Umvuzo wobhaptizo udlula phantse zonke iintsana. Yaye ukuba uthe wamenywa kwi-christenings, kufuneka ufike isipho kunye nawe. Kodwa yintoni oza kunika? Ukukhetha isipho somntwana akulula, kwaye ngokukhethekileyo ngosuku olubalulekileyo. Ufuna ukuba isipho sibe luncedo. Abantu abadala banqwenela ukunika amathoyizi amathoyizi, kodwa bavame ukukrakra ngokukhawuleza. Ukongezelela, ngaphezu kweenkulungwane kukho iinkcubeko ezithile malunga nalo mboniso. Kwaye kufuneka baqwalaselwe xa bekhetha isipho.
Yintoni onokuyenza xa ungokaThixo?
Izithethe zamaOthodox zichonga ngokucacileyo iziphi izipho ezicetyiswayo ukuba zinike unkulunkulukazi. Ngaphandle kokungathinteli, oothixo kufuneka afumane isethi esikhethekileyo ye rostin, equka:
- I-Kryzhma iyinaliti enkulu enhle phakathi kwendawo edibeneyo. Ithawula enjalo ingathengwa kwiivenkile zecawa okanye kwiivenkile zabantwana, ezizodwa kwiimveliso zentsana. Ukuba unina uthanda ukukwenza konke ngezandla zakhe, ngoko ke unako ukudibana ndawonye. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba ithawula lesana kufuneka lenziwe kuphela ngezinto eziphathekayo, okumele kube mnandi kumgca. Emva koko, ulusu lomntwana lukhulu kakhulu, kwaye luyakusongelwa kule thayile. I-Takzhestoet icinga kwakhona ngeetelesi zemihlobiso-i-braid enhle iya kujonga kakhulu.
- Ikhati lokubhaptizwa alibalulekanga kunokuba lihlasele. Inokuthengwa okanye i-zheschit. Ukuba i-christening yenzeka ebusika, kungcono ukukhetha ukhetho olufudumele okanye i-shirt, apho umntwana engabhinci kwaye apho uya kukhululeka khona. Kubalulekile ukusebenzisa izinto ezinobuncwane nezincinane zendalo - iplakisi okanye ikotoni.
Yintoni onokuyinikela ukuba ungumfundisi?
Izipho, ekufuneka zinike i-godfather, zichazwe ngokucacileyo:
- Umnqamlezo uyimpawu ebalulekileyo yobhaptizo. Ubekwa yintsana ebandleni, ngelixesha lomkhosi. Kwixesha elizayo lo mnqamlezo ugcinwa ubomi. Mhlawumbi umntwana wakhe uya kuwugqoka xa ekhula. Ngoko ke, kukuya kuwe ukugqiba uhlobo luni lokuthengwa kwempahla. Ukuba imali ivumelekile, ngoko unokuthenga igolide. Ukuba akunjalo, isilivere okanye ithusi iya kwenza okufanayo. Into ephambili kukuba uwele umnqamlezo ukusuka entliziyweni. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu balahlekile ngokukhetha - umnqamlezo ongcono, ngomtya okanye kwintsimbi? Apha umehluko, umxokelelwano womntwana uya kuba nako ukugqoka xa ekhula. Ukuba unquma ukuhlala kumtya, yithenge kwivenkile yecawa. Apho bathengiswa ubude obude kunye ne-clasp efanelekileyo.
- Icon. Ngosuku lokubhaptizwa kwakhe, i-crumb evela ku-godfather kufuneka ifumane uphawu kwi sipho, esichaza ingelosi ye-Guardian okanye igama lika-patron yakhe yasezulwini. Ikhonkco inokuthengwa ethempelini ngokwayo.
- Ezinye iindleko. Ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuba ngu-godfather omele athathe zonke iindleko ethempelini, ezidibene nokubhaptizwa. Ngoko ke, kungcono ukuba ufunde isixa-mali kwangaphambili ukuze ungabi kwisimo esingathandekiyo.
Izipho ezivela kwiindwendwe zabazali bazo
Oothixo abanako ukunika umntwana into into yokukhusela i-christening. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, bhetele uxoxe nabazali. Emva koko, umntwana ufuna izinto ezininzi ezahlukileyo. Kwaye into echanekileyo iya kuba luncedo kunokuba ithoyiyi, ekufutshane ngexesha elifutshane liza kuqokelela uthuli kwishelufu. I-Godparents inganika isipho esinye okanye izipho ezimbini ezahlukeneyo.
Ukuba uyamenywa kwi-christening njengendwendwe, kufuneka isipho siphinde sinikezwe. Unokunika nantoni na. Into ebaluleke kukuba sonke isipho sisuka entliziyweni. Kule meko, ungabonisana nabazali bakho ngesipho. Ungaphonsa zonke iindwendwe njengento ebiza kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, kukho ezintathu ezona zikhethekileyo izipho:
- I-Tableware. Ngokufanelekileyo, unako ukunika umntwana wakho indebe yesiliva okanye i-spoon. Kuhle kakhulu kwaye ufanelekile xa wenza umfanekiso wesipho kwisipho sesipho. Ngaphandle koko, ngexesha lethu lingabonakali ubunzima - nje imizuzu embalwa isipho siya kulungela. Kungenzeka ukuba, isitya sakho sesipho okanye indebe encinci iya kuba yinto yokuqala yokutya. Siyabulela ukuba baya kwenziwa ngesilivere, baya kuhlala ixesha elide. Ngoko ke, mhlawumbi ngolunye usuku, ezi zinto ziya kuba yinani lentsapho. Ukuba awukwazi ukufumana isipho eso, kulungile. Kuzo naziphi na ivenkile, iimpahla zezingane zingathengwa izitya zezingane ezintle, ezingayi kuba luncedo kumntwana. Ukongeza, iisethi zeempahla ziya kuhlala zihamba kakuhle.
- Zobunxi begolide. Ukuba uvumelekile ukuba uhlawule ngemali, unako ukumnika umntwana umhlobiso wegolide. Ukuba le nkwenkwe igolide yegolide emnqamlezweni iya kusondela, unako ukunika nantoni na into. Emva koko, umntwana uya kukhula ngokukhawuleza, kwaye umkhombe uza kuthwala isipho sakho.
- Amathoyizi ezemfundo. Ukuphuhlisa amathoyizi ahlala efanelekileyo kubantwana. Zathengiswa kuyo nayiphi na ivenkile yokudlala. Into efuna ukuhlawulwa xa kuthengwa, yile minyaka. Emva koko, uya kuvuma, i-puzzles yentsana enenyanga enye ayinakukwazi ukulingana, njengomntwana okhulayo womntwana oneminyaka emithandathu ubudala. Ukuba awukwazi ukuzenzela isigqibo, cela uncedo kumthengisi.
- Ibhedi. Iilinen zelinen kunye nezinye izesekeli azize zongeze. Iilinen ezintle okanye i-sweater efudumele iya kukukholisa umntwana. Kodwa ke, khumbula ukuba ilinen yelinki, eyenzelwe imvuthu, kufuneka yenziwe kuphela kwizinto zendalo, ukuze kungabangela ukuba umntwana abe ne-allergies okanye isikhubekiso sesikhumba.
- Impahla yinye isipho. Unokuthenga yonke into oyifunayo: ukugqoka, iinqanawa, i-suit, i-slide, i-blouse, i-paneties kunye nezinto. NgezoBomi ukukhula komntwana. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uthenge, jonga nabazali bakho ngobukhulu bomntwana. Ukuba iimpahla ziya kuba zizinto ezincinci, kulungile, kuba kungekudala kamva umntwana uya kukhula kuwo. Nangona kunjalo, izambatho ezincinci ziza kuthengwa ngeze. Akukhuthazwa ukuthenga izicathulo, njengoko kufuneka kukhethwe ngokuchanekileyo ngobukhulu. Emva koko, ukusuka kwizicathulo ezikhethiweyo ziya kuxhomekeka kwimpilo yemilenze yomntwana.
- Photoshoot. Ukuba ufuna ukwenza isipho sokuqala, oko kukuphela kwakho. Iifotoessions ngoku zihlala zenziwa rhoqo. Abazali ngokwabo badla ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuba bafunde abachwepheli bezakhono ukuba bathabathe eli thuba elimangalisayo. Ngoko kutheni ungabi lula ngabo? Nangona kunjalo, umntu kufuneka aqonde ukuba isipho eso asiyi kubabi. Kodwa uya kuhlala enkumbulo, ngenxa yobomi!
- Imali. Ukuba awufuni ukunika "nantoni na," ke unike imali ngemvulophu. Isipho esinjalo kubazali siya kuba luncedo kakhulu. Emva koko, bona ngokwabo banokuthenga ngemali eyinikelwe yintoni umntwana ayenayo ngokwenene. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka kwakhona siqonde ukuba nayiphi na into yezingane ayithethi. Ngoko ke, unganikeli imali encinci yemali, ukuze kungabonakali ukuba kuthetha.
Khumbula ukuba nasiphi na isipho se-christenings kufuneka sithengwe ngothando, kwaye sinikwe - kuyo yonke intliziyo. Kwakhona ungakulibali ngamanye abantwana kwintsapho, ukuba ngaba. Kufuneka bavelise ihotele encinci. Ubuncinane iilekese okanye itekisi.