Yintoni endimele ndiyinike umama-mkhwenkwe wam wokuzalwa? Kukho nawuphi na, ukukhethwa kwesipho kuya kubangela ubunzima abathile. Ingaba unyokokazi wakho "ngumntu wegolide" ongeke afundise ubomi njalo njalo, okanye ukuba ungumnyani wongqineli onenkathalo ezahlukahlukeneyo, kunzima ukukhetha isipho kumamazala wakhe. Nangona uyazi zonke iinkalo ezimbi nezilungileyo, kunzima kakhulu ukukholisa isipho esifanelekileyo. Ukuze kuncede amadoda akhethe isipho esona sikhulu kunawo wonke umamazala, emva koko uya kuyaneliseka aze aze anciphise isimo sengqondo kumfazi wentombi yakhe ethandekayo, kwaye eli nqaku libhalwa.
Kukho uluvo olusasazekayo lokuba abameli be-half half-humanity should not give gifts, in one way or another related to the house. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba lo luhlobo oluthile lwento enqabileyo yokuba indawo yowesifazane ekhitshini. Kodwa apha kukho into ekhethekileyo, ukuba ubuninzi bobulili obuhle kakhulu buchitha ixesha elide ekhitshini kwaye bahlala ekugcinweni kwendlu, ngoko baya kuncedwa ngezipho ezinjalo ukuze baququzelele kwaye baphumelele. Cinga ukuba umama-mkhwe wayenombhobho ye-microwaves, i-grinder yenyama yombane okanye inkqubo yokutya eneemisebenzi ezininzi ngexesha lobuncinci. Ngokuqinisekileyo, wayengenalo zinto ezinjalo, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba wayeza kuchitha kwizinto ezinjalo ubudala, ekhetha ukwenza yonke into endala.
Namhlanje, phantse zonke ivenkile zineenkcukacha ezahlukeneyo ezincedisayo ngoncedo lwemisebenzi yasendlini, izixhobo zasekhaya kunye nekhishini kunye nokunye okuninzi. Njengomthetho, abasetyhini abanalo ixesha lokuthenga loo nto, ukuxhamla kwindlela, enye into. Kwaye akudingeki ukuba ucinge kakhulu malunga nokunika umamazala wakho wokuzalwa kwakho. Kwanele ukupakisha kwaye uye kwivenkile, kwaye kukho ininzi yokukhetha.
Ngoko, siza ngqo kwisifundo seendlela ezinokuthi zinike umama-usuku lokuzalwa.
Eyokuqala yilezi zixhobo zasekhitshini, umama-mkhwenkwe uya kuvuyela ngokupheleleyo, efunyenwe njengesipho evela kumkhwenkwe othandekayo isonka, i-oven microwave, i-processor yokutya, umxubezeli, i-toaster, i-juicer, i-aerogrill kunye nezinye izixhobo ezincedo ekhitshini. Nangona ekuqaleni akuyi kubasebenzisa (kusekho) ubuchwepheshe obutsha, kungekudala uza kubaphulaphula kwaye bahanjiswe nabancedisi babo abayi kuba nako.
Ukongezelela, umama-mkhwenkwe uya kuhlambalaza ngeengqayi zeglasi kunye neendwangu ezixininisiweyo zeemveliso ezihlukeneyo kunye nemveliso ehlambulukileyo, iipilisi ze-pepper, i-timer okanye i-teapot.
Unokuyikholisa umama-mkhwenkwe oyintandane kunye neetekisi zekhitshi, iitrhethi ezintle, iingubo zelinen okanye iingubo zeegusha.
Isipho esihle kakhulu siza kuba ngumenzi wekhofi, i-tray enhle, i-bottle shelf yewayini, isiqwenga sesithelo, i-table yokukhonza kunye nezinye izinto ezifanayo ezinokuzihobisa ikhitshini kunye nokubonelela ngezixhobo ezongezelelweyo.
Ukugqiba olu luhlu ungasebenzisa izitya ezahlukeneyo, iisethi zeeti, izixhobo zokukhanyisa izibane, izikali, ibhokisi lezonkwa, ukufudumala kokutya okanye iifom zokwahlula ngokubhaka okuhlukile.
Musa ukulibala malunga neentyatyambo zeentyatyambo kunye nencoko yolonwabo ebusweni bakho xa usinika isipho sakho. Ibhotile yewayini okanye i-champagne, ukumanga esihlathini kunye nesisa kunye nesifiso sobuqotho kuya kuzalisekisa ingqiqo. "Umama wakho wesibini" uya kuvuyiswa kukuba unomyeni wakhe onyanisekileyo.
Njengoko ubona, umbuzo awunzima kakhulu, yintoni oya kunika umamazala wakho wokuzalwa kwakho.