Wedding Wedding

Ubomi, njengoko wonke umntu uyazi, luhamba rhoqo. Intshukumo-oku kuquka, kunye nokudanisa. Uninzi lwabantu bathanda ukudansa, bafumana unonwabo olukhulu kule nto kunye nesizathu esihle. Ukudansa, umntu ngamnye akakwazi ukuveza kuphela umntu wakhe, ukukhupha amandla aphilileyo, kodwa utshise iikhalori ezongezelelweyo aze abonise indlela yokuzonwabisa. Emazulwini afanelekileyo, ukunyakaza kumgangatho wokudanisa kuvumela umntu ukuba akhululwe, oko kuthetha ukuba, ukuba yedwa, kulula ukwenza abantu abaqhelana nabo kunye nokuphumla. Ngoko kutheni isibini esitshatileyo, esithandana nokudanisa kunye nokuzonwabisa, singabamba iqela lomtshato wabo kwisitayela somdaniso, sizithokozise ngokwabo kunye neendwendwe kunye nolwandle lwamathandabuzo abazithandayo kunye neziqulatho, ukuqhuba kunye nokukhuthaza?

Imiba ephambili yombutho
Enyanisweni, xa ulungiselela umcimbi womtshato, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ukubunjwa kweendwendwe eziza kubakho kwimibhiyozo. Le ndlela ifanelekile emishadweni, apho kubakho ukucwangciswa kwabantu abatsha kuphela. Nangona kunjalo, musa ukuthatha yonke into ngokoqobo. Emva koko, into ephambili ayikho iminyaka echazwe kwipaspoti, kodwa isimo sengqondo somntu. Ukuba kukho umnqweno omkhulu, ngoko kunokwenzeka ukuba uququze umtshato womdaniso ukuze bonke abadala kunye nabancinci badibana kumdaniso wokudanisa phantsi kweengcamango ezingathandabuzekiyo. Ufuna ukukhetha umculo ofanelekileyo.

Ngoko, xa uqulunqa izimemo kumtshato womdaniso, kuyimfuneko ukuba uthethe isitala sakhe kwaye ukuba kuyinqweneleka ukuba isivakalisi sigqoke iingubo ezintle, kodwa zihlambuluke iimpahla kunye nezicathulo, ezivumela ukuba adlale ngokuhlwa kunye nesiqingatha sobusuku. Isicwangciso esifanayo sokukhetha iimpahla kufuneka sithotyelwe kunye nabasandul 'ukutshata ukuba baqhubeke kunye neendwendwe ezikhoyo.

Njengeholo leholo kukulungele ukukhetha igumbi elibanzi kunye nomgangatho womdaniso ovukileyo kunye nomculo okhanyayo. Ingaba ibhola yebusuku okanye i-cafe ene-bar counter kunye nezixhobo zomculo ezilungileyo. Ukuhlobisa ingaphakathi leholo, ungasebenzisa izinto ezifunwayo kunye neendlela. Apha abatshangatshangayo banikezwa ithuba lokubonisa iingcamango zabo nasiphi na isiqendu. Ingaba iibhaluni, izibane ezikhanyayo, imifanekiso eqaqambileyo okanye iinkwenkwezi ezimhlophe zephepha.

Ukwamkelwa kweCocktail
Umtshato womdaniso awubandakanyi isidlo esinomdla kunye neenguqu ezimbalwa kwisitya, nangona kungekufanelekile ukukhwela kwi-refreshments - wonke umntu kufuneka ahlale ezele kwaye evuya. Idibano kufuneka ihlelwe ngendlela yetafile ye-buffet. Etafileni ezihlukeneyo, zilungelelene neholo, kufuneka ulungiselele ukutya kunye neziglasi kunye neziphuzo, ezo ndwendwe ziza kuphathwa rhoqo. Nangona kunjalo, unganikeli iindwendwe ezinxilisayo ezinxilisayo ukuze zibonelele ngamandla omzimba nomoya. Kwi-perimeter yeholo kukho konke ukulungelelanisa ii-sofas ezimbalwa ezithambileyo ukuze iindwendwe zikwazi ukuphumla, zihleli kuzo.

Uyilo lomculo
Umtshato womdaniso kufuneka uzaliswe ngomculo omhle kuwo onke amaxesha, ngakumbi ukuba uya kubakho abameli besizukulwana esiphezulu. Akubakho ubukhulu be-disc eyaziwa kakhulu neyaziwayo, ebaluleke kakhulu, kunokuba luncedo ngakumbi ukuba umntu abe nempumelelo yokubandakanya umculo, ukuqonda imvakalelo kunye neemfuno zabantu abadibeneyo, kwaye bafumane iingoma zomhlaba wonke eziza kwenza wonke umntu adlale ngaphandle ngaphandle. Unokwenza uluhlu lwee-win-win tunes kusengaphambili, oko kwenzelwa ukubonisa ubungqina bempilo yabo.

Kuyinto enhle ukuba ingoma evela kwiithethi iya kuhanjiswa kunye nomculo ophilayo. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, kuya kuba kuhle ukumema abaculi abaningana abangakwazi ukuvuselela iindwendwe ezininzi baze babeke indlela efanelekileyo. Ukumangaliswa kwabangoku kungabakho ukuqhutyelwa komnye umdaniso wokuqhubela phambili, ngokukodwa ukumenywa kulo mbhiyozo.

Yaye ke, yintoni umtshato ngaphandle kwemincintiswano, i-toasts nezipho! Akukho nto inokuthintela ukulungiselela konke oku ngoncedo lomphathi wesipiliyoni onamava kunye nomnye umntu osebenzayo. Ubuninzi bazo zonke iintlobo zemincintiswano, kubandakanywa umdaniso, kuya kwandisekisa kule holide engalibalekiyo.