Ewe, ngoko. Eli bhinqa layeka ukuba ngumntu oqhelekileyo, ongabandakanyekanga umfazi, ngoku usebenza kwisayensi, ezemidlalo, kwishishini, kwezopolitiko, lo wesifazane wahamba emva kwesondo, wathatha i-sambo, ibhola lebhola, ibhilididi, waqala ukusebenza kumongameli. ... uluhlu lunokuqhubeka ngonaphakade. "Yintoni ekhethekileyo ngoku?" Le ndoda iya kucela. Yaye inyaniso yokuba ngelixa lingapheli ukubeka iliso kwindlu, ifundisa abantwana kwaye ibonakale ikhulu. Oku akuyena wonke umntu.
Umfazi wanamhlanje umela ngokucacileyo oko akufunayo. Yaye ufuna yonke into! Ufuna imisebenzi, imali, imoto, indlu, izambatho ezintle kunye nentloko yehashe elimhlophe. Nangona kungekho nkosana, i-wumen yanamhlanje ayihlali kakubi. Xa umfazi engenawo, kufuneka akwanelisekile ezininzi.
Umfazi wesimanje akayi kuhlala kwaye ulinde kwiwindow, xa bonke ubutyebi behlabathi beza kuwela entloko, uya kwenza konke. Kubandakanya, uya kuphumelela intliziyo yendoda ayithandayo. Ngexesha elifanayo, akaqapheli nokuba uya kuzifumana njani kwiinkanethi ezikhethileyo. Yaye yena uya kuvuya ukuba wangena kubo. Emva koko, uya kuguqa, agqoke, atyiswe kwaye athathwe ngomusa. Kodwa umfazi wanamhlanje akadingi ukuba nomhlanjesi ukumlinganisa naye - kusebenza kwakhona, ke, mntakwabo, kufuneka uphuthumele ukuze ungayithwali le ntombazana.
Kwishishini, umfazi wanamhlanje akanayo alinganayo! Unako ukuxhuma nayiphi na ibhande! Kwimeko apho, ibhinqa lingaba nobudlova kunomntu. Uhlala esifazana, esilumkileyo, elumkelekileyo kwaye egxininisekile. Ngelo xesha, akayi kudibanisa ukucela iingcebiso ezivela kumadoda, kodwa uya kuyenza ngolo hlobo kunye nekhontrakthi enoba ngubani oya kuvuyiswa kukucebisa. Yaye uyayisebenzisa ngokuqinileyo!
Intloko yowesifazane wesimanje uzele iingcamango ezahlukeneyo! Ulungele ukwabelana nabo kwaye uzalisekise.
Ngexesha elifanayo, kufuneka ahlale ebonisa ubungqina bakhe, ukuba ayengaphakamileyo kwamadoda, ngoko ubuncinane ukulingana nabo. Kwenzeka kuyo yonke indawo: eofisini, endleleni, kwimidlalo. Owesifazane wanamhlanje uyavuya xa kuphela. Ngaphandle koko, akayi kuphumla ade aphumelele, oku kukwazi ukuzenza. Yonke imikhosi yayo iya kuphoswa kuyo, iya kusebenza ebusuku, iya kuzo zonke iindidi zezifundo, iya kuhamba ngentloko yayo xa kuyimfuneko.
Ewe, ngamanye amaxesha umfazi unengqiqo ngakumbi kunomntu, uyamnceda ukuba aphile kuluntu wanamhlanje, kumnceda ukuba asinde ukuhluleka, kunceda ukulibala izikhalazo ezibangelwa ngabantu. Konke oku kunceda abasetyhini abangakhuselekanga nje ukuba baphile.
Nangona kunjalo, unesizungu. Yedwa yedwa kwaye ingacacanga ukuba ingaba yindoda eyomeleleyo yedwa. Emva kwesigqubuthelo somntu okhuselekileyo, onokwanelisayo kunye ophumelelayo ofihlakeleyo, obuthathaka. Inentliziyo yakhe isengumfana omnye weTurgenev. Usaphila uthando kunye nothando.
Bathandekayo bethu madoda, bathande, aba bafazi banamhlanje, kuba konke akwenzayo konke ngenxa yakho. Ufuna nje ukukholisa.