Futhi ngamnye umzali onomdla nothando kufuneka enze konke ukwenzela ukuba le holide ihlale njengale ixesha elide, kuba ngelixa umntwana ekholelwa kwindatshana yamantombazana uhlala ebuntwaneni bakhe.
Impawu ezigunyazisiweyo zoNyaka omtsha zizipho. Izipho ngokulinganayo ezifana nokufumana abantwana nabancinci, kunye nabantwana abadala, kunye nabaselula, kwaye ewe, singabantu abadala. Ngoko ke, ukukhethwa kwezipho kufuneka kuhanjiswe ngokucophelela kwaye ngokucophelela ukuba ucinge ngazo zonke iindlela, isipho esithengiweyo ngokukhawuleza, akunakwenzeka ukuba siyakuthandwa. Ngoko, ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuthenga izipho kubafundi besikolo, kufuneka uqwalasele yonke into: isixa oza kuba nayo, iminyaka yobudala. Xa ukhetha izipho, kufuneka uhlawule ngokugqithiseleyo umgangatho weempahla, kwizinto ezivela kuyo, ngexesha lokusebenza, kwinqanaba lekhuseleko.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukukhetha isipho kuya kuba lula kubafundi abancinci, kuba besasichitha ixesha elininzi ngeemathoyizi, iinkumbulo ezivela kwi-kindergarten ziphila. Kunzima ukwenza izipho zabafundi besikolo esiphakamileyo, izinga leemfuno zabo lifikelela kubantu abadala. Kwaye imfuno ebalulekileyo yezipho, ezenziwa kumaqela abantwana - kufuneka zibe zifanayo, nto yodwa, izipho zingahlulwa ngamaqela amabini: kubafana kunye namantombazana.
Ngoku makhe sizame ukuphendula umbuzo malunga nokokunika abantwana esikolweni unyaka omtsha:
Mabanga 1-4.
Kulo nyaka, abantwana bathanda kakhulu ukudlala zombini kwiimidlalo kunye kwimidlalo eyahlukeneyo. Ngako oko, njengesipho kwiqela leminyaka, iindidi ezahlukeneyo zeetheyibhile zinokunikezelwa (ukuhlukahluka kwazo zinkulu kakhulu, abazali banokukhetha ngokufanelekileyo ukhetho olufanelekileyo, kwaye bafanelekile ngokufanelekileyo kubafana kunye namantombazana, kwaye ngaphandle kwemidlalo enjalo inokukunceda ekufundeni izixhobo ezithile zesikolo), ubeka ngokubaluleka (kukho iindidi ezininzi kwiivenkile, zombini kwixabiso kunye nomgangatho, abantwana beli minyaka bayakuvuyela into enokuyenza ngayo ngezandla zabo, isipho eso siza kusikhuthaza umnqweno wokuzimela nokuphumelela impumelelo kwishishini), akukho mntwana omnye kweli qela elidala uya kunika umdlalo. Abantwana abaninzi kakhulu kule minyaka bafuna ukufumana isipho sabaqulunqi, iimboli, iimoto.
4-9 ibakala
Kule nqanaba leminyaka kuya kuba nzima ukunquma ngokukhetha izipho. Kubonakala sengathi sele beyishiye iitoni, kodwa bahlala bengabantwana. Eli qela labantwana lingahanjiswa ngeencwadi, kwaye iincwadi zokuthenga iincwadi zanamuhla zibonelela ngokukhethekileyo ukukhethwa kwezipho, ezi ziincwadi ezivela kwinqanaba leencwadi zoonobumba bezobugcisa, kunye nakwichungechunge lwezesayensi, oluya kunceda ekufundeni nasekulungiseleleni iiklasi. Njengesipho, unako ukunika iiCD ngamaziko okuphuhlisa imidlalo kunye neenkqubo. Njengoko isipho, umlindo wesandla, iintambo eziphambili kunye neefowuni eziphathekayo zingenza. Okwangaphambili kuya kuba sisipho ngesimo seTekhthi ngesigqubuthelo kunye nekloksi yeklasini, abazali bangabenza ukuba bahleleke, ngokukodwa esi sipho sifaneleke ukuba sinobubele, amaqela asebenzayo achitha ixesha elide kunye kunye nemvelo kwiimkhankaso. Njengoko ukhetho, unokuqwalasela kunye nokujikeleza kunye neefowuni zezithombe. Unqwenelekayo unokusetyenzwa kwezilwanyana kunye neziqhumiso (kukho iinkwenkwe zamakhwenkwe namantombazana).
10-11 kwiklasi
Icandelo elona lukhuni kakhulu ngokukhetha isipho esihlangeneyo. Abantwana abaselula, njengomthetho, zonke izinto eziyimfuneko kwaye ezingadingekile, sele ziyiminyaka eyi-10, abazali bezinto abazange bazinike kwaye ngokwenene kuya kuba nzima ukuzibamangaza ngento ethile. Abazali bafanele babonise ubuchule kunye nobuchule. Njengoko isipho, unokunika i-alamu eziza kuvuselela umnini wakho ngegama, njengokuba ukhetha uhambo lokuhamba ngeklasi lonke ukuhamba kweso sihlandlo, lesi sipho sinokuphelelwa ixesha ngexesha leeholide zasebusika. Utsalane lunokukhethwa lula kunye nesibonelelo esikhulu kwiinkonzo zezokhenketho zanamhlanje, unokukhetha njengokhetho lweentsuku olulodwa, oluncinci, kunye nolunye usuku, olubiza kakhulu.
Kodwa zikhona izipho ezinjalo eziya kubakho kwiqela ngalinye labafundi besikolo. Ngoko ke, ukucinga ukuba unako ukunikela ingqalelo ekunikeni abantwana esikolweni kunyaka omtsha. Oku, umzekelo, izixhobo zesikolo okanye zokubhala. Njengezipho, ipenini yesipho, iincwadi zokubhala kunye neesethi zokudweba (zinokwenziwa ngumenzi okanye ziqokelelwe ngabazali ngokwabo, zisetyenziselwa ukuquka imibala engaqhelekanga, amanqaku, iigels, iphepha) i-albhamu, iincwadi. Kwiqela ngalinye leminyaka liya kuba nesipho esifanelekileyo ngesimo sesikhumbuzo sonyaka omtsha, isigqibo esiphi na isipho esiya kuba sisigxina kuwe, sinokuba ngumfuziselo nje, kwaye mhlawumbi ibhanki yengulube. Esinye isipho isipho esihle, abantwana abaninzi abanakuyithatha iifomese kungakhathaliseki ubudala. Apha nabazali banokubonisa ukucinga okuqhelekileyo kwaye banikele izibalo ze-chocolate njengezipho ezimnandi, ngoku kukho iinkampani ezininzi kwiimarike ukunikezela abathengi uluhlu olukhulu nolungaqhelekanga lwemveliso enjalo. Isipho esiphunga sinokuthi singama-muffins kunye namaqebelengwane ngohlobo lwemixholo yoNyaka omtsha, kunye neziqhamo ezicandiweyo kwiiflefa ezihlukeneyo kwaye zizalise. Inguqu yendabuko ngokwefom yee-chocolates, i-ts'oleta, isiqhamo sisekhona kwaye siyimfuneko.
Ezinye iintlobo zezipho zingadluliselwa ukusuka kwelinye iqela ukuba zifunwa, kuba ukwahlula kwezipho ngokubhekiselele kwintando yeminyaka kunemiqathango, kuxhomekeka kwinqanaba lokuphuhliswa kwabantwana kunye nezinto eziphathekayo zabazali.
Izipho zoNyaka omtsha luyiko eliqaqambileyo nelinobubele, kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, le nto ingqalelo ekuhlawula abantwana bakho. Nasiphi na izipho zintliziyo efanelekileyo kungekhona kuphela kubantwana, kodwa nakubantu abadala.