Eyokuqala, kufuneka ufumane ezimbini iingongoma eziphambili: into yokuba indoda ibukela iiformsfilms, phambi koqhagamshelwano oluqhelekileyo kunye nolwabelana rhoqo ngesini kunye nomfazi wayo, kwaye liyakhuphaza kwaye licasule umfazi. I-Sexologists ikholelwa ukuba ingxaki enkulu njengaye iqulethwe ngumfazi obuhlungu. Nangona kunjalo, akusiyo yonke into engabonakaliyo.
Yintoni enika umntu u-porn.
Abafazi kaninzi, ukwabelana nomntu kulo mbandela, bayakhubeka: "Kutheni ekhangele? Akunandi kum. Ndiyakholwa ukuba xa kukho umntwana omncinci, ekhangayo, enomntwana omhle kangaka, njengami-kutheni enokubheka omnye umntu? Mhlawumbi engavamile? Okanye andiyithandi, njengowesifazane? ". Kukho, ngokuqinisekileyo, amathuba okuphuka okuvela kumgangatho oqhelekileyo, kodwa kwiimeko ezingama-90% akukho mbuzo nawuphi na ulwaphulo-mthetho okanye unyango. Inomdla onomdla onomdla womntu ophilileyo.
Ngaphandle kwala madoda asebenza ngokwemisebenzi yabo (i-masseurs, oogqirha, abaqeqeshi bamaqela e-fitness) bajongana nohamba kunye okanye ubunqunu bezimbazi zezilwanyana, wonke umntu unomdla ngokufanayo kunye noonomnye. Indoda ibheka kulula ngakumbi kunabesifazane. Kodwa lona wesifazane uyakrokraza, ucinga nje ngale ndlela: "Ewe, kodwa silala ngesibini okanye kathathu ngeveki. Ngokukhawuleza uyingxenye yokuvuswa kwakhe ngokwesondo kuchitha le movie? ". Yaye ukuba uya kwelinye icala? Le ndoda, ngokubulela kule ngxelo, ixhasa umxhelo wakhe kwizinga eliphezulu. Mhlawumbi ngaphandle kwalesi sesondo kuya kuba njalo kanye ngeveki? Kwaye oko akuthethi ukuba umfazi akayi kumncedisa. Kalula, i-libido yakhe yenzelwe ukuba ifune ukuhlawula. Ion uyayifumana.
Kwenzeka ukuba indoda idonsa kwi-porn eyekujonga ngayo amava athile. Uyamthanda umfazi kwaye ufuna ukuba ngumthandi wakhe. Olu luhlobo olunzima, kodwa umntu unelungelo lokwenza njalo. Musa ukukhawuleza ukuba ingxaki ikuwe. Mhlawumbi kungengxaki yakhe yengqondo, afuna ukuyixazulula ngale ndlela. Ulungile embhedeni? Ngaba kwenzeka ntoni kuwe ukuba awufumananga ngothando lwakhe loononopopayi? Emva koko konke kulungile kwaye kufuneka ukhangele iingxaki kwisantya esifanayo.
Yintoni na?
Ngokuqhelekileyo abafazi banomona ngamadoda abo ukuba bajonge iifoto ezingcolileyo. Njengaye, kukho i-takerasotki, kodwa andiyincinci, andiyonto, kwaye kukho konke-kuphelile. " Kodwa qondani: akunakunqwenela ukuba nomona woonografi. Emva kwayo yonke into, indoda ayiyi kukuxelela: "Ndiyadlala, ndiya kuonografi kwaye ngoku ndiya kuhlala nayo." Ngo bukhwele? Makheke akhangele, makangabi nantoni, kodwa ke uya kubuyela kumbhedlele wendlovukazi.
"Ndiyamtsalisa kakhulu, inomtsalane!" - Abanye abafazi baphukile. Ewe, mhlawumbi kunjalo. Emva koko isi sikhokelo sokuthatha isenzo somfazi. Ukuba uyamthanda umyeni wakho, faka ubuncinane umzamo ukwenza ube mnandi. Ngaba uyazi ukuba kutheni amadoda amaninzi ayethanda i-pornography? Kuqhutywe uphando, ngexesha apho kwafunyanwa ukuba indoda ayifuni "ukukhupha" ngesimo sakho sengqondo (esoloko sibi kakhulu ngenxa yokusebenza kanzima ekhaya), amava akho amava, amaxesha akho okuqala kwangaphambili, amazwi amahle, njl njl. Umntu ucinga nje ngale ndlela: "Ndivuya, ndifuna ukuphumla. Ndiza kujonga i-porno ngokuzonwabisa kwam. Andiyi kuhamba kum umfazi okwangoku, ngaphandle koko uya kumvusa de uze uwuqheke, uze uqonde oko akufunayo namhlanje ... "Oko kukuthi, ukutshatyalaliswa komfazi wakho ngamanye amaxesha akulula kakhulu umntu oqhelekileyo. I-pornography ilula - ibukeka, ikhutshiwe kwaye ikhohliwe.
Ewe, kunye nomzuzu omnye obalulekileyo: musa ukuzama ukuncintisana noononophala! Ngomlinganiselo wokuba umntu uhlale ekhumbula ukuba kwiifilimu zengcali, abadlali abaqeqeshiwe bathabatha inxaxheba, kukho ukudubula okudibeneyo, izidlo zibethelwa kwiimbophu ezininzi, kunye nekhefu ngezinye iiyure ezimbalwa. Kukho umzekelo okhethekileyo wokusebenzisa abaphindi. Ngoko ke kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo zasekhaya aziyi kukwazi ukuvelisa imeko efanayo nomyeni wakho. Kufuneka uqonde oku kwaye uyamkele njengenakwenzeka.
Xa kuziwa kwi-pathology?
Kukho umtsalane we-pornography wesilisa ufikelela emngceleni ongaphantsi kwe-diagnostic sele sele ifika. Ukuba ukwesaba ukushiya abantwana kunye naye ukuba ugijime kwiTV okanye kwikhompyutyana kwithuba lokuqala aze aphinde abuyele kwihlabathi leefilimu ze-porn. Ukuba uyaphawula nayiphi na into ejikelezileyo, akayidli, akayi kulala aze avele emsebenzini ngenxa yale ngxaki, ngoko malunga ne-mania, malunga nokuxhomekeka kwempilo.
Kule meko, le yintsimi yomsebenzi weengqondo zengqondo okanye i-psychotherapists. Ugqirha kuphela unokuchaza ukuba zeziphi iziseko kunye nezizathu zeso sihlungu. Kubalulekile ukuba uphathe umntu onjalo. Kodwa, ubona, iimeko zeeyunithi. Ukulila okuthiwa "ukuxoka", oko kukuthi, umfazi ubonakala nje ukuba umyeni wakhe unelungelo. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kwenzekayo xa umntu ebuka iividiyo zoononophelo ngokufihlakeleyo, ngokukhawuleza egqubuthela umfazi wakhe. Nantsi into ephambili ukuyiqonda: indoda (kunye nabasetyhini) kufuneka kwaye ibe neyakhe indawo. Ukuba indoda ingayinikeleli izifundo zakhe - unesizathu salokhu. Ukuba ubona "ukuthungca" kwakho, oko akuyi kukunceda ngqo ukuphucula ubudlelwane bakho bosapho.
Xoxa kangcono kunokuba uthule.
Ukuba ukhutshwe yinyaniso yokuba umyeni uthatyathwe nguonografi - uthetha naye ngaye. Mhlawumbi umntu uya kukuxelela isizathu sokuba, nonke niza kufumana isisombululo, indlela yokuphucula okanye ukutshintsha into ethile ebomini bakho bobulili. Mhlawumbi nawe uza kubandakanyeka kule nkqubo. Ukubukela ngokubambisana kwezononwabo kungabonakala kumbala nakwintsapho engapheliyo. Uya kuqonda ukuba kusekho nantoni na ongayinika yona.
Ukuba loo ntokazi inqabile ukubeka ubungqina bezonxephezelo kunye nawe kunye, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo liqinisekisa ukuba yonke into imfanelwe - makangaboni. Ungagxininisi, unganyuki kwindawo yakhe. Into eyona nto kukuba akayi kufuna kule ifilimu ngenguqu, kodwa kuphela ephazamisayo, ephumayo eqinisweni. Kwaye kwaye yena, kunye nawe, nawuphi na umntu unelungelo.