Oku akuthethi ukuba abafazi abanandaba nabakhethiweyo. Ngokulula, ngexesha eliza kumtshato, ixesha lokutshiza i-candy, lihlala linomnqweno woba kunye ngonaphakade. Kwaye amantombazana afuna ukugubha umkhosi. Ukususela ngosuku lokuqala, xa ukhethwe ngumntu kunye nentliziyo yakhe emphefumlweni womfazi wesikhathi esizayo, uxanduva lweholide enkulu ebomini. Yaye le mvakalelo imshiya iintsuku ezimbalwa emva komtshato. Kubonakala ngathi ekukhanyeni kweemeko zakutshanje, abafazi bayakwazi ukuphumla, kuba ngemali unokuyilungiselela umtshato othi nookumkani babeba nomona. Kodwa, ngaba kuyimfuneko ngokwenenekazi? Emva koko, imele yonke into ngendlela yayo: yintoni imibala kunye neebhola eziza kuhlobisa iholo, yiyiphi i-bouquet (i-wreath) eya kuba kumatshini, yeyiphi imilinganiselo yembala ekufuneka iyenze kwiholo kunye nokuba amaNgqina kufuneka agqoke njani. Konke oku kuhlala kumagxa athathaka omtshakazi, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha abantu banceda. Nangona, akusiyo imfihlelo eninzi kwiimeko, ezi mfanelo zithathwa ngamantombazana ngokwabo.
Umhlobo omhle kunye nomncedisi kule shishini ngumbungqina oza kunceda ukuba angayilungiseleli kuphela umtshato, kodwa unembopheleleko yokubonakala komtshakazi, ngenxa yezidlo, ukutya kunye nangomdla womtshato. Yingakho a mangqina asemasondweni. Kwaye ukuba uthetha ingcebiso yomtshayeli wabacebisi ubuncinci, ubungqina buya kunzima kakhulu. Ewe, ukuba umgwebi ngokwawo awubonakalisi nantoni na iinqwenela zokugqoka neempahla. Ngoko ke, sinika iingcebiso ezimbalwa zamangqina, eyona nto ingundoqo: ingubo engayi kukhethwa ukuba ubungqina bomtshakazi.
Ngoko, makhe siqale ngento engathandekiyo ukuba sibonakale ingqina kumtshato, ukuze singabangeli imibono kunye neengxoxo!
1) Engavumelekanga kwintombi yomfazi ibonakala ngengubo emhlophe. Oku kungenxa yokuba yonke ingqalelo yomtshato kufanele ibe ngumtshakazi kuphela, kuba ngu-heroine womhla, kwaye ubungqina kunye nesambatho sakhe kunokuphazamisa ingqalelo kumtshakazi. Isambatho esimhlophe sobungqina ngokuqhelekileyo siyicinga ifomu elibi. Nangona umtshakazi enqumle ukungahoyi iingubo ezimhlophe zeqhwa aze agqoke i-pastel, isanti okanye ibomvu, akukho ndlela yokuziphatha yokugqoka ingubo emhlophe. Ingqungquthela kufuneka ikhumbule ukuba emtshatweni uyisandla sokunene somtshakazi, kungekhona umlingisi obalaseleyo. Ngoko ke, intombazana leyo ifanele ibe yinto efanelekileyo. Ukuba ukhethwa njengesiqabane somtshato, khumbula ukuba imbobo emhlophe ivinjelwe kuwe!
2) Kuyaqondwa ngokumhlophe ngamhlophe, kodwa ngokumnyama, lo ngumbuzo ovulekileyo namhlanje. Emva koko, ngokuphindaphindiweyo iintombazana zivela kwimibhiyozo enjalo kwimpahla emnyama, efuna ukubonisa isidima salo mfanekiso, ngenxa yokuba umbala omnyama ungummiselo. Ngelo xesha, bayalibala ukuba beza kumthendeleko, umthendeleko, kungekhona emncintiswaneni "Ngubani ohle kakhulu". Hlalani nikhumbule ukuba ukuba umenyelwe emtshatweni, ngoko-ke imiphumo yokubhiyozela iphathwa kuwe, ubuncinane ngokuhlonipha. Nawe ubungeke utyhafise ukubonisa intlonipho kwaye ungene nento ethile yokutya kunye neqaqambileyo. Lo mgaqo usebenza kuwo wonke umntu ngaphandle kokungabikho, kodwa ngokubhekiselele kumangqina-oku kubakho incoko ehlukeneyo, kuba ukuba ivela emhlophe - iyinto engcolileyo, ibe yinto emnyama - ayikho into engcolileyo.
Umfazi kuphela unokukwazi ukunxiba ingubo enjalo ngumbungqina, kodwa kwanombuzo wombala wengubo enjalo uya kubukeka uyisidenge. Ngoko cinga ngamaninzi ngaphambi kokuba ugqoke loo ngubo.
3) EliNgqina lifuna ukuphawula malunga neengubo zemigca ye-asidi. Baya kuphazamisa ingqalelo kumntu ophethwe ngumbhiyozo aze acaphukise iindwendwe. Ngokuphathelele ezi ntyatyambo, zilungele umhlobo wezenzakalo, kodwa umtshato ozukileyo ozokwenza. Baya kukhangelelana ngokugqoka umtshakazi kwaye baya kuncedisa ingubo yakhe.
4) Awukwazi ukukhetha ingubo kunye ne-paillettes kunye nokukhanya okukhulu. Oku kwakhona kuya kuphazamisa ingqalelo kumtshakazi, kwaye umgaqo wakho oyintloko "unene" lomtshakazi, kungeyona into ephambili yokuqwalasela. Ukongeza, i-sequin kunye nokukhanya kwiingubo zijongwa njengezinto ezimbi kwaye zibukeka zizihlamba. Ngoko cinga izihlandlo ezilishumi phambi kokugqoka ingubo enjalo. Ukuba awufuni ukuba yi-epicenter yengxoxo.
5) Isambatho sobungqina siyaxhomekeke kwiminyaka yakhe. Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ubungqina kufuneka bubekwe kuphela kwengubo, kodwa ayikho. Ngokuqinisekileyo, okokugqibela, kunika ubufazi, kodwa ungacingi ngemibono, kuba i-skirt okanye i-trouser suit of shades ehloniphekileyo ayiyi kubukeka iluncedo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iifom ezimnyama kulo mongo azifanelekanga, kodwa akufanelekanga ngaphandle kokuphela. Unokukhetha umkhwa omnyama okanye ibhulukwe i-blouse kunye nejacket ngokushicilela okuthakazelisayo, yindlela yokuphumelela yokuphumelela! Musa nje ukugqoka ingubo emnyama kunye nebala elimhlophe, ngenxa yokuba awukho utitshala esikolweni kwaye kungekhona isekela likaRhulumente weDuma, le nhlanganisela ayinqatshelwe.
6) Kwakhona, amangqina akufanele afake iingubo ezimfutshane okanye ezide. Ingubo emfutshane ifomu engalunganga. Kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba uyisandla sokunene somtshakazi kunye nomhla womtshato uza kufuneka ugijime uze ungabi ngathi, ukuqhuba, okungahambisani nesambatho esifutshane. Khawucinge nje ukuba iindwendwe ziya kukuphendula njani, kodwa ucinge nangendlela ebonakala ngayo ubuso bakho xa ubukela i-video emtshatweni kwaye uza kubonwa ngokukhawuleza ngeengubo zangaphantsi zakho.
Kwakhona, awukwazi ukugqoka iingubo ezide, ngenxa yesizathu esifanayo sokuba ufanele usebenze. Kuya kuba bubuqili ukukhangela xa ukugqoka kwakho kwinqanaba elincinci litshitshiswe ngumbungqina, uhamba ngapha nangapha, okanye wena ngokwakho, ukuyichitha ngesithende sakho!
Ngako oko, ubude bengubo bunokuba luphezulu njengokuba inani lakho livumela. Inzuzo yeengubo ezide kukuba abafihla imilenze enhle. Okukhethiweyo kukukho.
Kwaye umthetho wokugqibela kodwa obaluleke kakhulu! Wena uyisandla sokunene somtshakazi, ungafuni ukumcima, akukho mntu uya kuwuxabisa, ngaphandle kokuba abantu abanobuqili. Bonke abanye baya kukujonga ngenyameko. Okukhethwa kukho okulungileyo kukugqoka ubude obude, umbala we-pastel kwaye ungenakunqumla.