Ukuqala ulwalamano nomntu, phantse zonke iintombazana zifuna ukukwazi ukwakha ubudlelwane naye obuya kuhlala ngaphezu kobusuku omnye, iveki okanye inyanga. Kodwa uyazi njani ukuba umntu ufuna ukuchitha ubuncinci inxalenye enkulu yobomi bakhe nawe, okanye ufuna i-sex kuphela kwaye ungasebenzisi ixesha lakhe kangcono?
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Ngokutsho kwendoda eselula, kulula ukucacisa ukuba yintoni na into ayifunayo kumfana kunye nendlela yokucwangcisa ukukhulisa ubudlelwane babo. Ukuba umfana entlanganisweni yokuqala uhlala elala ngokuzilalisa, angaboni, uthi kakoyona omangalisayo, omhle, onesicatshulwa ngokwesini, ngelixa engamphulaphuli ngokwenene kwaye engayithobeli ingqalelo kwintombazana malunga nantoni na, ngoko ke ufuna ukukhawuleza. Inyaniso kukuba abantu abaninzi bayakholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba ibhinqa linokudityaniswa ebhedeni, ukuba uthembisa konke okusemandleni kwaye uzalise ngokuncoma. Nangona kunjalo, yintoni isono ukufihla, ngokuqhelekileyo kusebenza. Ukuze ungangeni kwi-bait of Lovelace, soloko uqaphele oko okuthethwa ngumntu.
Xa umfana eceba ulwalamano olunzulu nentombazana, umjonga, ngoko uphulaphula ngokunyanisekileyo oko akutshoyo, ukuze aqonde intando yakhe, iimfuno, iinjongo kunye neenjongo. Kule meko, loo mfana akayi kuhlanjululwa ngamagama, kuba akakwazi ukuthetha konke okuvela entliziyweni. Yaye ukuba indoda ibhinqa, akayi kuxoka kuye. Ngako oko, vuyiswa xa kunokuba uhlaziye umbuzo malunga nendlela ocinga ngayo ubomi bakho kwiminyaka elishumi okanye into ocinga ngayo ngomsebenzi kaMayakovsky. Ngoko, loo mfana nje ufuna ukuqonda ukuba ungubani ngempela, ukuqinisekisa ukuba lolu hlobo luyintombazana ayifunayo.
Lawa maqondana
Ngesimo sengqondo somntu unokuthi kunye nomfana wakhe. Umfana ukhangele umfazi wesibini, ubheka isifuba, umbingeleli, ukhangele ngolu hlobo. Kodwa xa intombazana ibaluleke ngokwenene kumfana osemncinci, uya kujonga ebusweni bakhe kwaye ayencome. Ngoko ke, xa usebenzisana nomfana, jonga ngokukhawuleza indlela ekukhangele ngayo. Amehlo akanayo ngaphandle kwesizathu esibizwa ngokuba sisibuko somphefumlo. Ukubukeka kunokuba kubonakalise iimvakalelo zomntu. Ukuba ubona ukuba lo mntu ukhangele kuwe ixesha elide, kwaye amehlo akhe akacaci ngokugqithiseleyo kwiintlobo zeentlobo zentando, ngoko uthanda. Uthando lokwenene uluntu luhlala lubaluleke kakhulu ngento evakalelwa ngayo. Kodwa lowo ukhangeleka umzimba wakho ngokujonga kunye nokumomotheka ngokucacileyo, mhlawumbi, amaphupha kuphela ngesondo kwaye akukho nto. Ewe, uthando alukwazi ukuba lukhona ngaphandle komnqweno, kodwa xa umnqweno ubeka phambili, akukho nto ingabikho mbuzo.
Imiqondiso yokuhamba
Isimo esinzulu okanye esinengqondo somntu sinokuqatshelwa ngempawu kunye nokunyakaza. Xa indoda isoloko izama ukuxhaswa, ibambe iqelakazi, ukuba ayilibale ukubeka ibhatyi kumahlombe akhe, ngobusuku obusika kwaye ibambe ngesinqindi, kwaye ayizami ukululaza isandla sayo, oko kuthetha ukuba unemvakalelo enzulu kumfazi. uthatha ingalo yakhe, ukhonkcela okhalweni lwakhe, phezu kwamagxa akhe, ukufihla, oku kuthetha ukuba unqwenela ukuba ukhusele, ukhusele umntu. Yaye loo mnqweno ivela kuphela kwimeko xa umfana engowesibini intombi. Ngokukhawuleza unokwazi ukwahlula ezo zibini apho abantu bathanda amantombazana kunye nalawo apho umntu efuna ukulala ngokwesondo. Oku kubonakala kwimisebenzi eyenziwa ngabantu. Kwaye, akufuneki ukugweba ukuba ngaba umntu uvula umnyango kwaye unike isandla ngesandla sothutho. Enyanisweni, lithetha kuphela ngokukhuliselwa kwakhe. Apha umcimbi uhlukile. Xa indoda ithatha isikhwama esinzima kumfazi ongenakho isikhumbuzo, xa engalibali ukunika isandla apho kunzima ukuba adlule khona, xa emane ewamkela esidlangalaleni ngesisa kwaye engaboni, oko kubonisa isimo sakhe sengqondo.
Ngesondo
Ngendlela ebaluleke ngayo ukuba umntu angene kwisondo kunye nentombazana, kuya kunokwenzeka ukuba acinge ukuba unzulu. Ukuba umntu oceba ngokwenene ukuhlala le ntombazana ixesha elide, akaze athobe ngesini. Akukho mntu uthetha into angayifuniyo, kodwa ukuba umntu uyamthanda, unako ukulinda, kuba uhlonipha umfazi kunye nesondo ngobudlelwane babo kubalulekile kuye, kodwa kungento ebalulekileyo. Kodwa kwimeko xa umntu ovela kwiintsuku zokuqala ebonisa ii-atks, ekholisa okanye esongela ukushiya, akukho buhlobo obunzima. Indoda enjalo ifuna nje ukwabelana ngombhede nomntu ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye xa ejika umntu ovuma ngokukhawuleza, uya kukulibala ngokukhawuleza ngawe. Ngako oko, kungakhathaliseki ukuba bathetha kangakanani ukuba kwintlalo yesini yinto yesintu ngokuqhelekileyo, ngokwenene, amadoda anothando angalinda kwaye ahloniphe isigqibo se-intombi yakhe. Ngenxa yokuba abafuni ukulala ngesondo , baxabisa kakhulu intanda yabo ukuba bayilahle ngenxa yokukhwabanisa. Ngoko ukuba ufuna ukuqonda ukuba umntu wakho unenjongo enzulu, musa ukukhawuleza ukungena ubuhlobo obusondeleyo naye. Abaninzi abasetyhini benza le mpazamo, bethembekile ukuba abafana abanakwenza ngaphandle kwesondo. Enyanisweni, umntu othandayo, akaze alahle umfazi ngenxa yento athetha ngayo ukulinda ngokusondeza. Ngokuqinisekileyo, abafazi bezindlu zangasese kufuneka bahambe kakhulu kwaye balibale ukulindela iminyaka. Kuyinto enhle kwaye inothando ukukholelwa kwisondo emva komtshato, kodwa ungakulibali ukuba eTemra, xa kunjalo, batshatile kwishumi elinesibhozo, kwaye phakathi kwesazi kunye nomtshato ngokuqhelekileyo kuthatha iinyanga ezimbalwa. Ngoko ke, kulo mbandela, akusadingeki ukuba uhambise intonga.
Izenzo kunye nezenzo
Kodwa, ke, kulunge ukuqonda ubunzulu bamadoda ngendlela asenza ngayo kumfazi. Emva koko, izibini eziqinileyo zihlala zingathandi ukuthetha kakhulu. Benza. Kodwa amantombazana, owaziyo, thanda ngeendlebe zawo, ulibale ngawo. Ekugqibeleni, ngokuphambukayo bathatha isimo sengqondo esinzulu sokuvuma ezininzi. Nangona, enyanisweni, umfana angatsho ukuthi uyayithanda, kuphela kanye kuphela, kodwa uya kuqinisekisa oku ngezenzo ezininzi.
Xa umfana enenjongo enzulu malunga nentombazana, uhlala ezama ukwenza ngcono. Ngokomzekelo, ukhetha isipho, ubuncinane uzama ukuthatha oko akuthandayo, kungekhona nje i-trinket. Umntu onzulu ngokuphathelele intombazana akaze aphuthe iingxaki zakhe kunye nezicelo. Unako ukuthula, kodwa uya kwenza konke ukumnceda.
Xa umntu ebona umfazi wakhe kwikamva, uzama ukuba ngcono, abe nguye onokukunika, ukukholisa. Nangona kunjalo, konke akwenzayo, wenza njalo ngaphandle kokulindela into ngokubuyisela. Unako ukuza ngehora lesibini ekuseni, ukutsho nje ndikuthande uze uye ekhaya, ungalindelanga ukuba intombazana iyakushiya ekhaya kwaye inike ubusuku obushushu. Ukunikezela isipho esixabisekileyo, akayi kuzenza ngathi angamnika into ebalulekileyo. Hayi, uya kuvuyiswa kukuba uyamomotheka. Xa umntu echanileyo malunga nomfazi, uvuyo lwakhe lubaluleke kakhulu kuye. Kuba yinto ebaluleke kakhulu kwaye uyithatha ngayo yonke imiphumo kunye neengxaki zayo, kunye nezihlobo ezingazithandi ngokukhethekileyo, kunye nabantwana abanokuzibiza ngokunyanisekileyo. Xa umntu enenjongo enzulu, akayikwesabisa nantoni na, kuba uyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba kunye nalo mfazi uya kukwazi ukunqoba nayiphi na ingxaki, kuba uyona lonwabo kuphela.