzini wokungaqhelekanga. Xa bobabini abantwana beya esikolweni, lixesha lokuhlalutya amava akho. "Ekuhlaleni kwam akukho nto ikhonkrithi - isethi yemisebenzi engahleliweyo. Kodwa, emva kokucamngca, ndaqonda ukuba into endiyenzayo ndayisebenzisana nokuphathwa kwabantu, - utsho uEugene. - Ndinezemfundo ephakamileyo yesibini kwaye ndandineminyaka engama-29 ubudala, ndazilungela umsebenzi wam wokuqala kwindawo ekhethiweyo. Ngoku ndineminyaka engama-32 ubudala, sele ndibekwe phantsi kwinkampani, kwaye ulawulo lubona kum amandla amakhulu kumphathi. "
"Ndiyakhumbula amaninzi amabali anjalo," kusho u-Elena Salina, ochwepheshe bezakhono. - Kubalulekile ukuba ngeli nqanaba abafazi bathambekele ekuphuculeni ukuphuhliswa kobuqu, baqonde isidima sabo, bachaze injongo kunye nokwenza iimpazamo ezimbalwa kakhulu endleleni yokufezekisa. Ngoko kulula ukuba bafezekise impumelelo yabo. "
Ngaphandle kokutshintsha indawo
Bonke abafuni ukuba ngabaongameli yinyaniso. Kuthekani ukuba uthanda umsebenzi wakho kwaye awuyi kuwuthengisa kuyo nayiphi na isikhundla sobuholi? Ukuze ube nexhala ngelixesha, rhoqo unomdla kwiikhosi ezintsha kunye nokuqeqesha kwisifundo sakho, wandise uluhlu lwemisebenzi yakho, ngokufutshane, ukhule "ngokumgangatho". Ngokuphakamisa ulwazi lwakho kunye nezakhono kumgangatho ophezulu, uya kuba ngumsebenzi obalulekileyo, abaqeshi baya kudibanisa, kwaye unako ukunyanzelisa imigaqo yakho yenkampani, kwaye akunjalo. U-Elena Salina uthi: "Abasebenzi abanamava amaninzi bahlala bexhaswa ngaphezu kwexesha elitsha, nangona ukuba imisebenzi yabo ayifaki ukuxazulula iingxaki ezinzima." - Umqeshi uya kuqondwa: abantu abaselula abazange baqulunqe izakhono zobugcisa. Ngokuqinisekileyo baya kufunda kwiimpazamo, ezidla ngokulahlekelwa yilahleko kwinkampani. Ukongezelela, ngexesha elimncinci (iminyaka engama-20-26) iingxaki zomntu siqu zinomdla omkhulu kumntu kunomsebenzi wokusebenza. Abaqeshwa abaneminyaka engama-29-35, ngokuchaseneyo, banokuthenjwa, banamathele emisebenzini kwaye bazama ukufumana kakuhle ukuze baxhase intsapho, njengomgaqo, sele usungulwe. "
U-Alina, umhleli weveki enkulu, nge-34, uyaqiniseka ukuba akafuni ukutshintsha umsebenzi wakhe: "Umphathi wam ushicilela ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukukhuthaza ukuba ndibe ngumviwa kumsebenzi we-editor-head-chief of the new edition, kodwa mna ndayenqaba. Ndiyakuthanda ukubhala, kwaye andifuni ukuthatha uxanduva olongezelelweyo ... Kuyinto ebangelisayo! "U-Alina ujabulela zonke iinzuzo zeenkosi zobugcisa bakhe: uthunyelwa phesheya ukuqeqeshwa, uvuselela umvuzo kunye nobukhulu beebhonasi. "Ukuba ndiyitshintsha nayiphi na nto, iya kuba yintsimi kwipapasho, kungekhona isithuba," utsho uAlina.
Qala ukusuka ekuqaleni!
Umthetho wegolide: ukwenza umsebenzi, kufuneka ukholelwe kuwe. Kwaye akunandaba nokuba uneminyaka elingakanani. Musa ukwesaba umsebenzi omtsha, nangona umsebenzi wangaphambili awuhambelani nento oye wanquma ukuyenza ngoku. Izazi zezenkolo zikholelwa ukuba kwiimeko zanamhlanje abantu kufuneka balungele iinguqu ezinhlanu okanye ezintandathu ezinkulu kwiimisebenzi zabo ngexesha lokuphila kwabo. Umlinganiselo weenguqu kwiimeko zangaphandle uye wanda amaxesha amaninzi kwiminyaka eyi-15 edlulileyo, ukuqonda kwethu amathuba okuzibonela kuye kwanda, "kuchaza u-Elena Salina, ochwepheshe bezakhono. - Namhlanje, umbuzo othi "Ubani osebenzelayo?" Abantu baqhubeka besabela: "Kuwe." Ukhetha indawo yomsebenzi kuxhomekeka kwiimeko zeemeko kunye nemeko yezoqoqosho yangoku kwaye uyazi kwangaphambili ukuba lo msebenzi awunalo ubomi. "
Umzekelo wokuphefumlelwa ibali lika-Olga Lakhtina, owayengesabi ukutshintsha umsebenzi wakhe kwiminyaka engama-35: "Ndihlala ndifuna ukuba yingqondo yeengqondo, kodwa ngaloo minyaka xa ndiqala ukungena eyunivesithi, ingqondo yengqondo yaseRashiya yayingekho imfuneko, yaye abazali bam bandicinga nyathelo. Ndaphumelela kwi-Academy. U-Plekhanov wasebenza iminyaka emininzi njengomhlalutyi wezezimali, ngokukhawuleza ufunda umsebenzi wengqondo. Ngama-35, eqhubeka nokusebenza, ndangena kwiziko le-Psychology le-Academy of Sciences yaseRussia. Kwiminyaka emithathu ngoku ndibe yingcali yeengqondo kwinqanaba le-socio-psychological adaptation and development of the teenage "Perekrestok". Ndiyasebenza nabantwana, ndicebisa iintsapho ezisemgangathweni imeko, yenza umsebenzi wokukhusela ezikolweni, yenza izifundo ngamnye, ngegama, yenza oko ndihleli ndiphupha. "
Enyanisweni, utshintsho olupheleleyo kwimiba yomsebenzi luyimpumelelo kodwa luyindlela enkulu yokuphuhlisa. Kwimashishini amaninzi, ungakwazi ukuguqula ngempumelelo ukuzodwa, ukuhlala kwisakhiwo senkampani apho usuyaziwayo.
Into ephambili ayiyikukhawuleza!
Khumbula, kumabhayisikobho "UMoscow akakholelwa kwiinyembezi," i heroine yaseVera Alentova yathi: "Kwiminyaka engamashumi amane, ubomi buqala nje-ngoku ngoku ndiyazi ngokuqinisekileyo!" Ukuguqulela oku kuluhlu lomsebenzi, sinokuthi ngokuqinisekileyo sithi: ngamashumi amathathu sithatha isiseko sokwenene impumelelo. Ungazami ukuqhuba phambi kweenjini, usebenza iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku. Ukuze umnqweno wokwenza umsebenzi, ukufezekisa impumelelo yomntu kubalulekile ukuba ungaphuthelwa ubomi ngokwawo. Ekugqibeleni, sinika umsebenzi obuninzi bethu ubomi, kwaye akufanele ivelise imali kuphela, kodwa iyaneliseka nokuziphatha. Musa ukwesaba ukutshintsha ukuqhelaniswa kobugcisa ngokwakho kunye neminqweno yakho. Nangona ulahlekelwa yinto oyenayo ngaphambili, ngokubuyisela uza kufumana okungakumbi - ujonge umsebenzi.