Musa ukuphila, oko kukusilala, oku kukuzonwabisa. Kwaye, ukuba isiqingatha sentsapho sinceda ekulungiseleleni imibhiyozo, ngoko yinto eyimfihlo, kodwa ingabalulekanga. Ngokutsho kobungqina beengqondo zengqondo ukusuka kwindlela yobusuku bomtshato idlulayo, ubuhlobo obusondeleyo kunye nokuqonda ngexesha lokuphila komntu kuya kuxhomekeka.
Ngako oko, phakathi kwayo yonke imicimbi yomtshato ngaphambi kokuba umtshato ufune ukufumana ixesha elincinane kwinqanaba elisondeleyo. Into enokuyicinga ngayo kwangaphambili, ukuze ungayishiyi yonke into ngomzuzu wokugqibela.
Umzekelo, ukuthenga ngeenenjini uze ufumane uMoya Othandekayo Nakho Umoya ococekileyo kwaye okhangayo. Kwizinto ezinjalo ngokuqhelekileyo ziba nemfesane ngemali - nangona kunjalo zikhona iimeko ezikhethekileyo kwaye nakunoma kunjalo, akunakwenzeka ukukhangela. Ngoko ke, njengoko unako ngendlela kuya kubakho izitokisi, i-lace, i-silk kunye ne-satin. Qaphela ukuba into yakho entsha ayifanele ibekelwe kumlinganiselo omnye. Ukuba ufuna ukutshatshaza intanda yakho, ngoko uqala ubusuku kwi-corset eguquguqukayo (uya kukunika ubunzima obuncinane kunye nomkhonto okhohlisayo).
Emva "kwendlela yokuphefumula impumlo" kwindawo yokuhlambela, buyela ngesibindi kwisithandwa sakho ngomfanekiso omtsha womtshakazi okhohlisa. Umzekelo - kwi-negligee kunye namasitokethi. Kwaye emva kwama-2-3 iziglasi ze-champagne - vele uguquke kwintsimi yefesti esuka kumkhwa womtshato emlenzeni (kweli nqanaba, iinkcukacha ezingadingekile azifanelekanga).
Izambatho zangaphantsi zakho zincinci nje kuphela ekuthandweni kobusuku bokuqala bothando. Naka ingubo yelinen. Iyakwazi ukunakekelwa ngaphambili, ukuze ezinsukwini zokugqibela awukwazi ukuthenga okokuqala kwisandla sakho. Indwangu ethandwayo kakhulu "yeengubo zombhede wakho" i-cambric ne-satin. Ngenxa yokuba zenziwe ngekotoni, ziyamnandi kwi-touch kwaye "ziphefumula". Othanda amashidi esilikhi, gcinani engqondweni ukuba ziyancipha. Ngoko ke, kungcono ukuthenga umxube we silika kunye nekotoni.
Indlela yakutshanje yefashini ibhedi le-satin eyenziwe ngokukodwa kwimiyalelo yakho, ehlotshiswe ngentsimbi kwaye ihlotshiswe ngemifanekiso ekhethiweyo. Ukuba ubuza uncedo lwabaqeqeshi kwimboniso yomtshato, kholwani mna, baya kunika iingcebiso zobugcisa kwi-design, imihlobiso kunye nombala. Ngoko, nangona wena kunye nomthandi wakho udibanise ixesha elide ngaphambi komtshato, qiniseka ukuba imizamo yakho yokumangaliswa iya kuvuyiswa ngokupheleleyo.
Isinyathelo esilandelayo ekuphekeni kufuneka sikhethe indawo yaloo busuku obukhethekileyo. Kwimeko apho uhlala nabazali bakho, ugobole ngobusuku obubalulekileyo kwiimvakalelo akunakwenzeka, ngaba unokukwazi ukuthetha nge-whisper uhambe nge-tiptoe? Nangona kunjalo, oku akunjalo. Eyona ndlela ingcono ukuqasha igumbi lehotele. Kukho unako ukuyalela, umzekelo, ibhotile yewayini okanye i-champagne entle, iziqhamo kunye nokutya okungaqhelekanga. Ngendlela, kwezinye ihotele kwanawo kukho amagumbi abantu abasandul 'ukutshata kunye nomvuzo njengesipho - isitya esikhethekileyo okanye ibhotile yesiselo esihle. Njengaye kunye ne-trifle, kodwa iyamnandi.
Into kuphela onokuyithemba ngayo kumhlobo kukufafaza umbhede wakho kunye nomendo ukusuka emnyango kunye neepasal rose. Kule meko, umzuzu wokumangalisa uza kuba kuwe. Kude umzuzu wokugqibela awuyi kukwazi ukuba konke kubukeka njani kwinguqu yokugqibela. Kodwa xa ufuna ukwenza onke amalungiselelo ngokwakho, vele ulandele izimbali zakho ozifunayo uze uzibeke njengoko uthanda.
Ngamanye amaxesha abatshatileyo sele benendawo yokuhlala. Ngoko ke, unokuyijika ngokukhuselekileyo ibe yindlu yothando ngethuba lomtshato. Xa iimeko ezintle kuzo zihlala ixesha elithile. Emva koko, akudingeki ukuba ususe zonke iimpawu zeeholide ngosuku olulandelayo.
Zama ukukhumbula iingoma zakho ezizithandayo. Unokukhetha into entsha, kodwa inothando. Umculo othakazelisayo yinto ebalulekileyo ebusweni busuku.
Musa ukulibala malunga namakhandlela. Kufuneka kubekho ezininzi kunye naphi na. (Ukuba ufuna ukumbamba iinqwelo ezimbini ngeklasi, ikhandlela ziyakumnandi.) Ukuba upheka yonke into ngokucophelela, kwiinkcukacha zokugqibela - khetha i-smell ekhangayo ekukhangekeni.) I-Rose, jasmine kunye i-lavender - kunciphisa ukukhathala nokuxhatshazwa, kunika amandla kwaye kuvuselele ukukhangwa ngesondo. Le ndlela ihlolwe kungekhona iminyaka, kodwa kunokuba ikhulule iminyaka.
Ukudala umoya wezilingo nokulingana, ungasebenzisa ioli okanye ii-aromas ezibalulekileyo ze-basil, i-ylang-ylang, i-orange kunye naluphi na izithelo zegrrus ezifaka isandla kwimveliso ye-hormone oxytocin. Ivuselela umnqweno wesini.
Xa usuqedile onke amalungiselelo angaphambili, khumbula imithetho embalwa.
Ngomhla wokugqibela ngaphambi kokubhiyozela, kufuneka ufumane ubuthongo obuhle. Emva kwakho konke, kunye nezona zicoceko ezilungileyo aziyi kufihla ubuso bakho obukhathele. Ukuba nantoni na ihlala ingagqitywanga - ungayithobeli ingqalelo. Uza kutshata kuphela, ngoko ke zonke izinto ezincinci asinalo xabiso elinjalo ukuphazamisa isimo sengqondo.
Ngexesha lomthendeleko, zama ukungasebenzisi kakubi ukutya kunye notywala. (Oku kufuneka kucebiswe kwaye kuthandwe), unokuzama ukunyaniseka ngosuku olulandelayo. Ngokufanayo, konke akunakudliwa. Kutheni ukhulula umzimba.
Umtshato wakho nobusuku bomtshato ziiyure ezingama-24 zokulawula kwakho. Ihlabathi liphela kuphela malunga nabasandul 'ukutshata, ngoko ke ezinye iingxaki ziya kwimvelaphi. Ngendlela, ukuzisombulula usenokuba nobomi bentsapho obude.
Ungaphuthelwa umzuzu wakho oqaqambileyo lonwabo novuyo, uthando kunye nethemba, imidlalo yezesondo kunye nokuvuma okunyanisekileyo kothando. Kwakungekho nto uL. Tolstoy ayibhala kuyo enye yemisebenzi yakhe: "Thatha umzuzu wenjabulo. Zenze uzithande uze uthandane ngokwakho. Emva kwakho konke, uthando luyodwa into ekufanelekile ukuhlala kweli hlabathi. "